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Topic: Why do I feel so uncomfortable around him?
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Vixen
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posted June 12, 2016 04:41 PM
  
This is my synastry with a guy I'm attracted to and repelled by at the same time. I normally don't have problem talking to and flirting with guys I like, but with this one, it's different.Sometimes I want to hug him, squeeze him and make love to him. And sometimes, I feel urge to jump on him and tear his eyes and hair out. He is actually extremely nice to me, looks at me with those huge puppy eyes etc.
I have no apparent reason to be b*tchy to him but every time he talks to me, I reduce conversation to minimum,reply in curt tone of voice and run away from him.
But at the same time, I can't stop thinking about him. Now he lives abroad and probability that we will have any relationship is pretty low, yet i'm unable to forget him. Why do I feel like that around him? Is it our Karma square Karma? My Nessus opposing his Sun? Or Uranus-Moon square? He's on the inside, I'm on the outside (i don't know his birth time, btw)  IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted June 12, 2016 05:16 PM
His Mars in your 8HIP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted June 14, 2016 10:21 AM
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
His Mars in your 8H
she doesn't know his accurate info. IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted June 14, 2016 10:40 AM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
she doesn't know his accurate info.
You don't need his tob to know which houses of her chart his planets overlay. IP: Logged |
fatatabata
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From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted June 14, 2016 11:51 AM
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
You don't need his tob to know which houses of her chart his planets overlay.
Why not ? Are you sure ?
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LaceyLeigh
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posted June 14, 2016 12:16 PM
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
You don't need his tob to know which houses of her chart his planets overlay.
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Originally posted by fatatabata:
Why not ? Are you sure ?
Because her houses are only dependent on her TOB. We don't need his to know that hers are correct.
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margym0o
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posted June 14, 2016 12:31 PM
I don't see this synastry as being very well-connected, with a lot of your planets being unaspected, so my thoughts are maybe you just feel out of sorts with him because a lot of your energies are displaced, and the energies you are receiving aren't that compelling. Nothing really jumps out otherwise and I wouldn't see Mars in 8th being a strong enough reason to cause this reaction. Asteroids are only really icing on the cake so these alone aren't strong enough either.Perhaps the composite would tell a different story, but besides the house overlays being nice (he would somewhat match your attraction pattern), this synastry doesn't speak to a very fulfilling relationship long-term. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted June 14, 2016 03:21 PM
Yes, post the composite please..IP: Logged |
Vixen
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posted June 14, 2016 06:22 PM
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Originally posted by margym0o:
I don't see this synastry as being very well-connected, with a lot of your planets being unaspected, so my thoughts are maybe you just feel out of sorts with him because a lot of your energies are displaced, and the energies you are receiving aren't that compelling. Nothing really jumps out otherwise and I wouldn't see Mars in 8th being a strong enough reason to cause this reaction. Asteroids are only really icing on the cake so these alone aren't strong enough either.Perhaps the composite would tell a different story, but besides the house overlays being nice (he would somewhat match your attraction pattern), this synastry doesn't speak to a very fulfilling relationship long-term.
Wow, only now I actually realized, how many of my personal planets are unaspected by his
 *sigh* What is also very interesting is that even though I think about him A LOT, I don't have dreams about him. I've dreamed about him only once (I've also posted that dream in Astral Realms :P )
What really caught my eye is his Venus on my SN. If past lives are real, it's possible that he did something wrong to me and that would explain my irrational anger towards him. I've also checked out midpoints and declinations. Hmmm, we have:
Venus parallel Venus (nice!)
my Sun parallels his Mercury and contraparallel his Uranus (I guess Uranus is causing that iritation)
my Mercury parallel his Venus (he likes the way I think and speak?)
my BML parallel his Sun (I think THIS one could explain my feelings towards him!) My Sun/Moon = his Venus (wow! maybe this is the reason I can't get him out of my mind)
My MC/BML opposite his Saturn (I feel like he would't approve of me showing my inner Lilith to world)
My Venus/NN square his Uranus (yes, It was sudden electric attraction from my side)
My Moon/Uranus = his NN His Sun/NN and Mars/Neptune-Saturn square my Sun (well, the Mars/Neptune-Saturn one is pretty ugly)
His Venus/Juno = my Sun (I definitely like this one!)
His Sun/Venus square my Venus
His Venus/Pluto = my Venus
(well, I like these two  )
His Venus/Mars square my Saturn (but I don't like this one. It could damper physical attraction...)
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Vixen
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posted June 14, 2016 06:24 PM
Aaand this is our composite. Unaspected Venus again, dammit! At least in Davison we have Venus conjunct Moon (well, if he was born from 8:00 to 24:00, that's it)
Although asteroids are secondary, I found interesting that there is Nessus trine Mars and Dejanira opposite Venus...  IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted June 15, 2016 04:53 PM
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Originally posted by fatatabata:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
[b] You don't need his tob to know which houses of her chart his planets overlay.
Why not ? Are you sure ?[/B][/QUOTE]they are willing to read a chart w/out knowing the complete picture. you need his tob to know where his houses are and if, for example, the feelings are caused by something to the asc/dsc point you're never going to know that b/c you're guessing his asc sign. the only items you can truly know are your own. you can know most of his planets, but you might not get his moon right, even, unless it didn't switch at all. you get what you pay for on free forums. IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted June 15, 2016 08:44 PM
starmoon,I think Vixen knows that she is not getting a complete picture for the lack of tob info. Nobody here is 'willing to read a chart'. 'His Mars in your 8H might do that to you' is hardly a reading, isn't it? IP: Logged |
Vixen
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posted June 16, 2016 12:56 AM
Well, thanks for helping me guys -.- 
Uh, at least margym helped me with that synastry... That feeling when you are usually get totally ignored here (and not only here but in real life as well). Damn you, Neptune parallel Ascendant... -.- IP: Logged |
KoreAbyss
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posted June 16, 2016 02:35 AM
It would help if you put up the synastry chart info to compliment the synastry chart itself.And a lot of people don't use many asteroids so it might be easier for them to see the chart if you took most of them out. But right off the bat it looks like his Pluto is squaring your Venus. Is that right? But bitchiness hm...they say lilith is pretty bitchy but eh..not too sure about that. Maybe you could put true Lilith h13 into the chart as well? Some people use the Waldemath Moon h58 for 'darker' Lilith energy. IP: Logged |
Vixen
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posted June 16, 2016 03:54 AM
quote:
Originally posted by KoreAbyss:
It would help if you put up the synastry chart info to compliment the synastry chart itself.And a lot of people don't use many asteroids so it might be easier for them to see the chart if you took most of them out. But right off the bat it looks like his Pluto is squaring your Venus. Is that right? But bitchiness hm...they say lilith is pretty bitchy but eh..not too sure about that. Maybe you could put true Lilith h13 into the chart as well? Some people use the Waldemath Moon h58 for 'darker' Lilith energy.
eeh, that Venus Pluto square is too wide (around 4 degrees) His Uranus squares my Venus/Pluto mp though (but quite widely, 1°40. In synastry, I usually don't count more than 1°30 with midpoint pictures)
And True lilith is only a degree away from Mean Lilith. But they are both parallel his Sun. My Waldemath doesn't make any aspects to his Planets but his Waldemath squares both Mean and True Lilith in my chart (and is conjunct his Eros does that mean he's sexually abusive? )
Anyway, I've checked if there are any quindeciles (they're said to be extremely obsessive) aaand ...
My Venus quindecile his NN (me wanting really badly to be with him...)
My Mars quindecile his Pluto (...but also having great urge to be as*hole to him) IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted June 16, 2016 06:41 AM
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Originally posted by Vixen:
eeh, that Venus Pluto square is too wide (around 4 degrees)
Which orb would you use to make the square count as active? I find the wide squares and oppositions between Pluto and personal planets do work but over time. If you spend at least a couple of years with someone, you start noticing them. IP: Logged |
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