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VelvetPriestess
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posted May 24, 2016 09:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VelvetPriestess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anteros in synastry, what does it mean in aspect?

What could the Anteros of a man conjunct a woman's sun mean? Would this mean that he feels his love unreturned from the woman or that he isn't likely to return her love, or something else?


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posted May 24, 2016 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haven't heard of the asteroid. But, just looking it up briefly, it sounds like he is the God of requited love. Right?

I'd say Your sun ( ego) conjunct his Anteros means he accepts your identity and who you are as a person.

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posted May 25, 2016 02:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anteros is like a mirror. He reflects back the feelings and behaviours shown him.

For example my Anteros is exactly conjunct Mr Sag`s Valentine.
Actually it was only through him being so very attentive to me, that I started taking real notice of him.

So in my experience Anteros gives back what is given to him, but then seems to do so in an intensified way. like a magnifying glass for the others planets.

Not sure how that would be in terms of the Sun, as the sun just IS, and does not really do anything. I`d go with the interpretation of the previous poster here.

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posted May 25, 2016 07:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunnya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And Anteros conjunct North Node exact in synastry?

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posted May 25, 2016 12:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
not sure but maybe the North Node person becomes aware of their purpose by being with Anteros?

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posted May 27, 2016 07:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunnya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe, not sure Ceri. I am the North Node and I am still figuring this one out. I have some ideas but I don't think its the Anteros-NN interaction on its own.

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posted May 27, 2016 07:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don`t think so either. There must be something else additionally. on its own to be honest it feels strangely static to me.

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posted May 28, 2016 07:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VelvetPriestess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Anteros is like a mirror. He reflects back the feelings and behaviours shown him.
For example my Anteros is exactly conjunct Mr Sag`s Valentine.
Actually it was only through him being so very attentive to me, that I started taking real notice of him.

I think I'm going to do a bit of research here because Anteros just confuses me yet.. the mirror thing.. I nearly get it but don't. Yours is a good example, if Anteros reflects back what is given to him, when conjunct the sun of another it might only give attention when noticed himself? When conjunct a love asteroid, when love is shown it is reciprocated, if it conjuncts the Moon, it responds emotionally to emotion shown, etc...

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posted May 28, 2016 07:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VelvetPriestess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't think I explained what I meant very well, but hopefully you get the gist. He responds to the nature of the planet or asteroid when it is expressed.

I asked the tarot cards what Anteros does when he conjuncts in synastry and got: Justice, Emperor, World. So that is a very strong reading/reaction. I'll have to have a think about what it might mean.

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posted May 28, 2016 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VelvetPriestess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did another reading which makes sense with the legend of the God. The cards say that the meaning of Anteros in synastry is: 9 cups, wheel, queen swords.

This makes sense with the legend. This means that Anteros means strong fated love, but if the love is not returned Anteros becomes the avenger of unrequited love - of the myth.

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posted May 28, 2016 02:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VelvetPriestess:
I think I'm going to do a bit of research here because Anteros just confuses me yet.. the mirror thing.. I nearly get it but don't. Yours is a good example, if Anteros reflects back what is given to him, when conjunct the sun of another it might only give attention when noticed himself? When conjunct a love asteroid, when love is shown it is reciprocated, if it conjuncts the Moon, it responds emotionally to emotion shown, etc...

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posted May 28, 2016 06:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VelvetPriestess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did some more card readings to help untangle Anteros. I asked how the Anteros feels about the Sun person when conjunct their Sun and got the Hanged Man, Tower, and Prince of Wands.

This is powerful and transformative, like being struck by lightning. The Sun person also gets the tower, followed by the 10 of cups, which is about the power of love.

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posted May 29, 2016 04:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that is fun and intriguing with the tarot cards.

Can you do Anteros-Valentine and Anteros-Sappho as well?

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posted May 29, 2016 07:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunnya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And Anteros conjunct North Node too pretty please?

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posted May 29, 2016 08:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I certainly wouldn`t base my interpretation only on the tarot readings, but they are intriguing nevertheless, so what I personally got, (but VP, can you do a pull, too?):


Anteros - Valentine:
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Anteros-person: Queen of Cups - Judgement - Death (clarified by: 8 of cups)

(of course I related it individually to what this aspect from Mr Sag to my Anteros means for ME personally, it takes place on 19 SCorpio btw)

Valentine - person (him):
World - 4 of cups - Strenght
(clarifier for whole Spread: Stars)

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Anteros-Pluto conjunct Sappho (on 21-22 Libra)

Anteros-Pluto (him):
Ace of Cups - Chariot - Fool (clarified by: 6 of cups)


Sappho-DNA (me):
8 of cups - Ace of Wands - King of Cups

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posted May 29, 2016 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For Sunnya

Anteros-North Node

Anteros-person:
3 of wands - 5 of cups (clarified by 4 of wands) - King of Cups

North Node - person
5 of wands (clarified by judgement) - Page of Cups - World

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posted May 29, 2016 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VelvetPriestess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Anteros - Valentine:
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Anteros-person: Queen of Cups - Judgement - Death (clarified by: 8 of cups)


How do you see that? I see it as loving and very transformative. Transformation seems to be a theme so far of Anteros.

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posted May 29, 2016 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunnya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
For Sunnya

Anteros-North Node

Anteros-person:
3 of wands - 5 of cups (clarified by 4 of wands) - King of Cups

North Node - person
5 of wands (clarified by judgement) - Page of Cups - World


Thank you Ceri

This is interesting. What is your take on it?

And you VelvetPriestess, did you also check it in your tarot and what do you think?

I can't find any information about Anteros-North Node exact conjunction at all.

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posted May 29, 2016 07:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any one want to give their thoughts on a mans Anteros exact 0.0 conjunct a womans Nessus RX in cancer....

Cancer Nessus RX, is an indication of abuse in the home by ones meant nuture and love the Nessus native.

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posted May 29, 2016 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VelvetPriestess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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And you VelvetPriestess, did you also check it in your tarot and what do you think?

I can't find any information about Anteros-North Node exact conjunction at all.


Using the same method, Anteros feels wheel (fated), 10 cups (love), 9 wands (longterm) for the Node. So, a lot of the same themes of feelings of fated love but without the drama of some of them.

The Node person feels king cups, star, empress - so strong romantic feelings.

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posted May 30, 2016 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunnya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VelvetPriestess:
Using the same method, Anteros feels wheel (fated), 10 cups (love), 9 wands (longterm) for the Node. So, a lot of the same themes of feelings of fated love but without the drama of some of them.

The Node person feels king cups, star, empress - so strong romantic feelings.


Thank you . This is super and it seems accurate too.
I am the North Node and I can say I also feel it is fated. Can't turn away from my Anteros even if I wanted to.

It also seems Ceri you pretty much got the same meaning as Velvet. this is cool


@Gabby Could Anteros returned love help heal Nessus wounds? Kind of taking a Chiron role but with assured kindness and love (no tough love)?

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