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hypatia238
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posted October 09, 2016 12:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It really sucks when your 11th house ruler squares your partner's 11th house ruler, what a nightmare.

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Ceridwen
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posted October 09, 2016 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
why? What`s wrong?

(though I very much like the fact my best friend and me share a conjunction of our 11th house rulers)

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posted October 09, 2016 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it because when 11th house rulers clash, the two people do not appear in harmony in social situations and causes discomfort to others because of it?

This makes me want to go through all my synastries and check the 11th house rulers now..

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posted October 09, 2016 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by athenaia:
Is it because when 11th house rulers clash, the two people do not appear in harmony in social situations and causes discomfort to others because of it?

This makes me want to go through all my synastries and check the 11th house rulers now..


That is a good point too...not flowing together in social situations and feeling a bit uncomfortable in social situations with the other.

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posted October 09, 2016 12:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
why? What`s wrong?

(though I very much like the fact my best friend and me share a conjunction of our 11th house rulers)


There is this constant tug of war between your hopes and dreams and their hopes and dreams and this constant need to find some kind of compromise so neither feels they are getting screwed. This feeling of is all about their hopes and dreams and what about mine?? And both feeling like the other doesn't care enough about the other person's hopes and dreams...

It makes it harder to feel you are making progress with your hopes and dreams and it feels like you constantly hit a wall bc of the other. It's a source of conflict and frustration but it does forces both sooner or later to reach a compromise so both people feel honored and like their hopes and dreams are been taken seriously.

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posted October 09, 2016 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is this what you have been subjected to ?
Just wondering where this suddenly came from.

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hypatia238
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posted October 09, 2016 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Is this what you have been subjected to ?
Just wondering where this suddenly came from.

Perhaps I made it sound dark bc I was in a bad mood but people with this aspect can reach a lot of dreams together without a doubt but it will often feel like a tug of war due to the nature of the square.

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posted October 09, 2016 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
There is this constant tug of war between your hopes and dreams and their hopes and dreams and this constant need to find some kind of compromise so neither feels they are getting screwed. This feeling of is all about their hopes and dreams and what about mine?? And both feeling like the other doesn't care enough about the other person's hopes and dreams...

It makes it harder to feel you are making progress with your hopes and dreams and it feels like you constantly hit a wall bc of the other. It's a source of conflict and frustration but it does forces both sooner or later to reach a compromise so both people feel honored and like their hopes and dreams are been taken seriously.


How are your Jupiter aspects? Synastry I mean. Also Asc aspects.

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hypatia238
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posted October 10, 2016 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^
His jupiter conjuncts my Sun and mercury and opposes my moon, it also semisextiles my venus and mars...

My Jupiter conjunct Uranus sextiles his Sun and inconjuncts his Moon.

Our ACs oppose each other....


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hypatia238
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posted October 10, 2016 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Ceridwen:
why? What`s wrong?

(though I very much like the fact my best friend and me share a conjunction of our 11th house rulers)


How lovely, I imagine the conjunction feels very different from the square

I have the sextile with my best friend and love it, I have the conjunction with my other best friend I have known since I was around 11 and well I prefer the sextile but our friendship is still going even though we bump heads at times...

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hypatia238
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posted October 11, 2016 11:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anybody care to share their experiences involving 11h ruler aspecting other person's 11h ruler?

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