posted October 07, 2008 09:52 PM              

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Has anyone experienced moon conjunct saturn in synastry in a close relationship? Just looking for personal experiences.

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posted October 07, 2008 10:17 PM            

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I haven't had moon conjunct saturn in synastry with someone, but I have had a capricorn moon in a composite chart with two guys I was crazy about (I have a cap moon). I'll write about my experiences with them, after I finish studying (its midterm time ugh lol)

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posted October 08, 2008 04:08 AM            

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I had this aspect with an ex-boyfriend (he was Saturn), and it made me feel really, really, tight-lipped around him when it came to anything emotional. I felt like if I expressed anything about how I felt, he would shoot me down in some way.

Our whole chart was kind of crazy though...Lots of squaring to the personal planets, not fun at all.
I think it also depends on other factors as well. Like, if there's other easier aspects there in the chart, to smooth things out and make thing flow more easily, then it would perhaps balance out the harshness. Saturn on the moon or even Mercury is pretty harsh, I feel. Maybe even harsher than on Mars or Venus, because the Moon is so personal.

Just my opinion, though I'm by no means an expert.

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posted October 08, 2008 01:19 PM              

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I read several things about the "tight lipped" phenomenon you speak of. But then there were also a few things about a level of emotional maturity that was unlike other emotional dynamics, and that's what struck me as interesting. I can see both as being relevant to myself... but hoping the latter will prevail!

We also have a strong sun-jupiter square pluto in our composite chart, his mars is conjunct my sun (sag), my venus is conjunct his sun (late cap-early aqua), and my ascendant is conjunct his venus (aqua). Whew.

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posted October 08, 2008 01:28 PM            

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I have this with a guy as well as Saturn conjunct Venus..I am the Saturn person, and like what was said in the post above some emotional maturity is needed in this for it not to freak a person out..

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posted October 08, 2008 02:36 PM              

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i've had this with one boyfriend, and though there was an element of him sitting on my emotional reactions at times, i generally was not muzzled in this relationship. quite the opposite, it was a very easy, friendly relationship which somehow left me emotionally (romantically) unsatisfied. i was the one who ended it...

but i have moon opp sat natally so it is always hard to tell if someone else's saturn is sitting on my moon or not! as i get older i have less trouble with the natal aspect and suspect/hope that the same dynamic would apply to a relationship

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posted October 08, 2008 03:30 PM            

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It's always interesting to me how the Saturn person is frequently the one who gets left in some way.

I read about Saturn being a good binding agent in relationships, but then I think about it, and I wonder if it's fear? I mean, isn't Saturn to a certain extent also what we're afraid of?

I had this one guy I dated years ago and I always felt emotionally TERRIFIED of him. Like, in terms of being close or serious or talking....I really, really wanted to be close to him and felt like he was completely intimidating. I thought about it over time when I got into astrology and wondered if his Saturn was doing that to me, but then I got a hold of our charts, and whaddya know? I was Saturn! I was going to town with those sqaures (he was the one that cut if off by the way)to all his personal planets. It was freaky.

So I think Saturn...not always discipline, often fear as well? You WANT that person so much, but they bring out all these insecurities in you. And then maybe feeling a little self-righteous that they're not 'mature' enough for what you want...when maybe we're just feeling a little insecure with ourselves? I mean fear IS a binding agent...not a great one, but definitely can be a glue, right?
..I dunno...just a little theory *shrug*.

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posted October 08, 2008 03:33 PM            

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Just to add, I DO think that Saturn stuff IS good when people are aware and have their eyes open...and I don't think it always means it's going to turn out badly.

I do think it requires a level of emotional maturity on both sides though, and I guess that's the ultimate test

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posted September 07, 2016 11:24 AM            

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But what if the person who is the Saturn is a lot younger than the Moon person. In a Moon conjunct Saturn aspect in synastry.

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posted September 07, 2016 11:40 AM            

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posted September 07, 2016 05:00 PM            

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Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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posted September 19, 2019 07:53 PM            

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Would you count Moon inconjunct Saturn at zero degrees?

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posted September 23, 2019 10:03 PM            

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posted September 24, 2019 01:41 AM            

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We've Moon-Saturn DW in synastry. His Saturn trine my Moon; my Saturn square his Moon.

There's a lot of intimate relating between us perhaps because we've other nice Moon aspects, but he's very sensitive to my reaction and gets worried when I'm upset with him. He feels it even when I don't say anything and he'll keep bugging me until I assure him that I'm cool.

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posted February 03, 2021 07:10 AM            

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