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Aqualilith09
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posted June 24, 2016 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aqualilith09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So this guy I like has his Scoprio Sun conjunct my Scorpio Venus no more than 4 degree orb. I find him so attractiv and I feel like I need to see him everyday to feel complete. Mind y'all, we don't talk much so I'm wondering how e feels being the Sun person? Has any of you felt what it was like having someone's Venus conucnt your Sun? How do you feel towards them?

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posted June 25, 2016 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Aqualilith09
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posted June 25, 2016 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aqualilith09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Randall(: anotha bump!

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posted June 25, 2016 08:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a tight (less than 1 degree orb) Sun-Venus conjunction in Leo with my ex--I was the Sun. We were together 14 years. It's a lovely aspect!

He completely fit my beauty ideal--I thought he was just the most gorgeous guy I'd ever seen. We both felt a very very strong attraction at first sight. We each loved the way the other expressed creativity. It's a harmonious aspect--we had other things in the relationship that were hard, but. We're still friends and I think it lends itself to friendship, too.

It was so Leonine in our case, and seemed so connected to Leo issues, that it's hard to know how it would play out in Scorpio. But I would recommend becoming good friends and then seeing where things lead from there....

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posted June 25, 2016 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for madelineleo23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 26, 2016 01:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nyctea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had this aspect twice.

The first one - His Capricorn Venus conjunct my Sun
Couldn't stand the guy, he's disgusting.
The second one - Also his Venus conjunct my Sun
It was... interesting. We had a crush on each other for a few months.

Ohh i want to have good experiences with this aspect too *pouts*

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posted June 26, 2016 07:42 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice to hear from the Sun people! Always nice to know 'they feel it too'. Haha.

I've been the Venus in a conjunction (DW) and sextile. Am the Sun in a trine -- but again, that's a DW : square one way and trine the other.

The sextile was a close one, and I was Venus. Even when he was being a jerk, it was like "you're a jerk, but such a lovable one".

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posted June 26, 2016 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libracorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, from my viewpoint, I've been both the Venus and the Sun in many different cases.

With me being the Sun: I feel like the Venus person really likes me for who I am and they appreciate me. I usually like them back as well, I would say in my case that the Sun person definitely should feel it too.

With me being the Venus: I really like everything about the Sun's personality, and admire them a lot. I usually like being around them and they make really great friends.

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posted June 26, 2016 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel very meh about this aspect personally. I've had my Scorpio Venus conjunct some guy's Scorpio Sun, in although he was intriguing, it was not a strong enough energy to warrant any sort of longing for him. I've also had another person's Libra Venus conjunct my Libra Sun and that's even more dismal.

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posted June 27, 2016 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wonder if the fact that it was in our sign rulers made a difference---eg, I'm Leo Sun, Sun is my sign ruler, he's Libra Sun, Venus is his sign ruler....

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posted June 27, 2016 11:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As the sun. It seems like I'm thought to be attractive, which is not unusual and I don't mean to sound egotistical. I don't think I'll ever get used to that from anyone, yet, it happens.
I can definitely see the attraction going both ways. It seems that the Venus person instinctively knows how to boost the ego of the sun.

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I`ve experienced it once, but it felt threatening to be honest. I know though that this is NOT textbook-Sun-Venus, and I am sure it was more due to the fact the Gentleman had Saturn, Uranus and Pluto square my Sun as well.


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posted June 28, 2016 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had a few people put their Venus on my Sun. Most of them I didn't mind, I've never felt anything romantic for them, but they were ok. There was one guy I couldn't stand, he was so loud and immature all of the time. I have no idea how anyone liked him. This was also a pretty close conjunction, less than one degree.

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posted June 29, 2016 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had really strong feelings for someone whose sun was conjunct my Venus.

Also, my best friend's ex has his sun right on my Venus. They have a child together so I still see him sometimes. Nothing scandalous but I feel really warmly towards him, and I think he appreciates that a lot, because he and my best friend fought so much...he probably suspected her of turning people against him. Also he's one of the few people I initiate physical contact with...cannot help rubbing his shoulder a bit when I say hello.

I don't think I've ever known anyone with their Venus on my sun....

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posted June 29, 2016 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Liliya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted June 29, 2016 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awww, that's really cute!!

I'm snickering about your apology to Virgos for typos.


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posted June 29, 2016 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Liliya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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All I can say, Venus/Sun is not for people who are not touchy-feely

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posted June 30, 2016 08:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

That is so cute! I miss having babies (not enough to have another one though! )

It's hard to detach and let my boys be normal and not hug them so much anymore. :-/

My one Cap moon son even rolls his eyes at me for being so touchy-feely with him when he was small. He has an incredible memory...I wasn't expecting him to! I kissed his cheeks like all the time when he was tiny. NOW he tells me he was annoyed by that.

Oops (But how can people resist kissing babies?? Even without sun/Venus DW? It all feels like sun-Venus DW to me!)

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posted June 30, 2016 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Liliya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Short answer: yes to the touchy-feely-ness.

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posted October 09, 2017 02:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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All I can say, Venus/Sun is not for people who are not touchy-feely



I didn't know venus-sun had this I need to touch dynamic.

I remember a guy I was in love with.I coudn't contain myself when I was with him,I used to touch him all time while we were talking.I didn't notice until he said "you touch me too much" hahaha and I said "wow okay I won't do it anymore" but he say I shound't stop because he did like it.

Sun square venus
Sun-venus composite

I don't know if is the sun-venus aspects or something else but I felt something so sweet.Was like eating cotton candy,like seeying a rainbow...adorable.

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posted October 09, 2017 09:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dated a guy for a bit whose Sun is conjunct my Venus. He's not handsome really at all but I found him very attractive because of the rapport. We're still close friends.

I currently have a crush on a guys whose Venus is conjunct my Sun. He's so inspiring, he lights up my life when I speak to him and he always tells me wonderfully exciting things. He's a special person overall but certainly this Sun is enamoured by his creative thoughts, ideas and tastes... Strangely, although we've spent little time talking he seems to intuitively know my taste in everything!

I love the mention above about rainbows. I was once compelled to show him rainbows (with refraction glasses), and the way his face lit up ♥

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posted October 10, 2017 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for crystal_clear     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know few guys whose Sun conjunct my Venus in Libra. Oh good Lord, I find them at least cute.

Generally my type of a guy is longhaired, tall and babyface (I assume Virgo on the 7th house cusp?). But when I met these people, I felt really instant sympathy. Not sexual attraction but definitely sympathy. Of course that develops quickly.

Back at uni, some 15 years ago I had a classmate who had his Sun on my Venus. To my own surprise I said to him once "OMG, you have the cutest smile ever". Not my type but we liked each other as friends.

Some other guys had his Sun like 5 deg from my Venus - chubby, round face - I had a serious weakness for him and he for me. But his Sun was on my Venus/Mars midpoint.

Recently I met someone whose Sun conjunct my Venus and my Sun square his. It was like an earthquake in my life, I absolutely adored him and I think it was pretty mutual feeling. We smiled a lot and I really had an internal urge to touch him. I am not exactly a touching person, I avoid physical contact with most of people but there was something so irresistible. I kind of freaked out about that but it felt good.

The husband of my niece and I also have his Sun on my Venus but we also have a lot of bad aspects, his Moon and few other planets are in Gemini, I am Saggi so we basically hate each other. I tolerate him and I think the feeling is pretty mutual.

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posted October 16, 2017 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted May 30, 2020 04:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ana_bee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I experienced it both ways..

I was twice the Sun person and once the Venus. (No relationships, just dating.)

When I was the sun, I felt like I could be me completely, like someone finally appreciated me for who I am.
It felt very reassuring.
But after a while, I felt adored to the point where it got too much and overwhelming. I guess because I’m not used to that energy to that extend! I was being appreciative towards the other person and tried to reciprocate the adoration, but they kinda lost their appeal to me.

Now I’m the Venus person to someone’s Sun! The thing is, it’s not only my Venus but my Venus/Mars/Lilith conjunction! OMG I am obsessed with this guy!!! 🙈
Really it’s so intense.. but kinda in a good way. Because I just adore him unconditionally.
And it makes me happy, to feel that way, because through him, I feel more like myself, too. I also feel more creative and want to be a better person.

I think Venus conj Sun is one of those all or nothing aspects. Because the love, adoration and acceptance the Venus person feels towards the sun person is very genuine and pure and real. So unless there are aspects to support a mutually felt bond, this would become very one-sided pretty fast.

Also the Venus person should check themselves more often, and not overwhelm the Sun person. Don’t text them too much, give compliments but not to the point where the other one would start feeling uncomfortable. Try to maintain an equilibrium of give and take. (Although you want to give them everything.)

The sun person would have to watch out not to take advantage of the Venus person and not hurt their feelings.

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