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posted July 30, 2016 06:21 PM            

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If synastry is too 'nice' (not enough squares and/or oppositions) then it might just be more like brother and sister. Do you think this is so good that it's bad? I don't want brother and sister (

I have counted all the aspects in my synastry and did not count aspects to nodes, Chiron and asteroids.

Planets to planets:

Conjunctions - 8
Trines - 10
Sextiles - 7
Squares - 3
Oppositions - 3

Planets to Asc and MC:

Conjunctions - 1
Trines - 2
Sextiles - 4
Squares - 4
Oppositions - 3

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posted July 30, 2016 06:26 PM            

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In total:

Conjunctions - 9
Trines - 12
Sextiles - 11
Squares - 7
Oppositions - 6

Maybe post yours for comparison..?

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posted July 30, 2016 10:10 PM            

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It would be specific aspects between planets which would point to an over familiar or familial feeling, a lot of Neptune in a chart comparison is one thing which can lend itself to a platonic love..

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posted July 30, 2016 10:23 PM            

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Also, note that conjunctions are deemed "hard" aspects... not always nice!

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posted July 31, 2016 09:18 AM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
It would be specific aspects between planets which would point to an over familiar or familial feeling

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Aspects between what planets? Apart from Neptune you mentioned..what else? I have too many sexual aspects with him btw.

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posted July 31, 2016 09:34 AM            

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Some people only consider tension sexy. Some consider ease and flow sexy. It depends on the natals. If you feel attached sexually, and do not want brother and sister, then at least you know that on your end it ISN'T brother and sister. What makes you think it would be? The vibe between you? Let your feelings be your guide, if you aren't feeling brother and sister... don't worry about it?

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