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posted July 25, 2016 06:51 AM            

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Would Nessus be obsessed with ascendant?

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posted July 26, 2016 02:20 PM            

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posted July 26, 2016 10:32 PM            

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Lexus, I have this with someone in synastry. He is not physically abusive to me. It's verbal. He will make back handed remarks about my lifestyle. He says "your always right!" In a condescending way. I guess there is a vague obsession...where he thinks I'm making plans to do something if he's not around to hang out. I really hate the remarks tho and they are wearing on me to the point where I dont want to be around him anymore. I think nessus can point to any kind of abuse, whether its physical, verbal, emotional. I am sure nessus on moon would be more emotional. This aspect is more of an attack on how others may perceive me I suppose...not so much who I am. If that makes sense. It's both ways with the conjunction...i am despised for how the world sees me (in his eyes) but he loves having me on his arm.

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posted July 27, 2016 07:31 AM            

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Wow it sounds like he's jealous and needy of being the center of your attention.

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posted July 27, 2016 08:46 PM            

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We have it conjunct ascendant in composite and davison. It's also conjunct Samadhi in one of those two so that changes the meaning a bit as does everything. But doesn't negate it. It actually expands the awareness of abuse though such that it dissolves in transcendental awareness type deal, if not transcendental then certainlya presently felt state of bliss which takes into account all the darkness and sees the purity underlying things

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posted July 27, 2016 10:48 PM            

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We have it conjunct ascendant in composite and davison. It's also conjunct Samadhi in one of those two so that changes the meaning a bit as does everything. But doesn't negate it. It actually expands the awareness of abuse though such that it dissolves in transcendental awareness type deal, if not transcendental then certainlya presently felt state of bliss which takes into account all the darkness and sees the purity underlying things

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posted July 28, 2016 03:09 PM            

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I've had this I was the ascendant and I can't trust or see myself getting close to the Nessus individual. I don't feel safe.

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posted July 28, 2016 03:45 PM            

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Both would be obsessed imo--ASC could be worse

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posted July 29, 2016 10:11 AM            

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It's good times lol... although very hard sometimes... to look at and process this Nessus energy, and touch the heart of goodness and kind intentions which is truly inside of both of us, it's always there, through all the confusion and defensiveness--and offensiveness!, etc... we always make it through with more wisdom and understanding... which is hard to put into words usually, so I'm grateful you understood

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posted July 29, 2016 10:53 AM              

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Someone`s Nessus is exactly conjunct my DESC, his Nemesis exact conjunct my Sun. His Mars exact conjunct my Pluto. His Kaali exact conjunct my Deja.

He`s such a sweetheart and on a spiritual level I owe him a lot (and unspoken as it might be I know he knows. It`s weird almost).

(for a time however the electric and sucking energy was a bit too much for me to handle. Now it`s completely alright with me)

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posted July 29, 2016 01:16 PM            

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Sounds like a pretty intense connection! My Nessis is conjunct the Sun of the woman my partner was deeply in love with when we got together, powerful lessons for me with her. I love her very much, it's pivotal to my life journey to stay in a compassionate space with regards to her..

Nemesis is conjunct my ascendant natally.. IQ had something nice to say about it, good advice to the effect that my.enemies can't hurt me as long as I'm being true to myself type thing.

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posted August 03, 2022 05:56 PM            

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posted August 15, 2022 11:23 AM            

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I have this with one of my spiritual mentors/friends. We are both women. To me, it's just felt like she is "obsessed" with helping me get on my path, be who I am, and do what I'm here to do. Sometimes it's felt a bit controlling or pushy, but only a tiny bit, and she listens/adjusts when I speak up about anything.

I AM starting to see the "highs" of some of these "abusive" asteroids, after learning about them for a handful of months now. I have a positive example of Nessus/Deja... I'll have to post about that as well!

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posted August 15, 2022 01:27 PM            

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I experienced someone who has this in his own chart...it aligned with my 10th house. He was someone I loved deeply and felt very connected to, but he ignored my feelings in our relationship, caused me a lot of constant harm, and then would repair but...never really make the changes he needed to make to make our connection into a healthy relationship. He also considered himself the victim very frequently...everything was always happening to him instead of an adult approach where accountability was the path to understanding. It was a destructive relationship overall...but in astro terms, this can be quite present and no matter the other energies, I found him to be functioning from underlying abuse, and becoming abusive, consistently.

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