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posted September 06, 2016 07:37 AM            

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I've read people with a Gemini 7th house crave variety, and have a hard time being with one partner. It's unanimous these people are highly attracted to someone who is very witty and intelligent. They absolutely crave mental stimulation and things like witty banter. But do people with 7th house Gemini have a hard time staying loyal, or will they remain loyal as long as their partner keeps on being mentally stimulating?

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posted September 06, 2016 09:57 AM            

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My 7th house is ruled by Gemini and I am very loyal. I rarely date at all, in fact.

I will agree with the mental stimulation though.

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posted September 06, 2016 11:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Koniucha:
My 7th house is ruled by Gemini and I am very loyal. I rarely date at all, in fact.

I will agree with the mental stimulation though.

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Ok, can you elaborate a little on the mental stimulation? Is it like intelligent conversation? Does the other person need to have a razor sharp wit and make you laugh without much effort? Knowledgeable in different subjects? All the above?

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posted September 06, 2016 02:36 PM            

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I have 7th house in gemini. It's not that I'm not loyal its just I get bored VERY easily. I can stay with one partner as long as they are knowledgable, can stimulate me intellectually, are youthful, and have a great sense of humor. If they don't keep me on my toes there is no excitement left and I'm gone. I like when people have a mysteriousness about them...clingy, boring types turn me off.

I also don't date much either because it's extremely difficult for me to find someone who matches that criteria. But when I do find someone who does...they are a Gemini or possess the qualities of Gemini. Hope that helps!

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posted September 06, 2016 03:08 PM            

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Originally posted by madelineleo23:
I have 7th house in gemini. It's not that I'm not loyal its just I get bored VERY easily. I can stay with one partner as long as they are knowledgable, can stimulate me intellectually, are youthful, and have a great sense of humor. If they don't keep me on my toes there is no excitement left and I'm gone. I like when people have a mysteriousness about them...clingy, boring types turn me off.

I also don't date much either because it's extremely difficult for me to find someone who matches that criteria. But when I do find someone who does...they are a Gemini or possess the qualities of Gemini. Hope that helps!

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Wow, it's actually rare for you to find someone who fits that criteria? Damn....

And I think by "youthful" you mean youthful in spirit and mind, and not physically youthful, right?

Yeah, I know a girl who has a Gemini 7th and a Venus in Virgo. Venus in Virgo people are known to be very picky, have high standards, and don't casually date or form relationships like most people. Combine that with a Gemini 7th house, no wonder she's never had a boyfriend. She may be single for a very long time.

I, however have a Mars in Gemini!!!! I LOVE witty banter, and am known amongst people I know as the guy with amazing wits, and getting people to laugh with not only the things I say, but how I say it. And people always say they like talking to me and feel smarter around me because I talk so intelligently.

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posted September 06, 2016 03:16 PM            

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Mohini, yes I mean youthful as in spirit and mind, not physically. Hahah thats funny because I have venus in virgo AND mars in gemini also. I've been single for a while. Its a tough placement to have, and then having venus square mars on top of that.

I agree about mars in gemini and making people laugh, and talking intelligently. I love goofing around.

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posted September 06, 2016 04:37 PM            

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Originally posted by madelineleo23:
Mohini, yes I mean youthful as in spirit and mind, not physically. Hahah thats funny because I have venus in virgo AND mars in gemini also. I've been single for a while. Its a tough placement to have, and then having venus square mars on top of that.

I agree about mars in gemini and making people laugh, and talking intelligently. I love goofing around.

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Yeah, you must not care all that much about looks, right? I mean, I'm not saying you don't want someone who is physically attractive, but your placements make you VALUE mental stimulation, brilliance, intelligent/witty banter, over physical looks more than most people.

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posted September 06, 2016 05:24 PM            

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I do care about looks too. Thats my venus in virgo talking though. What is this person with 7th in gem venus and mars placement?

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posted September 06, 2016 06:33 PM            

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I do care about looks too. Thats my venus in virgo talking though. What is this person with 7th in gem venus and mars placement?

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Venus in Virgo and Mars in Leo.

She's a soph in college, and never had a boyfriend. She's absolutely stunning, science major, exceptionally sweet, and guys hit on her all the time. She was homecoming queen and a star athlete in high school, and now in her sorority, she's widely considered the hottest one by a lot of frat guys (I know some frat guys). You'd think a girl like this would've had one or two boyfriends by now. But no, she guards her heart. Call it picky, high standards, or maybe secretly insecure (which I doubt), but she doesn't date. I guess it would take someone truly exceptional to win the heart of someone like this.

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posted September 06, 2016 08:18 PM            

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Hm...I think that Venus in Virgo might be almost stronger then her Mars. Maybe is she waiting for that "perfect" person so she is holding out. But realistically, there is no perfect person. Or maybe she doesn't want one of those frat guys, and wants someone real, genuine. Someone with substance.

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