posted July 24, 2016 10:08 AM            

These aspects were the worst during the relationship, they affected me on the emotional level, involving negative feelings:

1) His Saturn square my Venus. He was the one with more feelings in the relationship but I still felt he was too cold with me. Even when someone loves you, the way they express their love with this aspect will leave you cold, lonely and unloved. It's just what it does. Avoid it if you can.

2) His Mars square my Pluto. I can't explain this one properly but it had definitely something to do with power, aggression. He could slap me as a joke (not serious or violent at all to him) but to me it did not feel like a joke, it felt like a slap, yeah.. It's a dark one..beware

3) In the end we broke up when I was over him, had enough of all relationship problems and enough of all the arguing, bickering, the impossibility to ever come to some mutual understanding. So last aspects has to be his Mercury in opposition to THREE of my planets: Moon, Venus, Mars. This now doesn't even make it possible for me to remain friends because we just start arguing over the smallest of things.

posted July 24, 2016 01:07 PM            

He didn't really do anything wrong. It just wasn't meant to be and he couldn't give me what I needed.

posted July 24, 2016 10:31 PM            

I feel the same as CapCap too, we can't be friends it seems as the misunderstandings still come thick and fast as soon as we open our mouths and it's incredibly irritating to be so misunderstood by somebody who you feel you should have this emotional resonance with (we had a Moon Moon opposition which I guess turned out to be a very hard aspect along with those others!)

posted July 26, 2016 01:14 PM              

The stellium was located in the 7th house all conjunct pluto, sextile Uranus/ Neptune, and square SATURN.

Our relationship officially ended due to Saturn conjuncting our composite stellium (Saturn was in Scorpio at the time conjunct my own natal stellium and his Scorpio Sun).

posted July 26, 2016 01:50 PM            

His Chiron also opposes my Saturn exactly, so that's pretty bad too. I read an article that said according to Magi Astrology this is a dealbreaker heartbreak clash aspect and rarely do two people successfully interact together with it in a relationship.

Also, my Sun/Moon midpoint conjuncts his DC/opposes his AC and his Sun/Moon midpoint conjuncts my 5th house cusp and opposes my sun which is conjunct my 11th house cusp. I think maybe he viewed the relationship as more fun and light than I did (his sun/moon midpoint conjunct my 5th house cusp) and perhaps didn't see my personality (his sun/moon opposite my sun) or my destiny/my friends as fun and/or exciting enough for his liking (my sun conjunct my 11th house cusp opposite his sun/moon midpoint conjunct my 5th house cusp)

posted July 27, 2016 10:04 AM            

In Vedic astro, NN (rahu) indicates a lot of ups/downs, illusions, foreigners

I find it a bit ironic considering he was foreign, very erratic and our relationship had more ups/downs. That same Rahu was conjunct my Sun/Mercury/Venus and opposite my Neptune - so yeah...a lot going on w/just that aspect.

His Mars was in my 3rd and we had a LOT of verbal disputes, pretty much daily & it seemed like he knew exactly how to get under my skin. His Mars was in Pisces. He was very confusing to me, very moody and according to him, everything seemed to always be my fault.

We also had Sun sq. Pluto DW.

And his Saturn square my Mars. (I have Mars ruling my IC and in the 8th house, so this was a toughhhh aspect).

Bleh! lol But I learned a lot about myself and I think he did too.

We actually get along decently now. We have a child together, so we have to interact somewhat for our kiddo.

posted July 28, 2016 05:46 AM            

BUT apart from that, we are actually still together, we just don't got a label on what we are anymore. We still see each other every 2nd month or so, and we are still in love.... so even though uranus makes it hard for us to be anything serious or official, then we still care for each other. I think it's our many other good aspect, cause we really got all the good ones as well

Venus-mars, venus-moon, venus-mercury, sun-moon, sun-venus, mercury-sun, venus-jupiter, sun-jupiter, sun- saturn and moon-pluto

posted July 28, 2016 06:41 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
We still see each other every 2nd month or so, and we are still in love....

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posted October 23, 2021 11:09 AM            

Past use of freewill from a Soul and Expanded self level is what created our current natal charts, and Soul "contracts" (agreements might be a better term), Soul groups, freewill use in the past and present, etc is what often determines most of our relationships. And then freewill use in the meanwhile can affect the length of those.

Astrology is NOT a cause, no more than than the tea leaves or a tarot card that someone reads is a cause. Astrology needs to be put into it's proper place, or else it become a superstitious crutch and limiting in nature. Astrology studied aright and put into proper context can be very helpful.