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Topic: When someone planets aspect your venus do u feel a pull?Which one is more here?
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Loveher
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posted August 16, 2016 11:48 AM
  
Im wondering because my last gf has her venus conjunct my midgeaven saturn uranus neptun NN oppestion jupiter and Chiron square my mercury sunand basically she was more attached to me.
Now the girl I like has her venus conjunct my ascendant mercury and sun square my saturn NN neptun uranus square jupiter and chiron. And sometimes she comes around but I feel like Im more attached to her.
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Gemini Blues
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posted August 16, 2016 12:43 PM
Venus attracts like a coy schoolgirl. One is drawn to the other's Venus. It's cozy like a campfire or the smell of a good meal.Saturn on the other hand is glue. It has gravity. Like black holes and tractor beams, it's tough to break away from Saturn. IP: Logged |
Loveher
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posted August 17, 2016 02:54 PM
You r right i noticed obsession on both sides.
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted August 17, 2016 03:22 PM
I would like to know this too but I think Venus does the 'liking'.. hope somebody more knowledgeable can clarify this.Her Venus on your Asc - she will like your appearance Her Venus on your Mercury - she will like how you think and how you verbally express your thoughts, she'll agree with what you say.
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angel4845
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posted August 17, 2016 05:37 PM
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
I would like to know this too but I think Venus does the 'liking'.. hope somebody more knowledgeable can clarify this.Her Venus on your Asc - she will like your appearance Her Venus on your Mercury - she will like how you think and how you verbally express your thoughts, she'll agree with what you say.
not when venus forms an aspect to a man's mars in synastry - venus and mars will be attracted to eachother like fireworks. Esepcially since mars is an active planet for men.------------------
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted August 17, 2016 06:15 PM
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Originally posted by angel4845:
not when venus forms an aspect to a man's mars in synastry - venus and mars will be attracted to eachother like fireworks. Esepcially since mars is an active planet for men.
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Loveher
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posted August 17, 2016 06:20 PM
Yeah she does listen to me lol she is the only one i ever met who would just sit and listen to my annoying thoughts with a smile on her face...
However I don't know why with both of them i felt scared and yet couldnt get over them
However the girl who squared my mercury she didn't like to listen at all she even didn't pay attention to how many family memebers I have all the talk and details didn't matter... Which make me wonder now about saturn...
But is it the same like if saturn conjunct venus
And venus square saturn
Are they binding?
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted August 17, 2016 06:26 PM
Sun Venus - Venus loves the Sun.Moon Venus - Venus likes Moon but Moon probably is the one who experiences the beauty of this aspect more, it feels loved by Venus. Outer planets to Venus - Venus is the weaker one, she's under their spell. But if we have a one-sided synastry, with lots of aspects from Venus of one person to personal planets of another, then...I think the Venus person is the 'giver' - liking everything about the other and being affectionate with them. Am I right or not? IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted August 17, 2016 06:28 PM
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angel4845
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posted August 17, 2016 06:31 PM
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
'Like' + 'Want' though
possibly but to be honest, both planets are planets of desire. Everytime my Venus forms an aspect to a mans mars its always them asking me out or going out of there way to pursue me Why? cause they wanna do me.... lol and they think im hot and there like ow! look at venus shes hottt! It's almost always the case my dear. trust me i have seen every man's mars always hard aspecting my venus its them! that like me first! then i like them afterwards and feel the sexual sparks. if we are talking about love here then yes venus is the planet obviously but mars also desires just its not love per say but it depends on other aspects. ------------------
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angel4845
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posted August 17, 2016 06:54 PM
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
Sun Venus - Venus loves the Sun.Moon Venus - Venus likes Moon but Moon probably is the one who experiences the beauty of this aspect more, it feels loved by Venus. Outer planets to Venus - Venus is the weaker one, she's under their spell. But if we have a one-sided synastry, with lots of aspects from Venus of one person to personal planets of another, then...I think the Venus person is the 'giver' - liking everything about the other and being affectionate with them. Am I right or not?
my girlfriend had venus conjunct sun in synastry and the sun person was in love with my girlfriend (venus). my girlfriend (venus) didnt feel one thing about her. im starting to not take these aspect combinations literally anymore cause i think it can go either way however my girlfriend has venus conjunct asmodeus and i heard in a thread that planets aspecting another person's asmodeus, they will feel lustful towards asmodeus for some reason...not sure though. ------------------
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted August 17, 2016 07:03 PM
angel4845,I trust you but here's the thing. I agree Mars is the first to like Venus but give them two some time (actually not a lot of time even) and their relationship will remind you of sex between man and woman (the stereotypical one! mind) - man always wants sex more, then once the act is done, he goes straight to sleep but she wants to cuddle Poor Venus, often she wants to continue 'giving' but Mars doesn't want her anymore (his 'want' is satisfied). Venus, basically is more vulnerable here, IMHO. But I'm talking about conjunction. With square it's not the same. IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn
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posted August 17, 2016 07:07 PM
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Originally posted by angel4845:
im starting to not take these aspect combinations literally anymore cause i think it can go either way
Me too! I see this role reversal too often IP: Logged |
Mohini108
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posted August 17, 2016 07:16 PM
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
angel4845,I trust you but here's the thing. I agree Mars is the first to like Venus but give them two some time (actually not a lot of time even) and their relationship will remind you of sex between man and woman (the stereotypical one! mind) - man always wants sex more, then once the act is done, he goes straight to sleep but she wants to cuddle Poor Venus, often she wants to continue 'giving' but Mars doesn't want her anymore (his 'want' is satisfied). Venus, basically is more vulnerable here, IMHO. But I'm talking about conjunction. With square it's not the same.
Does this apply if the Man is Venus and the woman is Mars? *Conjunction of course. Because that's my situation with a girl.
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angel4845
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posted August 17, 2016 07:16 PM
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Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn:
angel4845,I trust you but here's the thing. I agree Mars is the first to like Venus but give them two some time (actually not a lot of time even) and their relationship will remind you of sex between man and woman (the stereotypical one! mind) - man always wants sex more, then once the act is done, he goes straight to sleep but she wants to cuddle Poor Venus, often she wants to continue 'giving' but Mars doesn't want her anymore (his 'want' is satisfied). Venus, basically is more vulnerable here, IMHO. But I'm talking about conjunction. With square it's not the same.
yes i can see this! my god yes! that is why i was hesitant to have sex with mars i mean yeah i feel strong sexual attraction but i know he was just looking for sex  the aspect i had often is the opposition. im a venus in sag and mars in gemini's always go straight to me and say "hey! wanna drink" me "no thank you! you just wanna f me not love me" lol!! but its all good. never had the conjunction always dreamed about it!! and i didnt like the square i' m mainly more crazy for mars in gem guys for some odd reason...maybe its my venus and mars in the 3rd house? ------------------
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted August 18, 2016 09:40 AM
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Originally posted by Mohini108:
Does this apply if the Man is Venus and the woman is Mars? *Conjunction of course. Because that's my situation with a girl.
I think it will be similar but it all depends on other factors. What's the sign, house? Imagine Mars is in Cancer. Her Cancer Venus conjunct his weak Cancer Mars will be a blessing for him! Other men might feel she's coming on too strong. It's a common opinion that it's better if man is Mars and woman is Venus. Same thing for Moon Pluto, better if man is Pluto. Let men obsess, do the courting, chasing and not tire of it. It's only natural for them. We on the other hand can't handle it. For men it's chivalry and achievement. For women it's humiliation and blow to self-esteem. IP: Logged |
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