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Topic: Based on these aspects which guy would I be more sexually compatible with?
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ChildofVenus
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posted May 06, 2016 12:55 PM
  
I have these aspects in synastry and composite with two different guys. I'm just trying to figure out which one I would be more compatible with. With the first guy I have Venus opposition pluto in synastry chart
Venus trine pluto in composite
Venus trine Pluto in the Davison
Mars trine Jupiter in Davison
Saturn quntile Venus in Davison
Venus trine Pluto - in composite
Mars trine Mars
Mars trine Moon
Pluto trine Moon
Venus square Mars
Pluto is in opposition to Venus
Venus square Saturn
Mercury sextile Saturn
Mercury square Saturn
Mars trine Saturn
Venus trine Neptune double whammy
With the second guy I have
Saturn sextile Saturn
Mercury sextile Venus
Venus sextile Saturn
Mars conjunct Pluto
Mars square Mars
Pluto opposition Sun
Saturn square Mars
Mars sextile Mercury - composite
Pluto trine Venus
Sun square Pluto
Sun oppoition Sun
Mars sextile Jupiter
Venus conjunct Mars in davison IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted May 06, 2016 06:14 PM
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ChildofVenus
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posted May 06, 2016 06:15 PM
Really? Why not the first guy? We have Mars trine Mars in synastry. There are more sexual aspects between me and the first guy than there is with the second guy.
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
2ng guy
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LaceyLeigh
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posted May 06, 2016 07:43 PM
I like the Mars square Mars, Sun/Pluto double whammy, Mars conjunct Pluto and Venus conjunct Mars in Davison. Everything with the second guy seems more prominent.lIP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted May 06, 2016 08:11 PM
There isn't a Sun/Pluto double whammy. I also have Sun square Pluto, Sun opposition Moon, Moon square Pluto and Venus square Jupiter in composite with the first guy. We also have pluto square sun, jupiter conjunct Venus and Saturn trine Mars in the Davison chart. quote:
Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
I like the Mars square Mars, Sun/Pluto double whammy, Mars conjunct Pluto and Venus conjunct Mars in Davison. Everything with the second guy seems more prominent.l
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ChildofVenus
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posted May 06, 2016 08:32 PM
I asked on another forum about the aspects I have with the first guy. I was told that the relationship would have passion and good sex. This is why I think I'm more sexually compatible with the first guy. With all those pluto/venus aspects and the Moon - Mars aspect. Reading about Mars square Mars aspect this says that it can indicate discordant sexual styles
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!sexual-synastry/c1bxb IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted May 06, 2016 09:29 PM
Why would you ask a question if you already have the answer you want?
Are just going to argue with the ppl who are kind enough to look at your aspects and answer you, just because they don't give the answers that support what you want the answer to be?
Ppl here are giving their honest opinion to help you, if you cant respect and appreciate that, then dont open a thread and ask for help. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted May 06, 2016 09:47 PM
I always appreciate people's help I just thought the sexual compatibility with the first guy was better. But I guess I was wrong I know everyone has their own opinion. It get's confusing when you get opinions from so many different people. Or when you read about the different aspects. For example that link I posted where it says that Mars trine Mars is a great sexual aspect. But then the above poster stated that Mars square Mars is more potent. So then what's the correct answer?That's what I mean.
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Why would you ask a question if you already have the answer you want?
Are just going to argue with the ppl who are kind enough to look at your aspects and answer you, just because they don't give the answers that support what you want the answer to be?
Ppl here are giving their honest opinion to help you, if you cant respect and appreciate that, then dont open a thread and ask for help.
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Gabby
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posted May 06, 2016 09:55 PM
Its not an absolute either way, there will be positives in both synastries. Honestly your the only one who can say whats hotter, because its you feeling it and your preference.
Some ppl love the intensity of squares, other find they too frustrating, so it depends mainly on what you like. If the first synastry feel hotter than you have your answer.
Somene else may prefer to feeling the synastry of the second chart...live life to find out these answers, its the best way to learn about how aspects actually feel.IP: Logged |
ScorpieScorp
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posted May 06, 2016 11:33 PM
I'd say the first guy.A lot of Pluto Venus going on--and that Venus/Mars is going to be hot. IP: Logged |
Vajra
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posted May 07, 2016 03:17 AM
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ChildofVenus
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posted May 07, 2016 07:44 AM
Ok well I have Sun square Pluto and Sun opposite Venus with the first guy. Venus/Sun is a good aspect. I know it's all different from everyone and that people like certain things. But I have read about the different aspects and Mars trine Mars states that the two people like the same things sexually. Of course that may not always be the case. Then someone told me Venus square Mars indicates sexual incompatibility which I'm not so sure about. quote:
Originally posted by Vajra:
Yes there is, you listed Pluto opp. Sun and Sun sq. Pluto yourself in the 2nd synastry. What you and the partner each find hot depends on your natals btw, so just giving out synastry aspect lists is not going to help you much to answer your question. For instance, if someone is very demure and soft, a BDSM type synastry is not going to appeal to them and vice versa. Some people need fireworks and drama, others want peace. Some like romance, some just want no frills sex. This is determined by their own natal chart placements (not just aspects, but sign and house placements plus aspects - a Taurus Mars in H1 has a different sexual nature than an Aqua Mars in H12 and so on), and it depends on how they grew up (were they shamed for sexual feelings, for instance, developing guilt or repression?) which you can't easily see from just the chart in enough detail although it can give some hints. Finally, if someone's body odor or tone of voice or style of movement doesn't appeal to the other person, the sex isn't going to be so great either, if it even comes to that in the first place. But I doubt someone can show you where to find body odor or voice tone compatibility in the charts. Better to use one's nose and ear for that.
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margym0o
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posted May 07, 2016 08:21 AM
Are you trying to decide who you should sleep with? I would think you should already know, if you've spent time with either of these men. You would definitely be vibing with one in such a way that would make you want to sleep with him. If you're not, you shouldn't be debating this with strangers on the Internet. It's your life. You will never get an answer 100% because everyone has different opinions. What they are trying to say is Mars sq. Mars can cause the heat needed for some people to get excited about sex. The trine might be too boring because there's no variety in your styles. Same with Venus sq. Mars. You won't know until you do it. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted May 07, 2016 08:28 AM
So having all those Venus/Pluto aspects with the first guy wouldn't cause strong sexual attraction? and Venus square Mars? That Venus opposition Pluto aspect is a strong one it's not like the trine where it's so easy. quote:
Originally posted by margym0o:
Are you trying to decide who you should sleep with? I would think you should already know, if you've spent time with either of these men. You would definitely be vibing with one in such a way that would make you want to sleep with him. If you're not, you shouldn't be debating this with strangers on the Internet. It's your life. You will never get an answer 100% because everyone has different opinions. What they are trying to say is Mars sq. Mars can cause the heat needed for some people to get excited about sex. The trine might be too boring because there's no variety in your styles. Same with Venus sq. Mars. You won't know until you do it.
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Gabby
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posted May 07, 2016 11:41 AM
Id say 1st guy, but really you cant know anything unless you know how tight these aspects are....can you add the orbs? IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted May 07, 2016 01:45 PM
I don't have that many sexual aspects with the second guy only 10 compared to having 16 with the first guy. With the first guy I also have Pluto/Persephone aspects with him in synastry, composite and davison. So I think that adds to the sexual attraction as well. Another member gave me a great explanation about Pluto/Persephone. Stating that it was about sexual transformation I believe if I remember correctly.
First guy
sun opposition venus -0 20a
Pluto oppsition venus -7 28a
Pluto trine moon 6'00
Pluto trine Mars 4'50
Venus biquntile Moon 0'46
Venus square Mars 6'54
Pluto trine Venus -0 41 - composite
Saturn sextile Mars -4 24
Pluto square Sun 7'24
Pluto square Moon -5'19
Saturn quntile Venus 1'25
Saturn trine Mars -5'0
Pluto sextile Venus -1'10 - Davison
Pluto square Sun -8'55 - Davison
Venus trine Neptune - Double Whammy - 9'40 and 8'14
Mars trine Mars - 4 '19
Second guy Sun conjunct Pluto 0'55
Mars square Mars -1'34
Pluto oppsition Sun - 7
Neptune quntile Venus - 0'01
Sun square Mars 5'6
Pluto sextile Venus 1'02
Neptune conjunct Venus
Pluto sextile Venus - 2'0
Sun square Pluto -5'34
Mars conjunct Venus 9'05
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Id say 1st guy, but really you cant know anything unless you know how tight these aspects are....can you add the orbs?
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LaceyLeigh
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posted May 07, 2016 02:40 PM
Are you Venus or Mars in the square? What about Venus opposite Pluto?IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted May 07, 2016 02:49 PM
He's Venus in the Venus square Mars aspect. And I'm Venus in the Venus opposition Pluto aspect. quote:
Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Are you Venus or Mars in the square? What about Venus opposite Pluto?
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deptic
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posted May 07, 2016 03:16 PM
What would Uranus/Lilith square synastry mean?IP: Logged |
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