posted June 21, 2016 10:52 AM            

What is the best permanent synastry solution? First wife (my longest romantic partner [7 yrs]) has 7H Scorpio Juno-Amor conj my Scorpio SN. Her Pluto is conj my natal Leo Mars. She is blue inside.

posted June 22, 2016 10:12 AM            

Your chart looks pretty difficult in terms of relationships though...With the Leo Pluto-Saturn-Mars stellium squaring the nodes, on the IC/MC axis.

How do you feel about Aquarians? Have you ever had someone's planets opposing your Leo stellium?

Late Scorpio might also be a "hot spot" as it opposes your sun-moon midpoint and falls in your 4H.

posted June 22, 2016 04:28 PM            

Thank you, Faith. Glorious Golden Memories of our sizzling hot sexualove synergy together! We manifested a wonderful home life: built a home on rural acreage in a beautiful natural forest area.

"Your chart looks pretty difficult in terms of relationships though...With the Leo Pluto-Saturn-Mars stellium squaring the nodes, on the IC/MC axis."

Any suggestions on how to deal with this? I'm at wit's end.

"How do you feel about Aquarians? Have you ever had someone's planets opposing your Leo stellium?"

I'm attracted to Aquarius rising. My former fiance's ASC was trining my natal Gemini Moon from my 7th House. My dream lover had Aquarius 10 rising. I seem to attract Aquarius dance partners. But never progresses to romance. I find them cold, aloof, disinterested. Prefer Leo.

"Late Scorpio might also be a "hot spot" as it opposes your sun-moon midpoint and falls in your 4H."

Actually I like early or late Taurus better (avoids direct square to my Leo planets). Same former fiance also has Sun at end of Taurus: super sexy and attractive!

"Or Leo falling into your 1H, grand trining your Jupiter and sun."

YES! My ultimate prospective romantic partner born 8/17/87 (Aqua 10 rising) has 4 planets in Leo!

posted June 23, 2016 09:10 AM            

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Thank you, Faith. Glorious Golden Memories of our sizzling hot sexualove synergy together! We manifested a wonderful home life: built a home on rural acreage in a beautiful natural forest area.

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So sweet...I feel bad for you that it ended!

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Any suggestions on how to deal with this? I'm at wit's end.

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You really seem so well-balanced psychologically, and friendly, it's hard for me to imagine where the difficulties play out in your relationships.

Is it your moon conjunct Uranus in Gemini?

Do you get bored easily?

My only advice would be, try and objectively see if there is a pattern to your break-ups, and see if you can improve on whatever is causing it from your end. There is a chance that you are not the problem at all...though if you are lonely, a more forgiving and lenient stance towards others might serve you well.

Clearly your Taurus Venus on the MC wants the best and that is evident in your seeking younger partners, astrological ideals as well. I honestly wish you luck in finding your absolute perfect match.

My only advice is to consider casting a wider net and giving things more time to develop...not being impatient (moon-Uranus in Gemini) or too rigid (all that fixed energy.)

posted June 23, 2016 10:03 AM            

"Is it your moon conjunct Uranus in Gemini?"

11H VOID Moon 29Gemini51 is Oppose 5H Jupiter 28Sag57, and separating from conjunction with Uranus 23Gemini00.

"Do you get bored easily?"

Not really. Everything is interesting to me. I'm faithful and loyal (Leo) in romance.

"My only advice would be, try and objectively see if there is a pattern to your break-ups, and see if you can improve on whatever is causing it from your end. There is a chance that you are not the problem at all...though if you are lonely, a more forgiving and lenient stance towards others might serve you well."

Geography seems to get in the way. 1. she moved away to college. 2. Job took me away. 3. she moved to a cooler climate. 4. I moved back to my home country. TWICE. A. Family forbade her to follow. B. she used me for green card--and disappeared.

"Clearly your Taurus Venus on the MC wants the best and that is evident in your seeking younger partners, astrological ideals as well. I honestly wish you luck in finding your absolute perfect match."

10H Gemini Venus, ruler of Taurus MC.

"My only advice is to consider casting a wider net and giving things more time to develop...not being impatient (moon-Uranus in Gemini) or too rigid (all that fixed energy.)"

My net extends worldwide--and I'm willing to permanently relocate. Yes, my Fire (6 planets!) is impatient. Fixed energy bestows determination and resolve. Willing to flex for the optimum life partner.

Good luck!

Faith, thanks so much for your insights and well wishes.