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Topic: Thinking long and hard about Capricorn and Relationship
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StelliumH6
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posted May 29, 2016 11:07 AM
  
Hi everyone. He is Capricorn Sun, Venus, Mercury with his Mars and NN in his 10th house. However, when it comes to love relationships he is not traditional at all. He said, "If you or I were to come in contact with someone else that we would want to be with, I would wish you well as I want you to be happy." This is his Aquarius Moon. He makes no commitments at all. This scares me.
Please look at our charts and tell me if we have a future. The charts will be under the title, STELLIUM and GOAT MAN.IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted May 29, 2016 11:11 AM
I looked at his Natal again. I was incorrect. His Chiron is in the 10th house. NN in H9. IP: Logged |
Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
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posted May 29, 2016 11:25 AM
Why did you put this in two separate threads?Anyway I think Capricorns are often capable of that level of love and goodwill...where we genuinely want the other person to be happy, whether they are with us or not. It doesn't mean we don't love the person. Quite the contrary, the more we really love them, the more our relationship status doesn't matter, it is transcended by something higher. Not for everyone and all situations of course. But this can be a pattern, with Capricorn. I have a Cap sun, Pisces moon and was like that with all my boyfriends. "Oh you like someone else better? I wish you well, then." To say anything else seems petty and beneath my dignity. The only time I really couldn't bring myself to say that honestly was one time when I just didn't understand what the guy was saying. "I love her" and the next minute "She is so annoying." I said "Are you sure you love her??" "Yes, why don't you believe me?" "Just making sure you really know yourself." ---
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StelliumH6
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posted May 29, 2016 11:36 AM
Hi Faith. I am not computer savvy when it comes to posting. Not sure how to put all the info. together.
I really liked what you told me. Thank you for your Capricorn guidance. It helps me to understand him more. IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted May 30, 2016 12:34 AM
Yeah I agree with Faith. I'm a cap. Said the same thing to my s.o from the get go. I commit, but I want the other person to be with me because they want and choose to. If I can't make them happy then there's no point. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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posted May 30, 2016 11:52 AM
Yes. I have a Cap stellium (Saturn, Moon-Neptune, and Uranus in Sag on the cusp) and I'm the same way. This is something I've said to people too. It does not mean I'm not able to fully commit. It means exactly what it sounds like and is just as Faith said: somewhat transcendental... a true love for the person as their own individual entity; superceding my personal wants and needs. It's not that I don't want fidelity and commitment and all the rest, but never at the expense of their sense of personal freedom. That's stoicism right there...IP: Logged |
Selene
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posted May 30, 2016 12:15 PM
My Libran nature with Leo Moon just does not understand what you all wrote. Like - mine is mine and period.  Of course if they wouldn't want to be with me there would be nothing i could do about that. IP: Logged |
StelliumH6
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posted May 30, 2016 01:10 PM
It is very interesting hearing others' viewpoints on love. We all have varying levels of what we want, need, and accept. I am trying to understand where he is coming from, and your Capricorn explanations are appreciated. IP: Logged |
Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
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posted May 30, 2016 01:59 PM
^ Glad if we can help. @muddy & yungang  quote:
a true love for the person as their own individual entity; superceding my personal wants and needs. It's not that I don't want fidelity and commitment and all the rest, but never at the expense of their sense of personal freedom. That's stoicism right there...
Yes, exactly. Though I wasn't always stoic, I mean some things really did hurt like hell, but there was no point in expressing it, I felt. IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted May 31, 2016 12:31 AM
Hannaramaa mentioned the thing caps have with "time" in your other thread. It reminded me that there was another thing I forgot to add. Caps such as myself and some friends I have, hate to waste time/effort trying to save a lost cause. In relationship when one or either party happen to lose interest, fall out of love...etc... it makes sense to put a stop to it and focus on something else. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 31, 2016 01:28 AM
Not to hijack the thread but 12Muddy ^^ So I have a Cap moon friend who won't let me "in" his life anymore per se but still follows my life online and makes it known he does. Why?? I don't reach out to him anymore or do anything to "bait" him at all! IP: Logged |
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