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Topic: Mars/Mars aspects in Synastry
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awakemer Knowflake Posts: 1014 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 10, 2016 10:04 PM
All my friends and I , ex boyfriends we all shared either mars conjunct mars or mars square mars in close aspect like less than 5 degrees. That is intense. I have it with my brother too. I have mars in 7th house natally.. I was starting to think everyone is driving me mad until i saw this pattern in the synastry. the 10 people in my life right now we all share this aspect. For the most part they all rub me the wrong way.. all the negative mars aspects in our interactions come out. Bluntness, rudeness, insensitivity, competition, stepping at each others toes, invasions etc. I was thinking am i going mad or is there something really wrong here?? Any experience with this aspect?IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 726 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted May 10, 2016 10:11 PM
How's the conjunction? Still irritating? What sign is your Mars in?IP: Logged |
awakemer Knowflake Posts: 1014 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 10, 2016 10:29 PM
Cancer. my ex crush had mars conjunct my mars his was first degrees of leo.. and my ex bf.. There was a lot of fighting and arguing.. pluto squared the mars both ways in synastry too which is not fun. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 622 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 10, 2016 11:11 PM
What about Mars trine Mars in synastry?IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1199 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 10, 2016 11:30 PM
Had Mars square Mars with my ex husband. We were together for 10'years. Too competitive. Like a ware zone. I never want to experience it again. It was exhausting. IP: Logged |
awakemer Knowflake Posts: 1014 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 10, 2016 11:57 PM
EmGem.. what was your other mars aspects together? I'm curious.IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1199 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 11, 2016 12:05 AM
wow i just realised that it was a very wide square at 9 degrees so maybe it was something elsemars sq mars 9 degrees my mars sq his venus 0 my mars conj his saturn 9 my mars semisquare his pluto 2 his mars semisextile my sun/mercury his mars square my saturn 6 his mars opposite my uranus 6 his mars inconjunct my neptune 2 his mars conj my asc 4
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awakemer Knowflake Posts: 1014 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 11, 2016 12:21 AM
Maybe the 9 degree is felt.. Mars/asc might be competitive as well. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 726 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted May 11, 2016 12:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by awakemer: Cancer. my ex crush had mars conjunct my mars his was first degrees of leo.. and my ex bf.. There was a lot of fighting and arguing.. pluto squared the mars both ways in synastry too which is not fun.
Wow. That's interesting, I guess the squares to Pluto didn't exactly help the "cause".
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CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted May 11, 2016 08:32 AM
Would this mars conjunction be felt?22.41 Aquarius and 1.16 Pisces That's a 8.35 orb and different signs..Falls in my 5th house and his 11th. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 17625 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 11, 2016 11:24 AM
I had the square with my college boyfriend, less than 2° orb.His Mars @ 14 Virgo, my Mars @ 16 Gemini. Because my Mars is almost exactly quincunx my 15 Cap sun, this was quite a problem...I was attracted to him even when he was criticizing me...I was seeing the validity in his criticism. Often, it didn't feel comfortable, but I learned a lot from him. Basically I considered it another kind of relationship...more like a "school of hard knocks" than a romance. I wouldn't have gone for that except his Virgo Mars was so central to my chart, completing a mutual grand cross, in some ways his Mars was just hard for me to ignore. I would break up with him, see him around town looking hot as blazes, and it was like moth to flame. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 17625 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 11, 2016 11:35 AM
Meanwhile my other ex had Mars @ 12 Libra, trine my Mars. Just another reason we were in sync. In photographs even when we couldn't see each other we often had the same expression. Mutual respect to such an extent that it was also problematic. Sometimes we hurt each other but wouldn't say it. It was typical for us to reveal to each other that something had bothered us...years after the fact. Perhaps there wasn't a strong enough negative feedback loop there. Or perhaps negativity is overrated. LOL...I don't know. IP: Logged |