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posted June 09, 2016 01:28 PM            

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My ex and i broke up April 17th (during preshadow merc rx) and after a mth he contacted me using snapchat about something i had posted - during the whole mth he had been watching me on social media etc (even tho he doesnt use that app much). a week after that i contacted him on fb, about a frustrating status he posted just to show support and we had a convo (he drove alot of the Qs). Then a couple weeks later he contacts me again using social media (snapchat) about something i posted (he's still watching me) and then yesterday I msged him about something he had posted too.

Our breakup wasn't bad, it was mostly due to transition to LDR and he was overwhelmed with his move and felt more distant, etc. He definitely felt conflicted about the breakup and wanted to remain friends - but I'm wondering, contact after a mth feels sooner than expected and I thought that virgos cut ex's off? I'm wondering if virgos can give some insight? I know i want him back and think we can work it out, etc.

I care about him, want him back, so trying to take things slow, etc and waiting and seeing. But advice is always helpful

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posted June 10, 2016 11:25 AM            

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Bump!

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posted June 11, 2016 08:01 PM            

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Thanks Randall!

I'm just looking for some input on virgos and their breakups, and if they slowly creep back in?
Also if anyone has advice on all the celestial events at play then and now?

My birthday is Oct 27, 1988 and his is Sept 8, 1987

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posted June 12, 2016 12:18 AM            

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Most people that break up and want to get back together will slowly creep back in.

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posted June 12, 2016 03:18 AM            

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If he has feelings for you still, he'll come back.

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posted June 12, 2016 05:42 AM            

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Agreed.. especially since the reason for the break-up was more anxiety/stress related rather than a typical 'deal-breaker'.

If feelings become overwhelming for a Virgo, they might need to withdraw and process them first. Unlike Pisces, that readily throws themselves into a romantic liaison, the Virgo usually has more misgivings. But once they realize they are better with their love than without, they come back around. And very sweetly to boot.

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posted June 12, 2016 12:53 PM            

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I am a Virgo and I suck big time at cutting people off, I love to at least remain friends. It hurts deeply when people can't do that and just drop me.

It seems he just needed some space perhaps and at some point will try to get back and if not how awesome that he can genuinely stay friends and cares enough about you to do that.

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posted June 12, 2016 03:04 PM            

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Thank you! That's good to hear - especially because on social media I've been seeing him like posts from another girl as well. So I'm just thinking he's slowly creeping in... And not to be jealous (I hate that part of my Scorpio nature) and just trust him and how I feel and that those may be new friends and that if he cares he will keep creeping back.

I just really feel like he's the one for me, and I can whole heartedly see a future. (He's even hinted about it during our relationship)

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posted June 13, 2016 07:05 PM            

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If we want someone back, this is exactly what we do...creep back in!

Being a virgo myself I'm 99% sure we wouldn't contact an ex, if it wasn't because we still liked them (and wishing for everything to just turn back to how it was)

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posted June 14, 2016 11:40 AM            

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Thanks next to neptune!!

I think my two fears are: if he is seeing this other girl where they keep liking eachother facebook "posts" and if so, why did he reach out to me last week or the few weeks before that? I'm assuming hes dating/flirting while he creeps back in just in case?
I do feel like the must communicate more though...
Is this something virgos do for security or is he trying to play me?

If he ended it based on distance and the initial anxiety/stress, and the distance will still be there for a few years - can virgos (virgo males) reconsider even for long distance?

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