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Loveher
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posted September 23, 2016 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Will ever talk again?
In reality chances almost zero and she will leav after few months.. She is the outside planets how does she feel about me????

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posted September 23, 2016 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
is her birth time correct? i can see Moon-Pluto both ways but the orb seems wide...Moon - Pluto is highly obsessive in synastry. Think drug addiction. No matter how bad you know it is, you got to have your fix.

And her NN on your DSC is very captivating for you.

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posted September 23, 2016 10:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Shouldn't be the other way around its her NN why im the one who can't get over her she is dating someone else though tried to talk six months ago but i ignored her... But she seemed she moved on and stopped even trying to see me why her NN is not effecting her why its effecting me?

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posted September 23, 2016 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
because the angles are the most sensitive points in one's chart. First and foremost. Everything that touches the angles, is like a direct plug into our world. NN is her life's direction, where she is going. You want her to take you for the ride. You like where she is going and you want to be part of it..

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posted September 23, 2016 11:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
is the birth time correct, thou? For both?

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posted September 23, 2016 11:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are right i want to be part of her life and i want herro be partof mine this energy os driving me crazy how can i get over it

My time is 100% sure her time 85%

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posted September 24, 2016 05:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Orange:
because the angles are the most sensitive points in one's chart. First and foremost. Everything that touches the angles, is like a direct plug into our world. NN is her life's direction, where she is going. You want her to take you for the ride. You like where she is going and you want to be part of it..

Love it, just answered a question I had about my NN on someone's DSC. Thanks Orange 👍

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posted September 24, 2016 08:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fiola     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When there's moon square moon in synastry, it becomes so hard to keep the relationship, because you're so fundamentally different. But in my experiance it is also why you find it hard to let go.

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posted September 24, 2016 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmGem:
Love it, just answered a question I had about my NN on someone's DSC. Thanks Orange 👍


How did you feel about them?

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posted September 24, 2016 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by fiola:
When there's moon square moon in synastry, it becomes so hard to keep the relationship, because you're so fundamentally different. But in my experiance it is also why you find it hard to let go.

Agree emotional wise its like we r completely from different planets however fhe caring between us was genuine we reied so hard not to hurt each other feelings act super nice and sweet with each other and most importantly there was respect.

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posted September 24, 2016 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmGem:
Love it, just answered a question I had about my NN on someone's DSC. Thanks Orange 👍

EmGem I'm curious what your question was, esp as the NN person. I've been ignoring angle NN stuff. I don't have NN on the DSC with someone, I have NN on the IC with someone and yes it's driving me crazy. In my synastry with someone I'm the IC person and it's literally driving me up the wall. I think the only way I'll be able to untangle myself is if I just never see this person again (and even block them on social media so I don't see their name). What's even worse is the composite has the Vertex on the DSC with the NN in Cancer in the 4th close to the IC. Venus is in the 4th, Sun in the 5th.

I almost feel like I'm supposed to have kids with this person, which is a super strange thing to say lol.

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posted September 24, 2016 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The same feeling im literally obsessed and wanted to marry her.... Ignoring her didnt work im more obsessed now and cant stop thinking about her the thing is life events always make me miss her.

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posted September 24, 2016 07:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Loveher:

How did you feel about them?

I'm completely in love with him. I know he's one of my soulmates, won't say twin flame becuase I don't know how I feel about that label. But certainly someone very significant in my life. He says that what we have is not of this world. BUT we have Uranus opposite Venus in the composite which puts distance between us before we come back together again with electrifying excitement. Timing just isn't right at the moment and so I just have to see how it all unfolds.

@girlygirl - I just wanted to know how the angle person feels about my NN contact. As Orange said, anything that touches the angles is significant, especially the nodes. It's not to be taken lightly. I'm not surprised that you feel you want to have kids with them with their NN on your IC.

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posted September 24, 2016 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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The same feeling im literally obsessed and wanted to marry her.... Ignoring her didnt work im more obsessed now and cant stop thinking about her the thing is life events always make me miss her.

I totally understand, we didn't have Moon Square Moon...we had the Trine by orb and by sign...and my Moon is also his Rising. His Moon is my Venus and NN.

But I have had Moon Square Moon before and while it was doable (due to the Aries Moon relating to my Asc/Sun/Mars Conjunction in 1st, and the Libra Moon relating to my own chart ruler, the Moon, being in the 7th Trine Venus), I still didn't feel a real emotional connection. Even the Sextile is meh to me (i.e. Water Moon) and I'm a Water Sun/Asc/Mars person lol. I have a Cap Moon btw.

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posted September 24, 2016 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's good to know the NN person feels it too.

@EmGem we have a lot of karmic stuff going on. Like I mentioned the Composite stuff...but also Draconic stuff. For instance his Draconic Sun/Moon MP is on my natal Moon, my Draconic Sun/Moon MP is on his natal Sun. And Conjunction Draconic Moons. My natal Sun/Moon MP is on his natal Saturn, his natal Sun/Moon MP is on my natal Asc/Sun/Mars Conjunction. We also have Opp Rising Signs (mine in Cancer his in Cap), and a crazy amount of Saturn in our synastry. And a nice Mars Pluto Conjunction that adds a whole lot of pressure to the mix lol. My natal Pluto is Conjunct his natal NN, I have no idea what that means. It's not generational either as there is an age difference between us.

Another thing I noticed is his Sun/Mercury are my NN and

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posted September 24, 2016 09:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Loveher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by EmGem:
I'm completely in love with him. I know he's one of my soulmates, won't say twin flame becuase I don't know how I feel about that label. But certainly someone very significant in my life. He says that what we have is not of this world. BUT we have Uranus opposite Venus in the composite which puts distance between us before we come back together again with electrifying excitement. Timing just isn't right at the moment and so I just have to see how it all unfolds.

@girlygirl - I just wanted to know how the angle person feels about my NN contact. As Orange said, anything that touches the angles is significant, especially the nodes. It's not to be taken lightly. I'm not surprised that you feel you want to have kids with them with their NN on your IC.



My moon aspect her uranus and my uranus aspect her venus and time is never right...
Its really nice to know how NN feel ....but i guess NN doesnt make so much effort like dec and NN is more likely to move on or get bored from trying thats my guess....

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posted September 25, 2016 04:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:
It's good to know the NN person feels it too.

@EmGem we have a lot of karmic stuff going on. Like I mentioned the Composite stuff...but also Draconic stuff. For instance his Draconic Sun/Moon MP is on my natal Moon, my Draconic Sun/Moon MP is on his natal Sun. And Conjunction Draconic Moons. My natal Sun/Moon MP is on his natal Saturn, his natal Sun/Moon MP is on my natal Asc/Sun/Mars Conjunction. We also have Opp Rising Signs (mine in Cancer his in Cap), and a crazy amount of Saturn in our synastry. And a nice Mars Pluto Conjunction that adds a whole lot of pressure to the mix lol. My natal Pluto is Conjunct his natal NN, I have no idea what that means. It's not generational either as there is an age difference between us.

Another thing I noticed is his Sun/Mercury are my NN and


holy moly! all i can say is good luck. That won't be an easy relationship to forget. I think the only way that might happen is if another stray starts sniffing around you and sweeps you off your feet.
I also have the pluto conjunct NN with my soulmate and we're 11 years apart.
why can't you two be together anyway?

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posted September 25, 2016 04:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Loveher:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by EmGem:
[b] I'm completely in love with him. I know he's one of my soulmates, won't say twin flame becuase I don't know how I feel about that label. But certainly someone very significant in my life. He says that what we have is not of this world. BUT we have Uranus opposite Venus in the composite which puts distance between us before we come back together again with electrifying excitement. Timing just isn't right at the moment and so I just have to see how it all unfolds.

@girlygirl - I just wanted to know how the angle person feels about my NN contact. As Orange said, anything that touches the angles is significant, especially the nodes. It's not to be taken lightly. I'm not surprised that you feel you want to have kids with them with their NN on your IC.



My moon aspect her uranus and my uranus aspect her venus and time is never right...
Its really nice to know how NN feel ....but i guess NN doesnt make so much effort like dec and NN is more likely to move on or get bored from trying thats my guess....

[/B][/QUOTE]

Well obviously all other aspects in the synastry must be taken into consideration, you can't really isolate. But funny you should say that because person i'm starting to get bored with the indecisions. I think another stray will start sniffing soon and then he won't know what hit him. I don't think its a NN thing though.. it's just a human thing lol.

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posted September 25, 2016 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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holy moly! all i can say is good luck. That won't be an easy relationship to forget. I think the only way that might happen is if another stray starts sniffing around you and sweeps you off your feet.
I also have the pluto conjunct NN with my soulmate and we're 11 years apart.
why can't you two be together anyway?

Lol yeah we have a lot of stuff going on. Including his Moon is my Venus and NN, my natal Moon is his Rising. We also have double whammy Sun Saturn Squares, double whammy Moon Saturn aspects (Opp and Square), and a marked lack of Uranus in our synastry...minus double whammy Mercury Uranus aspects (Square and Opp).

We aren't together because I have all along tried to convince myself that we are friends (his Moon falls in my 11th). And that there is nothing romantic between us. But I recently realized how so much of his actions are done with me in mine (he's a strategic Scorpio Mars). Months ago I upset him, and he never really got over that, I think that made him deem me off limits for a Scorpio Mars man lol. Plus I realized he doesn't want to be my friend, he seems completely apathetic to me unless I hint or say something alluding to feelings for him. It's almost as if my expression of emotions (the more emotional the better lol) turns him on lol. That could be the Water Mars.

EmGem do you think he feels the pull as well? I do agree he is tough to forget, but I wonder if he feels the same way or is affected? I have a feeling he is affected by me but I don't know if he is feeling the pull I am.

I should also say it's not the NN Conjunct Pluto it's Chiron Conjunct Pluto.

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posted September 26, 2016 03:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@girlygirl, it seems to be that he does feel the pull going by what you describe. Perhaps you need to examine how YOU really feel for him. Look deep inside your heart. Those aspects seem to point to loads of attraction though.
I have an idea, why not post the synastry in a separate thread for peeps to look at AND post the composite for Todd to look at. He's the expert around here on composites and he's quite on point

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posted January 16, 2018 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmpressMendez     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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The same feeling im literally obsessed and wanted to marry her.... Ignoring her didnt work im more obsessed now and cant stop thinking about her the thing is life events always make me miss her.

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