posted September 09, 2016 04:39 PM            

I found myself always being misunderstood / misread by him because he always accused me for bad intention when I talked about something. Even a small conversation about emoji icon could lead into an argument.

For example, last night he sent me a peach emoji icon and I asked, "what does it mean? is it a butt?" He replied with, "i don't know, I just send you [a peach emoji] because it's funny, does it mean a butt?". I said yes according to some information I found online. Then he sent me several random emoji and asked me what does it mean which I replied with "search on google, I don't remember all of it".

After some minutes he sent me a link about a goofy emoji face (Face With Stuck-Out Tongue and Winking Eye) with the meaning in personal answer blog that said if someone sent those emoji to other person, it could lead to 'interest' and wanted to be in relationship soon with those person (which I found really ridiculous because everytime I joke I will add those emoji). He then said, "Read it. So, how many people you have sent those emoji to? Don't just try to teach me about other emoji meaning thing". I replied with, "you sent me a peach emoji and I asked the meaning is it a butt, you said you didn't know the meaning so I told you the information that it could be a butt. I didn't try to teach you and now you sent me this link, what do you mean?".. He replied, "Yes you try to teach me. I'm not stupid. I can also teach you, why you do not like being taught?".. I replied, "You accuse me with those goofy emoji meaning and I'm not trying to teach you, I'm trying to give you the information about the meaning of your [peach] emoji. Don't put your finger on me while you also uses those [goofy] emoji to several women and cheated with some of them, this is ridiculous"..

On and on, we're like never stop arguing. If I feel not right to argue with him, he would say, "don't run away because you lose" or other nicely insult things.

Is it mercury thing? Since I value communication, this is so exhausted. So what to look in synastry?

For mercury aspect, we have:

My mercury <trine> his sun
<square> his venus
<sextile> his jupiter
<sextile> his uranus
<sextile> his saturn
<semisquare> his neptune

His mercury <square> my moon
<trine> my venus
<inconjunct> my mars
<square> my jupiter
<opposite> my neptune
<trine> my pluto

Natally, He has mercury conjunct mars, mercury trine pluto and mercury oppose neptune.

posted September 09, 2016 07:10 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Seriously now, its probably the square to your moon I would say. I have this problem with some people and I will not text them. I tell them to call me. If we end up arguing over the phone then that's a different story. It's really easy to misinterpret texts with some people.

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Even on the phone it wouldn't last longer. Either we kept arguing or he didn't want to speak on the phone longer.

posted September 10, 2016 10:07 AM            

I have an article on it.

I can out it up, if you like.

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posted September 10, 2016 10:18 AM            

mercury is such a little but very important planet. I have seen bad mercury aspects in synastry wrecking the whole relationship, no matter how strong the sexual aspect is. because in the long run, mutual trust and understanding come first.

posted September 11, 2016 02:12 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Well, then, I would say the mercury squares are active on both sides. Tight orbs? It probably wont get any easier...at least I wouldn't think so.

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Wide orbs.

posted September 11, 2016 02:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I say that a relationship can never be more than the synastry allows.

I have an article on it.

I can out it up, if you like.

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posted September 11, 2016 02:25 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
the blame IMHO is on the neptune-mercury aspects.

mercury is such a little but very important planet. I have seen bad mercury aspects in synastry wrecking the whole relationship, no matter how strong the sexual aspect is. because in the long run, mutual trust and understanding come first.

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I can see how mercury-neptune play out both in synastry and natal. In the long run I start to questioning from our conversation and how he answers every question marks.

posted September 11, 2016 02:36 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Mars is out of bounds squaring mercury Rx people keep fighting over trivial things these days. Luckily Jupiter just entered Libra so that should help with that.

Yesterday to top it off mars oob was conjuncting moon in sag and squaring mercury Rx.

Based on what I am reading you are contributing to the continuation of the fight, I hope you don't think he is the problem and that is it.

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I don't think he is the problem, that's why I put this thread in here, because I want to look if there's something in the synastry.