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Topic: Any experiences with 9th House Composite Romance?
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thegrinning_cat
Knowflake Posts: 273
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted September 09, 2016 11:57 AM
  
It's not a classical relationship house, like the 7th, 5th or 8th.
Higher Learning is one of the main topics, and emotionally it sounds like teacher/student or friend relations.
Still, it's ruled by Jupiter, so it can't be that bad for anything...
Would somebody like to share a romantic experience and how it specifically played out?Of course, aspects will probably tell more than house positions, but I would be interested in a packed 9th House in general...especially Sun and Venus IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
Knowflake Posts: 300
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Registered: Jul 2016
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posted September 10, 2016 10:33 AM
in my experience, 9th house in composite is often occupied by planets, when there is a "long distance" theme to the relationship.But I agree with the teacher-student theory too. IP: Logged |
Atiany
Newflake Posts: 1
From: New York
Registered: Sep 2016
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posted September 11, 2016 05:25 PM
Hi TGC
I have a packed natal 9th house - my chart ruler is there too - so I also think/wonder about 9th house relationships. I was glad to see your post.The composite example I have is from an x-lover - we are still good friends.
We don’t have a packed composite 9th house - and the Sun is not there but still, perhaps the info is useful.
- His natal Saturn is all alone - on the top of his chart - in the 9th (Cancer); nice tight trine to his Scorpio Sun in the 1st; other hard and easy aspects to Saturn exist.
- His NN is in 3 (sag); SN in 9 (with Sat..). He travels constantly for his job - short trips of course. My NN is in 11 in Taurus.
- My natal Saturn is in the 9th (Pis) — part of a stellium w Sun, Chiron, Merc & Mars; both hard and easy aspects to Sat.
- Jupiter plays a big role in my natal chart (8 squares), and his natal chart (conjunct his IC).
- His Jup (4/aqua) conjuncts my descendant.
Here’s the composite stuff:
- Sun in 5 (Cap) ruled by Saturn in 9 (Tau).
- A tight grand earth trine from Sat in 9 (Tau) to ASC/SN/POF (Vir) to Sun/Moon/Venus in 4/5 (Cap).
- Saturn and Venus are trine and in mutual reception (9/Tau 5/Cap).
- Jupiter in 8 (Ar) is heavily and poorly aspected; ruled by Mars and conjunct Mars; squares the Sun/Moon/Ven stellium in 4/5 (Cap).
- North node conjunct DSC | south node conjunct ASC (pis/vir, exact).
played out as follows:
-we never lived in the same state; we only saw each other 3-5 times per year.
-we were friends for ten years before becoming lovers.
-the friendship was amazing and turned out to be the best part of the relationship.
-we are both teachers (of different sorts).
-I usually traveled to see him; we rarely - I think never - met in our home states (work-related stuff).
-eventually the logistics of the relationship could not be worked out.
-now we see each other 1-2 times per year and are back to being good friends. Seems like a pretty good example of Saturn in 9 — even with that nice trine to the Sun, Moon Venus, ASC, etc., we were seriously limited in how much - or often - we could enjoy each others company. we made the very best of every time we were together. I didn’t mean to go in to so much detail (!)
It allows me to see how big of a role 9th house matters play in our relationship. The houses, rulers, and planets in those spaces seem to tell the story - at least in part - pretty well.
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Cappi112
Knowflake Posts: 629
From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted September 12, 2016 06:41 AM
For me, 9H happened with someone I was involved with Long Distance. We broke up in Feb/ March. The Long Distance aspect of the relationship was also very descriptive of the relationship itself. We were too different and distant. In the end I hardly knew him. We also had different cultural backgrounds.Moon was in our 9H composite and this aspect was one of the only positive ones in the end. I don't blame distance for our breaking up. If anything, it gave us the space to SEE each other for real. We also had Venus conj. sun. I think we loved each other a lot. Still, when we broke up, it was over -we've never spoken again in 6 months and I doubt we ever will. Blame Distance a little for that too  IP: Logged | |
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