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saadsarah8
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posted October 25, 2016 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saadsarah8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 25, 2016 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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posted October 25, 2016 05:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ann7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Intense sexual attraction - think primal. Mars will be the aggressor but both will feel it.

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posted October 25, 2016 08:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SalemsEnd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Any aspect between Venus and Mars will produce a certain amount of draw to one another.
The square produces some friction or 'teasing energy.'
There's tension, which can generate either sexual heat or just plain old irritation. Venus sometimes sees the Mars person as too 'forward' and Mars see the Venus person as withholding. The attraction often descends into irritation eventually, but all things considered. Usually you need some softer aspects to Venus or Mars (or good conjunctions) to reduce the friction.
***Sun conjunct Venus is probably going to help with that.

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As for Sun square Mars in synastry but Sun conjunct Mars in Composite- I actually have this exact same combination with someone both ways. -His Scorpio Mars square my Leo Sun (2), my Libra Mars square his Cappy Sun (5) -but Libra Sun conjunct Mars in Composite (0deg)....

If the Composite aspect is closer than the synastry one it seems to potentially overrule (or at least greatly reduce) the jarring quality of the square in synastry.
I don't agree that Composites just magically activate once you declare you're in a relationship with someone. What, is there a special document you need to sign or something that brings the Composite to life? *exaggerated eye roll*
Composite is two energetic blueprints merging together. When you're interacting with someone you're interacting with them energetically, and they you. Your energies are merging. Synastry is when you view yourself as separate from someone. If you're used to extending your sensors out to someone else, you can sense composite aspects pretty darn quickly after meeting someone.

In saying that...you can usually feel Composite Sun conjunct Mars very early on.
It's really about having your drives match up, which includes sex drives. Generally there's a lot of agreement about how they use their energy and what for. If you've ever had Sun conjunct Mars in synastry its just a general feeling of understanding one another's ego constructs, and their 'push' out into the world. The physical compatibility is great- not just for intimacy but also simpler things like being comfortable sitting close together, walking together at a similar pace, etc.

In the Composite it's like that, but more extreme. The physical chemistry is through the roof. It's a basic attraction at a primal level. It's not devouring like pluto, but it can have the quality of being animalistic or a little rough. In general they're rougher with eachother than they are with other people. There's something about the other person that makes you courageous and willing to put yourself forth. You magically become more daring.
A lot of energy is generated, so we must be careful that it doesn't descend into heated arguments. They can get a lot done together.

The relationship tends to be very physical. Lots of touching and/or sex. There's a lack of awkwardness involved with it as well. I've heard someone say that sometimes the actual goal of the relationship itself is to be intimate lol.

This aspect does not indicate emotional and/or mental compatibility though, so that would need to be found elsewhere.

Hope that helped

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posted October 26, 2016 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saadsarah8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted October 26, 2016 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SalemsEnd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by saadsarah8:
Wow awesome insight! Thanks a lot

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posted October 27, 2016 07:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cultstatus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had this with a guy and combined with his mars on my ascendant I can honestly say I've never had such an intense sexual chemistry with another that flowed so naturally. Even though that was almost a year ago when we see each other it's electric and does not fade. At all.
I was obsessed with him for a while.

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posted October 27, 2016 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl200     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this aspect with a guy that I'm currently working on trying to get over (I'm crazy about him, but he doesn't care for me). I'm Mars, and in addition to my Mars being Square his Venus, my Sun and AC also Square his Venus. My Mars is also Square his Saturn. From his side his Mars is Trine my Sun, AC, and Mars, Conjunct my Pluto, and Square my Mercury (which usually when I touch a guys Mars like that he's all over me lol). We also have a Moon Neptune (I'm Moon) Conjunction, double whammy Venus Neptune (Square & Trine), a Venus Moon (I'm Venus) Conjunction, a NN-IC (I'm the IC) Conjunction, Chiron-Pluto Conjunction (I'm Pluto), a Moon in 1st House Overlay (my Moon Falls in his 1st), and a Neptune in 1st house Overlay (I'm Neptune).

I'll add that Sun Square Venus is a Double Whammy with us and produces an almost love stelluim in the Composite. Composite Sun is Conjunct Venus in Leo with Composite Mercury also in Leo (both the Sun and Mercury fall in the 5th...Venus in the 4th). Composite NN in Cancer is loosely Conjunct the IC (and is in the 4th).

I want him...badly but it seems like all I do is irritate him (that's the only emotion he will show me....other than that he's a brick wall and doesn't react to anything). I finally realized that he really dislikes me a great deal and thinks I'm annoying and a non factor (even after I gave to his Go Fund Me...which he ended up keeping...the honorable and /or right thing when you dislike someone is to not accept their charity...you give it back...he did not, but I am the only one who gave so that's prolly why). So while this does produce attraction, I think it ends up hurting the Mars person. Or maybe we just had too many friction aspects. Or Maybe this isn't the Squares at all and is the Saturn Mars Square (coupled with a Double Whammy Moon Saturn...Square and Opp).

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