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Topic: Can you tell me what is wrong with these two synastry charts?
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Loveher
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posted July 10, 2016 04:44 PM
  
So i want to learn from the past. I will post two charts of two girls that i truly cared about but they ended up hurting my feelings. I want to know what went wrong and whats the red flags that i should watch over next time. My guess is my mercury is square their neptun thats explain the lying the trust issues and the way the lead me on.
The first chart we had six months on and off kind of long distance realtionship.
The second is a girl i met we were flirting hitting on each other for six months too or so.
Both of them cared about me a lot and everytime i do something nice they would do something nice in return sometimes they do care more then my own family. Both of them i wanted to marry them the first told me she wanted to and even started to talk about having kids together. The second one we never really got close to talk about it we never dated. Both of them entered my life when i was having a major transition first one when i was 20 started to be independent. Second one when i was 24 just left my country and was trying to adjust and get over the past.
Both of them acted so possessive over me any friendly gesture from any girl would make them angry.
Both of them couldn't get over me even after months and years they would try to get my attention in subtle ways to make me talk to them they are both stubborn and have an ego and pride issues.
Both of them dated people behind my back the first is worst she was my gf that time. The second she made me the only person matter to her and she never flirt in front of me but i knew she was dating.
Both of them couldn't love me the way i loved them they cared about me a lot first one she would call me every half hour when i was sick. The second one she would sacrfice her time to help me even when she is so busy.
But its like there was soemthing holding them back from being with me and love me the way i know i deserve i gave them a lot of time and effort and felt like i was played.
Can you see a pattern something in common explain all this?
These are the charts first one my ex gf and second one my ex crush. Both charts they are the outside planets.[img]https://s32.postimg.org/73wgrs4ud/image.jpg[/img]upload a picture [img]https://s32.postimg.org/arxm9hp39/image.jpg[/img]image hosting more than 5mb IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 11, 2016 01:04 PM
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fatatabata
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posted July 11, 2016 02:04 PM
Can you please post the charts? Thank you!IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted July 11, 2016 02:16 PM
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Originally posted by fatatabata:
Can you please post the charts? Thank you!
I post the links
I couldnt post them right away but when u click on the link u can see it. Thanks IP: Logged |
vesta
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posted July 11, 2016 03:07 PM
To me it looks like it could have been karmic as with one
The sun of one person and moon of the other we're both in the 12 th house. Then the other relationship both had sun in 12 th house. You mentioned both happened durring major transitions this could have been that way yo help move you forward and once you were where you needed to be they had to leave. You mentioned a yod feeling like you had a greater purpose maybe they were just there to help move you in the right direction. You also have to be careful what you project, because those are the type of people you will attract. So, if you are saying all I ever get is a girl who cheats on me then that is the kind who will come in. But if you say I want a loving, kind, generous person with whom I am balanced and we get along great together, someone I can spend the rest of my days with. Then the universe will find someone like that for you. Remember you are still young and have yet to go through Saturn return at 30 don't worry about it so much right now your young have fun. IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted July 11, 2016 03:16 PM
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Originally posted by vesta:
To me it looks like it could have been karmic as with one
The sun of one person and moon of the other we're both in the 12 th house. Then the other relationship both had sun in 12 th house. You mentioned both happened durring major transitions this could have been that way yo help move you forward and once you were where you needed to be they had to leave. You mentioned a yod feeling like you had a greater purpose maybe they were just there to help move you in the right direction.
It makes sense now once i had some confident on what i should do they suddenly left or something happened made us leave each other IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted July 11, 2016 03:18 PM
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Originally posted by vesta:
To me it looks like it could have been karmic as with one
The sun of one person and moon of the other we're both in the 12 th house. Then the other relationship both had sun in 12 th house. You mentioned both happened durring major transitions this could have been that way yo help move you forward and once you were where you needed to be they had to leave. You mentioned a yod feeling like you had a greater purpose maybe they were just there to help move you in the right direction. You also have to be careful what you project, because those are the type of people you will attract. So, if you are saying all I ever get is a girl who cheats on me then that is the kind who will come in. But if you say I want a loving, kind, generous person with whom I am balanced and we get along great together, someone I can spend the rest of my days with. Then the universe will find someone like that for you. Remember you are still young and have yet to go through Saturn return at 30 don't worry about it so much right now your young have fun.
Im waiting for saturn return since saturn in my 10th house aspecting importnat houses from vedic astrology i heard that my work would be less stressful after saturn return based on vedic astrology
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LaceyLeigh
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posted July 11, 2016 03:42 PM
Could it be that your Venus/Neptune trine and Sun/Neptune square makes you idealize relationships? You only knew the first girl for six months on-and-off and you were long distance. How well could you have known her? You didn't even date the second girl and you wanted to get married.. You're expecting too much too soon.IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted July 11, 2016 04:38 PM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Could it be that your Venus/Neptune trine and Sun/Neptune square makes you idealize relationships? You only knew the first girl for six months on-and-off and you were long distance. How well could you have known her? You didn't even date the second girl and you wanted to get married.. You're expecting too much too soon.
I only acted this way with these two my other realtionships were so slow not like neptun at all lol IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted July 11, 2016 04:55 PM
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Originally posted by Loveher:
I only acted this way with these two my other realtionships were so slow not like neptun at all lol
Interesting. It might be the 8th house placements in your first relationship that made you feel so strongly so quickly about the first girl. Feeling unappreciated by the second girl might be a result of the Venus/Saturn square you had with her. IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted July 11, 2016 05:06 PM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Interesting. It might be the 8th house placements in your first relationship that made you feel so strongly so quickly about the first girl. Feeling unappreciated by the second girl might be a result of the Venus/Saturn square you had with her.
I didn't pay much attention to the 8th house with her before i just noticed even her sun is in my 8th house too. I thought that the second girl is effected by my saturn.
But i do feel unappreciated. for her she is like she doesn't expect anything. Maybe saturn effect both of us. IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
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posted July 11, 2016 06:00 PM
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Originally posted by Loveher:
I didn't pay much attention to the 8th house with her before i just noticed even her sun is in my 8th house too.I thought that the second girl is effected by my saturn.
But i do feel unappreciated. for her she is like she doesn't expect anything. Maybe saturn effect both of us.
Yes, I think Saturn can effect both people. I've seen the planet person "restrict" the Saturn person many times. IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted July 12, 2016 01:07 PM
Yes. Also my mars square her saturn maybe thats why my efforts were not apperciated tooIP: Logged |
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