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hearttreasure
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posted October 01, 2016 06:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anyone know if there's couple who has Mars square Uranus and/or Saturn in Composite chart survive in relationship?

Or do you think this aspect can survive?

I know it's considered as bad aspect in Composite, but if we believe in hope, what to learn to make this composite aspect work in relationship?

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posted October 01, 2016 07:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not Mars, but I know of a couple who have in their compospite Venus-conjunct-Uranus, squaring Saturn. Going strong for 16 years (as a couple, they were friends before), married for 12.
Very committed and steady, big family by now, they make a great team. They love each other and are happy and supportive.


Their Mars is widely conjunct Saturn (7°38) and square Venus (6°40)


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hearttreasure
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posted October 04, 2016 12:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^ Yes, I've seen some couple with those aspect and continue well.

But I have not found yet the Mars square uranus/saturn (tight aspect) composite successfully well. The man in this composite is still holding on while the woman has already tired of bs. Whenever she says it's not working, he will find a way to make up, but staying together overwhelmingly each other like both can not live in the same roof for more than two days.

I really want to know if there's positive outlook from this aspect..

Anyone?

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posted October 04, 2016 12:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Starry~*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, My friend has this aspect with her fiancee.

They have Mars square Uranus and Mars square Saturn in their composite. Actually, they have a huge T square.

However, the Mars sq Uranus is wide (8') and Mars sq Saturn is also pretty wide too (6'). They have composite mars in Aries squaring late Sag.

They got engaged this year and bought a house together after being together for 3 and a half years.

My cousin and her husband has composite mars square saturn, but again it's wide at 6'. They have been together for 14 years, married for 4, and they've been through ALOT of **** together. I've always looked up to them because one thing about them is that they NEVER gave up on each other. They almost did at one point but they still decided to hold onto one another.

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posted October 04, 2016 02:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^ Glad to know! Does your friend or her fiancee have uranus hard aspect to their personal planet?

To be honest the description of mars square uranus/saturn about unstable, constantly fighting, and the difficulty getting on the same page are TRUE. Often I don't find good comment on this aspect too and have not yet found the actual people who survive commenting how they survive the relationship long term.

The man in my composite has natal uranus hard aspect to natal sun, he is by nature unstable, erratic, tend to break the rule, the mood, oh so changeable, and his mercury conjunct mars is loud and loves argument or fighting with mouth. So, the relationship feels natural for him?

The relationship has been more than 3 ****** and hell years too. I don't know how to survive this aspect, would love to hear how to handle this...... crazy composite aspect..

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posted October 05, 2016 03:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im in such a relationship ringt now and i cant see it last much longer. Mars is in Virgo 1st house squaring Uranus in sagitarius in our 5th.

I was 34 years when we met and for the first time in my life i have actually started to throw Coffee cups and else to The walls of our home. I instantly feel terrible about it but afterwards, but i have never ever in my life met a person whom can get on my nerves as my girlfriend.

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posted October 05, 2016 06:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dancing Maenad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had Mars sq Saturn and Pluto, in addition to Venus sq Uranus (exact) in the composite in my longest, happiest relationship.

No aspect is a sentence!

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posted October 05, 2016 06:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:

No aspect is a sentence!

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posted October 05, 2016 06:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:

No aspect is a sentence!

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hearttreasure
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posted October 05, 2016 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab:
Im in such a relationship ringt now and i cant see it last much longer. Mars is in Virgo 1st house squaring Uranus in sagitarius in our 5th.

I was 34 years when we met and for the first time in my life i have actually started to throw Coffee cups and else to The walls of our home. I instantly feel terrible about it but afterwards, but i have never ever in my life met a person whom can get on my nerves as my girlfriend.


In my composite the Mars also in Virgo late degree, and if his ascendant is correct, the composite Mars is in 1st house square sag uranus less than 1' and sag saturn prob 5' in 5th house, which also the composite Mars in 1st house makes sense because when we're together we have abundance energy and motivated to want to do anything and achieve it and feel unmotivated if seperated, but at the same time we can not stay longer than two days at the same roof, we rarely have some fun time too.

I don't know why he still insists to continue the relationship even if I try to explain how much painful the relationship is. He has two times lost his control over his hand and I have enough of it (we have lots of problems since beginning especially about his cheating part, I really try hard to get over it but the relationship is continue too unstable and constant bickering/arguing).

I think we are in the same page that think there's almost no hope to continue or see the long term of this composite aspect in relationship. And it's sad because I wish there's hope..

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