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posted October 17, 2016 03:01 PM            

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She helped me a lot we stopped talking i felt so much guilty and felt i i woe her thanking her i went to her gave her gift she helped me even more stopped talking again for six months im trying so hard to get over her but everything happening make me feel that i stoll owe her thanking her again and a proper ending of connection. What should i do she is avoiding me now dating someone else any chance to contact her would be only through work email i dont have her number she doesnt even give me a chance to talk and im stick in this guilt what should i do how to end this idea that i owe her something.....

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posted October 17, 2016 03:53 PM            

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What is your synastry like? I think you posted it once but can you post it againn?

I am sorry you feel like that! Wish you peace of mind and finding a resolution with her.

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posted October 22, 2016 09:58 PM            

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Thanks i wish that too I honestly hate to leave thing hanging with ppl i have to have clear ending especially with her she make me feel so guilty im wondering if she is suffering too...

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posted October 22, 2016 09:59 PM            

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She is the outaide planets

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posted October 22, 2016 10:25 PM            

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why are you feeling guilty? oh gosh, you do sound like you are in pain

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posted October 22, 2016 11:31 PM            

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sometimes astrology doesnt have all the answers.
I get the feeling that because you may have read somewhere that this aspect means one of you owes the other, you are taking it quite heavily on your shoulders and making it out to be something it might not actually be in reality. Plus ascendants can often not be accurate. But that's for another post. Dunno, hopefully Im not projecting.

I think put astrology aside for a sec and find those answers within yourself with some guidance and therapy if need be. This situation has been going on for a while if I remember you have been posting about this for quite some time. You seem really stuck. But the freedom lies within yourself. Find out where this pain comes from and begin to feel it to heal it as they say.
Not sure if I'm making much sense but yeah I just got this strong feeling when reading your post...

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posted November 01, 2016 07:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
why are you feeling guilty? oh gosh, you do sound like you are in pain

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For the first time in my life someone did give a **** bout me i know sounds pathetic but i feel deep guilt not to tell her that...
My life is so strange maybe because i have moon in my 8th house and many water and signs and lord of houses placements i do experice these stuff on a relly deep level ppl seemes shallow to me they think u r only allowed to get attached after having sex pr u should be able to move on fast im not my emotions are deep and i cant just switch them off im cold and cool on the aurface but i hide this i know i seep stupid but i cant change who i am

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posted November 01, 2016 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
sometimes astrology doesnt have all the answers.
I get the feeling that because you may have read somewhere that this aspect means one of you owes the other, you are taking it quite heavily on your shoulders and making it out to be something it might not actually be in reality. Plus ascendants can often not be accurate. But that's for another post. Dunno, hopefully Im not projecting.

I think put astrology aside for a sec and find those answers within yourself with some guidance and therapy if need be. This situation has been going on for a while if I remember you have been posting about this for quite some time. You seem really stuck. But the freedom lies within yourself. Find out where this pain comes from and begin to feel it to heal it as they say.
Not sure if I'm making much sense but yeah I just got this strong feeling when reading your post...

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I need a prober ending all my exs crushes frienda i needed a prober ending like u r forever out or u still have a chance i need that

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