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Topic: The Second Hottest Aspect in Synastry
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73787 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 30, 2016 09:56 PM
It is not easy to rank “hotness” of aspects. I have one adorable client, who asks me, continually, if this or that aspect is hot. This series of articles is dedicated to her. She knows who she is.I am reluctant to put Dejanira(157) as the second hottest aspect because *I* like to experience the aspects before I feel confident about them. I have not experienced a “Dejanira heavy” synastry, myself. However, Dejanira seems to manifest in a similar way to Nessus, when in conjunction with pivotal points in the synastry chart. The relationship amps up when the woman’s Dejanira seems to be over powered by the man’s Pluto or Mars. The woman plays out the victim role and this seems to be what is very sexually addictive/obsessive. As I said, I have not experienced this, so am talking from the perspective of my clients. However, I have seen Dejanira in enough aspects to postulate that it is the second hottest aspect in synastry. For the other aspects in my upcoming list, I have experienced them myself, so can give more personal detail( not time and place) ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 7818 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted July 30, 2016 10:50 PM
Ami,I asked you about Nessus- Dejanira before but I forgot whch thread it was. Anyway, so my guy has a natal Nessus- Pluto square, 0 degree, and my Dejanira falls right there and makes it a T-Square - his Nessus squares my Dejanira and his Pluto opposes my Dejanira. We are drawn to each other like magnets, yes. But then again, my BML is right on his ASC as well. IP: Logged |
athenaia Knowflake Posts: 1619 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted July 30, 2016 10:56 PM
Hey Ami, I just checked out Deja and Nessus in my synastry and plugged them in with my boyfriend -- super surprised at what I found. Turns out his Nessus is conjunct my Sun and my Deja is conjunct his Chiron. Our relationship is definitely "steamy", for lack of better term. It has been the most intense relationship of my life, but also very healing and loving. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73787 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 30, 2016 10:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by athenaia: Hey Ami, I just checked out Deja and Nessus in my synastry and plugged them in with my boyfriend -- super surprised at what I found. Turns out his Nessus is conjunct my Sun and my Deja is conjunct his Chiron. Our relationship is definitely "steamy", for lack of better term. Definitely the most intense relationship of my life, but also very healing and loving.
Nessus does not start out bad. It starts out amazingly, like your dreams have come true. It, usually, takes time to see, such as being married or being in a longer term close relationship, but not always. I have never seen Nessus conj a personal part of the other chart NOT be abuse I have seen people write that this is not the case, but my experience with 1000's of charts over the years tells me differently, anyway.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73787 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 30, 2016 11:00 PM
WOW ORangeTell me about the history of the relationship, if you care to ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 7818 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted July 30, 2016 11:05 PM
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 7818 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted July 30, 2016 11:08 PM
Atheaia,is that the new boyfriend? I am glad to left the old situation and dared to experience new love. What other synastry aspects you two have, I am curious, as you said it is very intense. Also, you know we have talked about Nodal transit before. Did you have any interesting transits at the start of the relationship? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73787 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 30, 2016 11:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: but Ami, tell me about Nessus - Pluto - Deja, what is your customer's experience with that?We've been together for 2 years now. Love is very strong. We have eyes for each other only.
Orange These combos can be the best relationship of your life and the most healing and loving, so to speak BUT when they are committed i.e marriage, what was bliss may turn to a great deal of pain, in my experience with charts and my own experience too lol ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 7818 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted July 30, 2016 11:16 PM
Ami, I hope I live to come back here and tell you after a while smooch IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: love lives forever Registered: Mar 2014
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posted July 30, 2016 11:35 PM
I don't know about this, but his Pluto is conjunct my Dejanira, and his Nessus is square these. It is hot but I think other aspects between us would point more towards the sexual compatibility and wouldn't have thought to look at Nessus and Dejanira like this... I can see it, but obviously find it troubling on some levels too.I certainly don't think we can forecast how a relationship will play out based only on analysis of a single aspect pattern with these asteroids... IP: Logged |
athenaia Knowflake Posts: 1619 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted July 30, 2016 11:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Nessus does not start out bad. It starts out amazingly, like your dreams have come true. It, usually, takes time to see, such as being married or being in a longer term close relationship, but not always. I have never seen Nessus conj a personal part of the other chart NOT be abuse I have seen people write that this is not the case, but my experience with 1000's of charts over the years tells me differently, anyway.
Very interesting to note this about Nessus, thank you for sharing your knowledge. With my last boyfriend of 4 years, we had Nessus (his) conjunct my Chiron at 0° applying - it was also a very loving relationship, although I could feel a bit smothered at times. I guess time will tell, I'll be sure to report back! IP: Logged |
athenaia Knowflake Posts: 1619 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted July 30, 2016 11:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: Atheaia,is that the new boyfriend? I am glad to left the old situation and dared to experience new love. What other synastry aspects you two have, I am curious, as you said it is very intense. Also, you know we have talked about Nodal transit before. Did you have any interesting transits at the start of the relationship?
Orange! It is a new guy, although it was not the one I hoped for (the Aries I met at the beginning of my so far very strange nodal experience). We have very unconventional synastry, but some of the more positive things are my NN conjunct his IC at 1°, his Saturn/Mercury on my IC at 0°, my Sun in his 7th and Venus/NN + Venus/SN. How are things with your love life and how has your nodal transit been treating you? IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 7818 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted July 31, 2016 12:00 AM
hey, athi Things are complicated here on my end IP: Logged |
UrsusBlack Knowflake Posts: 341 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted July 31, 2016 01:02 AM
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outofideas Knowflake Posts: 650 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 31, 2016 06:46 AM
I looked up where Dejanira stands in my natal chart...it is tightly conjunct Pluto (within 1 degree), square my Ascendant (within 7 degrees if that counts) and sextile Mercury. is this some sort of a victim pattern?IP: Logged |
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posted July 31, 2016 06:48 AM
my Dejanira is on 00 Aries. I kinda like that. IP: Logged |
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posted July 31, 2016 06:49 AM
P`s Dejanira is conjunct his NN - he likes to take on roles as a knight, especially when it is to fight injustice and protect the weak and, well, women. IP: Logged |
Aunt Anomalia Knowflake Posts: 2665 From: Pandora's Box Tech Registered: Mar 2015
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posted July 31, 2016 07:03 AM
What's your opinion on female's Dejanira conjunct male's Pholus (1.27)? It also "completes" a grand cross for him. It's opposite his Moon.------------------ The first psychic femdroid on the market. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73787 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2016 09:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: Ami, I hope I live to come back here and tell you after a while smooch
You are so sweet, Orange. Love to have you hear and those cat pics exemplify the genius of Pluto/Mercury ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Koniucha Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 31, 2016 10:22 AM
Ami,This is slightly off topic, since it's not synastry. I have Deja conjunct my Sun, 2 degree orb. What does that mean? And for deja, is 5 degrees to wide? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73787 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2016 10:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by Koniucha: Ami,This is slightly off topic, since it's not synastry. I have Deja conjunct my Sun, 2 degree orb. What does that mean? And for deja, is 5 degrees to wide?
5 is too wide, my Friend
I don't get the orb question though. Is deja conj the Sun 2 degrees or 5?
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Koniucha Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 31, 2016 10:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: 5 is too wide, my FriendI don't get the orb question though. Is deja conj the Sun 2 degrees or 5?
Sorry, I had two separate questions. I have deja conjunct my Sun at 2 degrees. The 5 degree one was separate and in synastry. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73787 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2016 10:35 AM
Deja conj your Sun may propel you to give your ego/power away to others.The 5 degrees in synastry is too wide, K. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73787 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 31, 2016 10:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by outofideas: I looked up where Dejanira stands in my natal chart...it is tightly conjunct Pluto (within 1 degree), square my Ascendant (within 7 degrees if that counts) and sextile Mercury. is this some sort of a victim pattern?
I have Pluto conj Deja
You hate bullying and will stand up for people being bullied 7 degrees is way too wide, my Friend
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Koniucha Knowflake Posts: 1097 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 31, 2016 10:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Deja conj your Sun may propel you to give your ego/power away to others.The 5 degrees in synastry is too wide, K.
Ok, thanks. I figured it was something like that. My sun is also unaspected by the other planets, so I'm sure that makes the situation stronger. IP: Logged |