posted July 24, 2016 08:05 PM            

Knowing this was obviously about me, I decided to eavesdrop (I know, shame on me). She said along the lines of, "You have no idea, I'm unbearably attracted to him. Why did my sister have to date THIS guy? I can't stop thinking about him. He makes me so wet (yeah, she said that). Seriously, the sexual feelings are almost uncontrollable. If we're both in a room, I sometimes have to leave to regain my composure and calm down."

I know right? I never knew she felt this way about me. I'm not proud or anything, just shocked. I think this explains her behavior. Our conversations have always been a little awkward, like there is some tension. She's usually very talkative with everyone else, but whenever I talk to her, she becomes reserved, almost detached sometimes.

So, later that night I subtly asked for her birth info from her mom (eased it into a conversation) and found this out:

-We have a Venus conjunct Mars aspect in synastry at 1 degree. I'm the Venus, she's the Mars. Isn't it the Mars person who usually LUSTS after the Venus person?
- She has a natal Venus trine Mars at 2 degrees.
- We have a Pluto opposite Sun aspect at 1 degree. I'm the Pluto planet, she the Sun.
- Her Sun is in my 8th house (house of Pluto), and her Venus is in my 7th house.

posted July 24, 2016 09:00 PM            

Kidding.

If she is the Mars person, then she's doing her job, right?

Could you post the synastry, it would be a lot easier to give a valid interpretation.

Is she close with her sister? I suspect they're trying to set you up. You know, to see if you're loyal. I'm sure she knew you were coming over, and she had to of heard someone walk up the stairs/into the hall way.

posted July 24, 2016 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:

Kidding.

If she is the Mars person, then she's doing her job, right?

Could you post the synastry, it would be a lot easier to give a valid interpretation.

Is she close with her sister? I suspect they're trying to set you up. You know, to see if you're loyal. I'm sure she knew you were coming over, and she had to of heard someone walk up the stairs/into the hall way.

I'd watch your back.

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Woah, seriously? She's extremely close with her sister, all the sisters are close. In no way are they trying to set me up. We were all hanging out in my girlfriends room, her phone actually rang, and she left and went to her room to talk. I felt the urge to use the bathroom like 1 minute later, walked out and immediately heard her mention me as I passed her room. Just good timing I guess.

I remember the first time I met her, we shook hands, and she couldn't speak well. She was fumbling her words, looked super nervous. It was weird.

posted July 24, 2016 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Lucia23:
Wait, you have a girlfriend? Weren't you posting like a day ago about a girl you had a crush on?

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I posted that like 5-6 days ago I think. Yup, and SHE said she wanted to be my girlfriend after our first DATE!! She admitted when we first met many months ago, she was enamored with me. She even admitted trying to look for me on social media (I don't have any social media accounts). When we talked at parties, she was actually waiting for me to ask her out. This is why when I finally did ask her out, she seemed almost relieved in a way, like, "Finally!" Guess what? After we met that first time, she said she had MULTIPLE nights were she dreamt about me, which just heightened her fascination towards me. Her Venus is in my 12th house, which rules the subconscious, dreams, psychic links, etc. It's uncanny!

Oh man, it was so great. She was so anxious for me to meet her family, I met them all that night, and of course, met that one sister. I've hung over at their house three times already, such a great family. They treat me like they've known me for years.

Her parent's house is like 2 hours from our University.

Remember how we have that double whammy of moon conjunct north node? When I was at their house, we were sitting on the living room couch, she tells me softly, "I can't explain it, I feel like I was supposed to meet you." I feel the same way.

posted July 24, 2016 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Is her Venus quincunx her own Chiron as well as your Pluto? I'm somewhat more interested in her natal chart than the synastry, although yes you mentioned several strong sexual and other powerful attraction aspects which you share between you. It's part of her journey to have this experience of forbidden love and I was looking for Venus-Chiron in her natal first of all...

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Unfortunately, she has a Venus inconjunction Chiron at 1 degrees.

posted July 24, 2016 11:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Mohini108:
I posted that like 5-6 days ago I think. Yup, and SHE said she wanted to be my girlfriend after our first DATE!! She admitted when we first met many months ago, she was enamored with me. She even admitted trying to look for me on social media (I don't have any social media accounts). When we talked at parties, she was actually waiting for me to ask her out. This is why when I finally did ask her out, she seemed almost relieved in a way, like, "Finally!" Guess what? After we met that first time, she said she had MULTIPLE nights were she dreamt about me, which just heightened her fascination towards me. Her Venus is in my 12th house, which rules the subconscious, dreams, psychic links, etc. It's uncanny!

Oh man, it was so great. She was so anxious for me to meet her family, I met them all that night, and of course, met that one sister. I've hung over at their house three times already, such a great family. They treat me like they've known me for years.

Her parent's house is like 2 hours from our University.

Remember how we have that double whammy of moon conjunct north node? When I was at their house, we were sitting on the living room couch, she tells me softly, "I can't explain it, I feel like I was supposed to meet you." I feel the same way.

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That's great!!! The synastry between you looked really long term to me, so just ignore the sister crush thing.

posted July 24, 2016 11:06 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
The double whammy Moon North Node with your girlfriend and you seems to refer partly to the centrality of family life in your relationship. So far, seems like the focus is on her family... The nodes indicate shared contacts, shared circles, who you come into contact with, groups and associations. This sounds boring and a far cry from some descriptions but it makes sense and it is in keeping with our individual journeys. They're about relating though, on a karmic level. The likelihood that your becoming part of or being at least for a time intimately involved with her family is the emphasis of d/w Moon~Node seems pretty high...

The reason people without node contacts are like ships in the night is that they dont share enough common associations to keep the bond alive. Their soul groups are too different, their paths don't intersect.

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posted July 24, 2016 11:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Lucia23:
That's great!!! The synastry between you looked really long term to me, so just ignore the sister crush thing.

My half-sister had a big crush on my college boyfriend when she first met him. It mellowed out over the 14 years we were together, and I wouldn't have wanted him to pay too much attention to it.

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Thanks! Oh, now that I know how she feels, I'm going to be as detached (friendly, but detached) as I can. Honestly, I thought about being a little more SWEET to her, to try and open her up a little. I was thinking about doing things like hugging her, maybe play fighting her (like brother and sister kind of way), try having an intimate (non sexual obviously) conversation with her to get to know her better.

posted July 24, 2016 11:14 PM            

Now I feel I'm being unfair though because I know how useful astrological confirmation is and I'm being stingy.

The emotional resonance is about feeling like you're both on a path which is exciting and comfortable at the same time. You know it's great lol... that's why I got a bit impatient, because YOU know better than me!, or so I think.. and if you don't yet then you'll find out.

But requesting a description on an astrology forum is totally valid so I apologize. The emotional resonance comes with acknowledging your shared soul group is a strong familial tie. Would need to see the charts to say more about your emotional connection.

posted July 24, 2016 11:20 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
I mean oookay I could answer it but I think it's important to feel the feelings yourself and not validate everything too much with astrology.

Now I feel I'm being unfair though because I knew glue useful astrological confirmation is and I'm being stingy. The emotional resonance is about feeling like you're both on a path which is exciting and comfortable at the same time. You know it's great lol... that's why I got a bit impatient, because YOU know better than me! but requesting a description on an astrology forum is totally valid so I apologize. I'm just super tired and now truly going to bed

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posted July 24, 2016 11:22 PM            

Thank you, thanks for posting, and good work being awesome and wanting to help beautiful sister number 2 not feel so awkward. It might be a complicated journey but she'll find somebody else forbidden to work on it with hopefully... maybe might take some time... lots of tact is required on your part now that you know but you sound mature (love gives you wings!)

posted July 25, 2016 11:15 AM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
I edited that... lol knew glue... argh.

Thank you, thanks for posting, and good work being awesome and wanting to help beautiful sister number 2 not feel so awkward. It might be a complicated journey but she'll find somebody else forbidden to work on it with hopefully... maybe might take some time... lots of tact is required on your part now that you know but you sound mature (love gives you wings!)

Thanks again, good night.

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Here's me and my girlfriend's natal charts, if you're still interested.

My natal chart:

My girlfriend:

Also, the sister that has a crush on me:

posted July 25, 2016 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
You and your girlfriend do have pretty awesome synastry, from what I can glean. Care to share the composite and Davison charts?

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Composite:

Davison:

posted July 25, 2016 04:59 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Lol... you two are very blessed!!! It's darn good looking, still just taking cursory glances, but yeah, nice stuff! The house placements show where the work is going to be, and how it will manifest. I.think the 6th house emphasis in.the Davison is a marker of the likelihood of enjoying time spent together daily, overall. Might get a little common feeling after a while but you'll be happy about that too.

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Wow, we have a Moon conjunct North Node at exact (0 degrees) in Composite. I think if a Double Whammy happens in synastry, the aspect shows up in Composite???

Also, we have a Moon conjunct Pluto at 7 degrees. I don't know, it looks a little wide. Thoughts?

posted July 25, 2016 06:01 PM            

Plus, she's an Aries Venus which means she's probably used to going after what she wants. So the fact that she can't do that with you is probably driving her crazy.

posted July 25, 2016 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Her sister is into you for a number of reasons:
Her Mars is Leo, therefore she is into Leo men. Add that Her Mars is conjunct your Venus.
Her descendant is Aquarius, and your Sun and Venus are in your 11th house.
Plus, her Venus is square your Neptune. She sees you as a perfect mate. But this is only temporary, it's like rose colored glasses, it will wear off eventually.
That's a lot of attraction qualities!

Plus, she's an Aries Venus which means she's probably used to going after what she wants. So the fact that she can't do that with you is probably driving her crazy.

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Damn.