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Topic: website: secret language of relationships
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colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 512 From: Durham north carolina usa Registered: May 2015
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posted October 01, 2016 08:33 PM
From now on I am going by this website and if it says that me and another do not work best in love relations or marriage then I am running for the hills!!!! My first husband fell in working best as friends and he was not right at all for me. Recently I met a guy who fell in this same area and well, maybe if we had known each other before we could have been great friends Idk.. All I know is that the best relationships come from the areas for love and marriage. They are the ones I actually can remain friends with, talk to time to time and love as a person even though things did not work out which I think takes alot of maturity to do!!!! Anyone care to share thier experiences and post? I also find the things stated very very very true in all incounters I have experienced.IP: Logged |
mereiposa Knowflake Posts: 287 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 01, 2016 08:48 PM
I just checked it out, and I am intrigued. It characterized my relationships pretty well.Crazy! IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5423 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 01, 2016 08:56 PM
link ?IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 19451 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 01, 2016 08:57 PM
http://thesecretlanguageofbirthdays.com/ IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5423 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 01, 2016 09:33 PM
thanks, faithdoes it fit your marriage? IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 19451 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 01, 2016 10:47 PM
Yes, it fits my marriage perfectly!I own this book and like the readings. However, I don't like the authoritative tone and bossiness...well like Mark Twain said, “There is nothing in the world like persuasive speech to fuddle the mental apparatus.” ...And it's not always fitting for me. So, I usually like it, but sometimes want to talk back to it, explain, get the book to change its mind. IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 2987 From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6 Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 01, 2016 11:16 PM
I love it. Very accurate in my opinion. I've read about many relationships of myself with others. From celebrities, my wife, friends, coworkers, family, ex's... A lot. IP: Logged |
mereiposa Knowflake Posts: 287 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 02, 2016 06:00 AM
It applied for my marriage, ideal for work but not more! And for my sister's marriage of 17 yrs, and my parents marriage of 47yrs. That's pretty cool. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 29252 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 02, 2016 06:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Faith:
...And it's not always fitting for me. So, I usually like it, but sometimes want to talk back to it, explain, get the book to change its mind.
haha, I am just the same! Which is why I steer clear of TV-discussions on a subject close to my heart - as I cannot bear the knowledge that i can scream at the TV all I want, nOONE is going to hear me! IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 29252 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 02, 2016 06:45 AM
It`s somewhat correct for me, but not into the details. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 19451 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 02, 2016 09:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: It`s somewhat correct for me, but not into the details.
I can't get some readings out of my head. ---- edit I should look at my synastry/composite with the author of those books, because he's had an enormous influence on my life. Not so much with this book, but The Secret Language of Destiny, about the nodal axis. That's the one that lured me into real astrology. http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Gary_Goldschneider His ASC conjunct my Neptune His sun conjunct my Ceres in Gemini His Cancer moon trine my moon His Mercury trine my sun His Saturn on my MC, rectified chart His Neptune opposing my moon His Pluto conjunct my Saturn His Uranus conjunct my south node in Taurus His NN conjunct my Uranus in Scorpio ETA: I only commented to you in my head on this, forgot to say it out loud: quote: Originally posted by Ceridwen: haha, I am just the same! Which is why I steer clear of TV-discussions on a subject close to my heart - as I cannot bear the knowledge that i can scream at the TV all I want, nOONE is going to hear me!
I can perfectly believe that! IP: Logged |
Lerena Knowflake Posts: 439 From: Registered: May 2015
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posted October 02, 2016 09:48 AM
Mine says "serious sacrifices." It doesn't really feel like I've sacrificed much to be honest. I mean, there are things I've given up but not because I had to.I'm not a fan of certain things it got wrong about me though. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 19451 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 02, 2016 09:51 AM
I also wanted to say that I was really deeply in love with a certain ex. This book does not reflect the nature of that relationship at all, when I look at sun/sun.But I looked up my NN with his, and that described it perfectly. Shopped around and took complete artistic license in finding the right words to explain what happened. Like these are just templates that I've tried to match to things....sometimes moon/moon explains it better I think. Just have to translate moon degrees into the author's categories. Anyway it's something to play around with. IP: Logged |
nordicsoul Knowflake Posts: 1207 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted October 02, 2016 09:58 AM
not impressed with the website.. IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5423 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 02, 2016 10:46 AM
Faith, where is that NN book stuff link? What were your Node connections with this particular guy?I read the description of myself on that link you posted before - the language of destiny - and it fits me to a tee~ IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 19451 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 02, 2016 11:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: Faith, where is that NN book stuff link?
If you enter your birthday, there is a page with circles: Day of Week of Way of Path of "Way of" is the nodal axis reading. "Path of" is how your sun copes, on that nodal Way. quote: Originally posted by Orange: What were your Node connections with this particular guy?
Ugh He's Cusp of Revolution (Scorpio-Sag) NN and I'm Week of Charm NN (hey don't laugh! ) (Scorpio III). Edit: Well I cut and pasted the reading but feel kind of exposed sharing that. Like I'm telling Chapter Fifteen of a book that was twenty chapters long. quote: Originally posted by Orange: I read the description of myself on that link you posted before - the language of destiny - and it fits me to a tee~
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 5423 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 02, 2016 12:31 PM
^^^' Thanks, sugarOff to check the remaining, i only read the day and then the week IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 5423 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted October 02, 2016 12:40 PM
The Nodal reading is only for each person separately, i dont see a reading between the Nodals, thou? IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 2987 From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6 Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 02, 2016 12:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: If you enter your birthday, there is a page with circles:Day of Week of Way of Path of "Way of" is the nodal axis reading. "Path of" is how your sun copes, on that nodal Way.
I've only just started reading for "Way of". It's incredible It feels good an bad. It's awesome that I relate so well to it. It's awesome that I'm on the right path. It sucks that it is a deep source of pain. It sucks that it feels pretty much impossible.
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 19451 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 02, 2016 01:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: The Nodal reading is only for each person separately, i dont see a reading between the Nodals, thou?
Sorry...you have to it manually. I convert the nodes into birthdays, though there is some room for error there, as this system doesn't stick to the degrees, but the dates. My NN, 20 Scorpio, happens around Nov 13th. So that's my node date. My ex's NN, I think 28 Scorpio? I use Nov 20th. I can double check for accuracy using that site, by finding the other person's "Way." That site tells me my Way is from Natural to Charm. My ex goes from Energy to Revolution I think. So I enter a date that shows me, Charm (LOL) paired with Revolution. If I guessed Nov 16th as a guess for his 28 Scorpio NN that would show a reading for Charm with Charm. Which is wrong. Because I am familiar with the book, I just pick a date in the center of each "personology period" (ie, section of the zodiac, as the author divides them.) I don't try and match the NN degree to an exact date, I just go for the center of the personology period that the NN degree falls into. So, if I know a person's NN is on a cusp, I just chose the 20th for the date, knowing it will always give me that cusp. For Aries I, Taurus I, etc, I choose the 27th of the relevant month. For Aries II, Taurus II, etc, I choose the 5th of the month. For Aries III, etc, I chose the 15th. Hope that isn't too confusing. I don't actually do this a lot, and when I'm interested, I consult my book, not the website. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 19451 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 02, 2016 01:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by DopGang: It's incredible
So glad you like it. edit as usual........ IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 2987 From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6 Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 02, 2016 01:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: So glad you like it. ....................
And I'm itching to erase this already, but let's see how long it lasts.......
I can't see you as creepy. Though it makes me curious. My "way" can easily be seen even here on LL. "I love secret language of..." Later... "I didn't read that far into it yet." "I love MBTI and Enneagram! It's awesome!" Later... "I didn't read that far into it yet." And it goes on and on. I need to go read "path" now. lol Maybe it can help.
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 19451 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 02, 2016 01:56 PM
Not creepy? Thank you! LOL The part that really strikes me is, when you nail it you absolutely NAIL IT. Let me find the excerpt.... No, nevermind, it's not there. I don't know if the website cuts out parts of the book or if I remember it wrong. But this is pretty close, same idea: quote: In such a scenario, having proceeded to home in on a problem and solve it with the laserlike focus, their sensuous side can kick in to provide great satisfaction in the ensuing rest period.
Then there just bits and pieces that are familiar to me. I don't really have all that in mind. My mind is actually not big enough to juggle all the relevant astrology when I'm talking to someone. And I like to shut it off sometimes. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 19451 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 02, 2016 02:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by DopGang: My "way" can easily be seen even here on LL. "I love secret language of..." Later... "I didn't read that far into it yet."
Yes I see what you mean about this but I don't know if you read further or not, after you post. IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 2987 From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6 Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 02, 2016 03:29 PM
Yes, it takes something extraordinary to creep me out. You're welcome. I don't see how you'd creep someone out. You're very respectful. Well anyway... (trying not to take over the thread) Many times when there's someone that I need to be around a lot, such as at work. I'll look up "The Secret Language" along with the Astrology. The other thing that I'll add is that as I read through "The Secret Language of Relationships" descriptions, it actually added to descriptions of myself. It's not that we don't know ourselves but sometimes there's things that we're not aware of or had not looked at from a different point of view. That's why I love all of this. (This site, Astrology, etc) IP: Logged |