posted July 26, 2016 12:19 PM
That would be so nice, Belage, if crappy relationships were short-lived because they are crappy. But there are lots of reasons people might have a tough time leaving a bad relationship--and hoping it will improve is a huge reason.Besides romantic composites, there are parent-child composites, brother-sister composites, composites between coworkers or colleagues who might love their job but hate each other, and be stuck together over the long term--even if Saturn isn't strong in the composite. Unless, because astrology is so accurate, Saturn WILL be strong in all of these composites?
With the one i'm thinking of, my ex, I really felt madly in love with him and the vibe between us was warmer than I'd had with others. Things were good for three months and then got inexplicably hard--like he turned into a brick wall--we were still seeing each other a lot. I posted the (non-progressed) composite on here around that time, and got readings from good astrologers saying the thing was really horrible ("emotional terrorism", "sapping of all joy and bliss in life" kind of thing)....and then my ex broke up with me, and years later he came back and we had a child together and THEN the readings of our synastry and composite became accurate, things got unbelievably horrible.
I wonder if progressions in the composite could reflect/shape improvements in the relationship. For example, maybe when we met and fell in love, our progressed composite was nicer than our regular composite?
Are progressed composites even important? What exactly do they show, in contrast to the real composite?
Looking at the synastry, I can see both the misery and the joy in our relationship--before all this happened, I didn't pay much attention to deterministic astrology--instead, I didn't think synastries showed whether people would fall in love, just how best to work with the probable dynamics that would arise between them if they did fall in love--and composites never resonated with me much, I can see so much more in a synastry, especially because it includes the two natals.
I guess I want to know if a relationship can progress away from the composite chart.
For me (7h Cancer stellium including Moon-Saturn conjunction, 8h Leo solar stellium) a relationship cannot and does not end unless I have closure in my own heart and chart--we can "end" it completely, but to my wet heart, that's just changing its form, not ending it. With this ex that's even heavier, because we have a child together. So either we'll be very miserably together in a committed romantic relationship, or we'll be happily together in a committed romantic relationship, or we'll be "together" but he'll lie and cheat and humiliate me, or we'll be not-together and I'll have to watch him move on with someone else and I'll be separated from my daughter part of the time, and he'll be separated from his daughter part of the time.