posted October 06, 2016 12:31 PM            

There is also a strong karmic aspect to it, or if we want to not talk in karmic terms, a lot of glue; well the Pluto-aspects can be compulsive, the Saturn-Venus-aspects don`t let go. An exact Venus-Saturn-DW, very strong glue-potential, but espcially since they are square each other, can go both ways. Extreme comfort and sticking to each other, or extreme discomfort. It`s like two magnests that stick to each other, even though they may not quite "fit". But this might last a long time, and well Venus-Saturn can be surprisingly attractive for some people. That feeling of quiet familiarity and practical caring.

however from an overview you seem to be very different, elmentwise and aspect wise, and your Sun-Neptune is not aspected, except for the conjunction to Uranus. Might be or might have been exciting, though possibly overstimulating, but also possibly he doesnīt really get you, or a part of you at least. Well some couples can live with that, but personally I always prefer the feeling that the other person really gets me, and I am not sure you can get that here (though progressions might help temporarily with that)

But other than that just very different in nature, which can be attracting, but also after a while lead to push-pull scenarios.

Your Moon in Libra his Moon in Virgo - well they donīt hurt each other and those Moon-signs ccan get along, but there is a different way to asess emotions.

Also your Moon in Libra his Sun in Cancer, his Moon in Virgo your Sun in Sag - your Fire-air might e attracting his Water-earth and vice versa and you could learn and grow with each other, ut there is just so little you have in common. Like coming from different worlds.
Well your Sun conjuncts Neptune, maybe that makes a magnetism to his Moon in Virgo - but again an attraction of opposites.

Then there is your Venus-Mars in Sag-Leo
his combo is in Virgo-Cap

Again, very different, though Fire and Earth often attract each other, but with practically nothing, no bridge between those, I doubt that this makes for a close union (can be long lasting, just might lack that feeling of mutual understanding, or let`s say you have to talk really a lot to understand each other).

The Mercuries also do not quite fit, Cap - Leo. However your Earth Mercury might be able to rationally understand all his relationship planets, esp. Mars, as does his Mercury to your Mars (and other planets).

However your Mercury conjunct his Neptune - might be almost psychically attuned to each other, but with this aspect I noticed that while the nonverbal communication and telepathy seems to be strong and on point ad very symbolically, the verbal communication can be confusing and full of misunderstandings sometmes. Though principially there could be a lot of creative exchange here.

There is also a Mercury-Mars-conjunction, which could make for lively communication, unless you annoy the heck out of each other. Some people relaly dislike Mercury-Mars and find it annoying and quarrelsome. Personally I love it. and might be a good antidote to the Mercury-Neptune.

Well this is what stood out to me, but of course without a relationshp background it`s hard to say how this plays out, as there is always a certain range of manifestation.

posted October 06, 2016 01:50 PM            

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Well I can see that there might be a very powerful sexual intensity with your Pluto squaring his Sun-Mars-opposition.

I do think however that even if he reciprocrated your feelings, this couldn`t be anything more than a tempestuous sexual affair, even one that might last a long time, but there would be growing dissatisfaction I think. There is just so little compatibility there.

----I am sorry, I guess that sounds too harsh - of course two people wanting to can make every synastry "work", just this one would demand a Herculeanean effort almost, and the personalities would probably clash often.

Why do you think you are so pulled to him? What kind of "lack" does he fill for you?