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Topic: Marriage in synastry
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jadave
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: usa
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted July 20, 2016 11:02 PM
  
What aspects makes a man want marriage commitment instantly?Because he is talks about marriage within 1 month of seeing each other. His juno conjunction my south node 2 degrees? IP: Logged |
manderin
Knowflake Posts: 412
From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 21, 2016 03:46 AM
Hard to say without you posting birth information. But it may not be because of love. Men who want fast commitment are very often Men who have something to hide (such as they are abusive) so they try to have you tied to them as soon as possible to make it harder for you to leave once they start the abuse. This is a very common tactic for abusers and there is much written about it at battered women's shelters.I'm not saying he is a bad person, just saying that you should not necessarily assume the only reason for a man doing would be that they are head over heels in love with you. IP: Logged |
fatatabata
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: Paris - France
Registered: Jun 2016
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posted July 21, 2016 06:37 AM
I second Manderin. In my girlfriends' experience a man whose attachment is too fast is a man not in balance with himself. But let's check the chart !IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 18581
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 21, 2016 08:52 AM
My husband's Taurus Juno is on my south node, trine my Virgo Juno, which is widely trine his Taurus south node.Our nodes are about 4° apart. His SN exactly trine my sun (0.01° orb), his NN trine my moon. We both have Venus-Uranus aspects, and tight Venus-Uranus synastry. And Uranus was transiting on my DSC, which was conjunct his progressed DSC, when we got together. We have Cancer Mars-Juno-ASC very tight in composite, sextile Virgo Pluto-Uranus, trine Scorpio NN-Mercury-Neptune. He was talking marriage after one date. He actually never thought he was going to get married, never tried to marry anyone else, though he did date and was an "eligible bachelor" in terms of looks, education, finances, talents and all that. He has a difficult personality sometimes, maybe because of his Venus square Saturn, but he's not abusive, just rude and grouchy sometimes. But he had a few long-term girlfriends that he never considered marrying. Yet with me, well I was different, and his instincts told him that right away. Please don't quote! IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 18581
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 21, 2016 09:12 AM
Now I feel bad for calling him grouchy because he just walked in with a big bouquet of flowers for me, for no reason, and several containers of fresh berries, one of my favorite foods. Not bad, after 17 years of marriage. (But he is grouchy sometimes!  ) IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
Moderator Posts: 27567
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted July 21, 2016 09:30 AM
 I love the sweet gestures he shows to you sometimes! Let`s focus on the positive. IP: Logged |
jadave
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: usa
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted July 21, 2016 10:08 AM
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jadave
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: usa
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted July 21, 2016 10:11 AM
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Yanmorg
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted July 26, 2016 10:44 PM
bump!IP: Logged |
jadave
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: usa
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted July 28, 2016 07:31 PM
I could really use help on this one. Is there even any potential for emotional connection, there are no moon aspects in synastry? IP: Logged |
llewsacm
Knowflake Posts: 453
From: Cleveland, Ohio USA
Registered: Mar 2015
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posted July 28, 2016 10:40 PM
I kinda feel bad that no one has looked at this for u yet. I dont claim to be an expert, nonetheless, I see good and bad in what you've posted. His Juno I not conjunct your north node. It's his ascendant. So, yeah, he feels super comfortable with you! His moon on your Chiron is a bit worrisome. Is he already making plans for your future together? The charts at very busy and I'm going off memory here. The composite has some really nice aspects. Dreamy stuff. Moon on the ascendant is lovely. Benefic planets are connected in a nice way. Mars is strong, with sun and Venus hard aspects in the mix (if I recall correctly). That may play out over time. Go slow I say. See what he's all about and if a dark side surfaces that may be too scary or unwelcome for you. Keep ur head about you. But really nice soft aspects in the comp. Wish I was better equipped on the comp to give more concise guidance. Learning as I go here. Hopefully more folks will chime in. ❤ IP: Logged |
jadave
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: usa
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted July 29, 2016 03:48 PM
Okay, thanks. It was nice of you to take the time to look it over.Moon conjunct chiron means it is likely or potentially will experience alot of pain ir healing within this union? How would u describe the aspect from both sides? IP: Logged |
llewsacm
Knowflake Posts: 453
From: Cleveland, Ohio USA
Registered: Mar 2015
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posted July 29, 2016 08:25 PM
Sorry, I meant south node on ascendant. Yeah...the whole moon Chiron thing idk what to think. Chiron is strange...i think it teeters on being the healer as some say, but also acts as a sore spot if u will. The moon/eros in the outside chart can go through comforting or emotionally manipulative I think if a sensitive transit occurs. So the both people should probably be aware of this and be sensitive to the others feelings even more so. IP: Logged |
jadave
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: usa
Registered: Oct 2015
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posted July 31, 2016 01:38 AM
Thanks again. Is anything else that explains what's going on between us, because our synastry is not that strong? I am not sure what to make of this. it is him on the outside. IP: Logged |
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