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posted July 17, 2016 01:04 PM            

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I have moon square pluto in composite with this Gemini man.. And 'till this day he refuses to end the relationship although the relationship has been totally damaged. Trust issue is a major theme. I almost crazy dealing with his extreme emotion and anger every time he senses that I will leave. It feels like we want to kill each other when we are mad although we end up killing each other trough words."

I notice the moon square Pluto in composite, is this really can cause psychology damage through the connection of two people? Is there any advice how to deal with moon square Pluto in composite?

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posted July 19, 2016 04:43 AM            

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I dont know if the aspect causes this drama. Is it possible that the Gemini dude is lackning plutonian aspects in his natal and goes bananas due to the insecurities the composite square might cause him? Still if hes young he might have natal Pluto aspects but havent learned to 'control' them.

Anyhow in regards to your question. IF you still want to be with this guy then check for positive aspects to/from your composite moon and try to use thoose aspects to ease the 'bad' plutonian stuff.

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posted July 19, 2016 12:57 PM            

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^ he has sun semisquare pluto, mercury and mars trine pluto. I think he has moon pluto minor aspect. He had his Saturn returned last year.

I forgot what else between moon Pluto in composite, but the square is really affect us in a bad way because I almost see the psychiatrist because of this relationship dynamic and he's still around.

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posted June 07, 2019 06:38 PM            

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I had moon opposite pluto in the composite with and old flame and let me tell you, it was the most intense/dramatic/heart-wrenching 'situation-ships' I've ever had. We were both OBSESSED with each other. I'm talking needing to know where/what/who why the othher was doing what they were doing and when. There were times where our words would cut each other to the core. I shed plenty of tears. It didn't help that our Mars' squared each other in synastry. He betrayed me in the end. I'm ruled by Pluto so ultimately I had the upperhand and cut it off completely. However, I'm still dealing with some of the trauma from the relationship. Things that helped make it tolerable were understanding that both of us were working through a lot of our Plutonic natal aspects through each other.

I had to monitor my obsession by avoiding the urge to stalk him when I didn't know where he was/what he was doing. Not allowing him to probe too deeply into my life by being honest right off the bat. I also knew when he was playing manipulative games so I made sure not to react/engage or give into the struggle there. It only exacerbated things. I also tried to distance myself from him for a while (didn't work that well because soemthing about Moon/Pluto feels like glue). That also could've been some of our Saturn aspects. But my advice would be take a breather and distance yourself if you can (physically and emotionally). It sounds like a lot of negativity is manifesting. See if you have any Nessus aspects touching your moon/pluto square or even Mercury making hard aspects to to Pluto. That might have a lot to do with the psychological trauma.

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