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Topic: What kind of woman should he be with?
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lightbones Knowflake Posts: 50 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted August 24, 2016 02:27 PM
My poor friend has had the worst luck when it comes to relationships! He always thinks he's found a good partner for himself and they move in together but then things don't pan out. He's very relationship-oriented so it sometimes seems to weigh very heavily on him. What kind of a girl should he be going for? I tried to figure it out myself with his Moon/Venus and his 5th, 7th, and 8th houses but it seems very contradictory to me so I wasn't sure. Any thoughts? IP: Logged |
fiola Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted August 24, 2016 04:04 PM
His chart suggests that he might tend to come on too strong and be a bit too clingy and serious (cancer/capricorn duality). A woman who looks for the same kind of relationship is good for him (taurus and virgo personal planets are great), but i strongly suggests he gets with a fun spontanious (preferably with personal planets in aries) woman, she'll take him out of that smothering atmosphere and can affect him greatly, it would be a good opportunity to just have fun and get to know her.IP: Logged |
lightbones Knowflake Posts: 50 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted August 25, 2016 11:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by fiola: His chart suggests that he might tend to come on too strong and be a bit too clingy and serious (cancer/capricorn duality). A woman who looks for the same kind of relationship is good for him (taurus and virgo personal planets are great), but i strongly suggests he gets with a fun spontanious (preferably with personal planets in aries) woman, she'll take him out of that smothering atmosphere and can affect him greatly, it would be a good opportunity to just have fun and get to know her.
Well, I definitely agree that he should have more fun when it comes to dating and someone with Aries (or any fire planets) would be good for him to loosen up and have fun. Is that kind of placement good for him in the long-term though? Maybe a mixture of Aries/Taurus or Leo/Virgo? IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1371 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted August 25, 2016 12:40 PM
We would have sun/Venus DW, my Venus conjunct his Jupiter, my moon/mars/Saturn trine his mars, moon/Venus trine, his Mercury and SN conjunct my ASC. My SN conjuncts his moon exact too lol IP: Logged |
lightbones Knowflake Posts: 50 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted August 25, 2016 09:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: We would have sun/Venus DW, my Venus conjunct his Jupiter, my moon/mars/Saturn trine his mars, moon/Venus trine, his Mercury and SN conjunct my ASC. My SN conjuncts his moon exact too lol
Haha, wow, that sounds better than the vast majority of aspects he's made with the girls he's been with! IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1819 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 26, 2016 12:02 PM
an outgoing girl, for sure, someone more talkative and energetic, yet someone who wants very traditional things from a man, someone who wants traditional roles, marriage, family, and etc. he'd probably gravitate to someone he could pursue and not vice-versa, or maybe go for a girl who was very friendly with him, a close buddy. he'd be slow, though, initially. taurus mars men can be too cautious sometimes. i see that despite the cancer sun - which can be shy - he'd prefer to be the aggressor, though. a woman open to a lot of different activities and looks, a woman who changes her look (hair/clothes/style) very often would greatly appeal to him. a gal with Gemini or Libra in her chart could help bring him out a bit ... the Libra/Gem would mix well, as well as the Taurus/Libra and Aries/Libra. a gal with fire in the chart could work too, but probably best if it was in the Mars position. IP: Logged |
sunflower-moon Knowflake Posts: 264 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 26, 2016 12:51 PM
His Moon and Venus are definitely important being that Venus rules his 5th house and the Moon rules his 7th house.I wouldn't necessarily say a woman that wants traditional roles because his Moon squares Uranus but then his 7th house is Cancer which is, generally speaking, a pretty traditional sign. Then his Moon also trines Mercury. I would say someone with Cancer/Aquarius/Gemini (or Virgo)/and either Leo or Aries would be good for him. His Moon is in the 3rd house and his Venus is in the 6th house so I think Gemini or Virgo would appeal to him, maybe Gemini a bit more since that is his actual Venus sign. IP: Logged |
sunflower-moon Knowflake Posts: 264 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 26, 2016 12:54 PM
Actually, if he found someone with a planet early in Virgo that would complete a grand trine for him and would also be placed in his 8th house. IP: Logged |
lightbones Knowflake Posts: 50 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted August 26, 2016 01:50 PM
Well, how confusing lol. Every sign has been mentioned with the exception of Pisces, Sagittarius, Capricorn, and Scorpio.IP: Logged |