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LF DX
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posted August 19, 2016 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LF DX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good afternoon

I know it's a bit fast with what happened recently but there's something inside that makes me go to this woman...

I've known her for over a year already, we're from the same poetry group and from the beginning I was very attracted to her, but back then she was in a LTR with a Jazz musician, but since this year she's single, and little by little I felt she was very affectionate with me, but I didn't do anything because she's a friend, but my inner emotions have been quite wild lately...
She's 28, comes from a wealthy family and she's a very competent lawyer, a job that's very easy to to graduate, but hard to make it good in this country as lawyers are the most crooked people in this country.
We had already lots of good times, most of the times we've hang around she paid my drinks and meals, and the past times she was quite affectionate, but I was busy with my own adventure... but the bad side is the debauchery both experience when we're together, as with her I had the most intense drinking binge... lots of shots of whiskey, fernet, and beer... And I went back home at 8 AM, completely hammered, and the last time we met, we went to a pub, we were very close to make out there, but I didn't have the power to do it, and then she lose her wallet...

I'm kinda confused, but I'm starting to feel for this woman, and I have to speak with her soon as we're the coordinators of a road trip we're going to make with our friends the poets, and I didn't talked with her yet as I'm again with the same old fears and stuff... I haven't learn it all yet...

And here they are, synastry and the composite.


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todd
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posted August 20, 2016 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi LF DX

the first thing I notice is that the node is square to the mercury/sun conjunction. this shows that the trealtionship is really about your mental similkaritites and your minds. it is not primarily a sexual/emotional attraction that has drawn your interest. second thing is that venus/mars conjunction is trine to Jupiter. this can be favorable for a emotional relationship but it can also just shows a good friendship and/or a good business partnership as yours seems to include.
another important aspect is that dejanira is opposed to the sun/mercury and square the node. this imp[lies that much of your conversations have revolved around her emotional issues, as dejanira usually shows at the minimum a emotional abused personality structure.
another aspect to be caution of is the tsquare of the satrun/Neptune conjunction opposed to chiorn and square to the moon.this correlateds to the alcoholic debauchery you describe and in conjunction to dejanira's importance, it reinforces the image that she has deep psychological problems which the use of alcohol will only amplify and make more destructive in the future.

venusans lars conjunction does show a physical/emotional attraction.
the eros/psyche midpoint is at 11scorp33, the Venus/pluto midpoint:10scorp8,the mars/pluto mp:9scorp51,the venus/sun mp:11scorp37,the mars/sun mp:11scorp20.

the point being that the sexual attraction combines a idealized almost spiritual love(psyche/eros0 with a unconscious extremely selfish and carnal sexual attraction.
this is looking for emotional problems if you get involved because the idealization you feel will be trashed by her selfish sexual manipulations of you after she has you hooked emotionally.

todd

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LF DX
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posted August 20, 2016 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LF DX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ehmmm, the Dejanira is on gemini, so it trines the node and it Quincunx the sun/mercury, so that's a fail... but the rest it's quite accurate... Although they opposite eros, so that's quite interesting.

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todd
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posted August 20, 2016 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LF DX:
Ehmmm, the Dejanira is on gemini, so it trines the node and it Quincunx the sun/mercury, so that's a fail... but the rest it's quite accurate.

thank you for correcting me.dejanira is not square the node but it is conjunct to the vertex so ,lucky for me, my commnets on dejanira still are valid .

thanks again for spotting error.
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LF DX
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posted August 14, 2017 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LF DX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm gonna bump this one because we're seeing each other again, and we're starting to date, we're making it slowly as I sometimes make my withdrawals and she makes some travellings quite often to her hometown. But we're seeing each other on a more constant pace now, and well, something good is forming... I guess.

The only troubling thing is that when we're toghether, we drink a lot, sometimes a bit too much for my own taste, but... I'm enjoying this experience, I'd only taking it slow and tread lightly.

It would be interesting to see some opinions for the synastry, I'd like to debate a bit, haha

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Randall
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posted August 21, 2017 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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LF DX
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posted January 18, 2018 11:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LF DX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, gotta bump this one because is with this woman that I've been having feelings for a while, it's been one of the most intense things I've ever felt, one hell of a roller coaster. We kinda hanged out during a short period of time, then she kinda backed out a bit, but we still enjoyed some good times, and some intense alcoholic times as well, damn, she's quite a drunken woman haha.

Anyway, I fell DEEPLY in love with this woman during these past few months, but not much happened, even if some times I felt that she felt something too. And during the scorpio season, I started to deny my feelings, and that derived in me almost going crazy like I haven't been in a long time. Got big anxiety and panic attacks when she was around, but I've tried to overcome those anxiety attacks by reading some poems and singing songs that were for her, but she never quite guess it that those were for her...

And even if tried to speak with her to tell her, outside circumstances prevented to make that happen, and to this day, she's mostly unaware of my feelings... but we're great friends still...

The point is, there's something in her energy that makes me feel so good, and energized like very few woman can make me feel, and those times with her are what made me feel recovered from the greatest heartbreak in my life, and somehow made me feel with more confidence to make things happen with women, I feel great thanks to this woman... and of course, the latent mutual attraction which diminished in this 2018...

It would be cool to analyze this synastry and composite please, because it's very powerful in some kind of way this one... only my first love was more intense than this.

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