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Topic: If you have been Saturn in a Moon/Saturn aspect in synastry
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ChildofVenus
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posted October 26, 2016 04:03 PM
  
Did you feel like you wanted to take care of the Moon person? Did you ever feel like you wanted to provide for them financially? This could be because the persons Sun also falls in my 2nd house. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted October 27, 2016 08:58 AM
I had that DW and that didnt happen in my experience.The only thing I felt was coldness.
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GrlyGirl200
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posted October 27, 2016 03:04 PM
I agree, I've had the DW as well and I only felt coldness, more so from him than I (I was the Opp so I'd go back and forth...he was the Square and I honestly don't think he ever cared for me). We are both Saturnine people (I have a Cap Moon, he's a Cap Rising). I will say that I knew when I was acting Saturn like (cold, indifferent). The thing is I was never cold or indifferent to him, I only acted this way because it seemed like he didn't care. So for my Saturn experience I would say my feelings were never cold (they were quite deep actually we also had a Pluto Venus and Mars aspect), but my outside expression of those feelings were cold and calculated.IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted October 27, 2016 05:00 PM
I've also experience the DW with this aspect. Their Saturn conjunct my moon, and my Saturn conjunct their Moon. Individually we both have Saturn square Moon. Icy indifference was the end result.
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ChildofVenus
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posted October 27, 2016 05:11 PM
People are always saying this is a binding aspect but I guess it depends on the two people involved. IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted October 27, 2016 06:07 PM
I had this with someone. I was Saturn in Scorpio. She is the moon.I helped pay for her tuition and I nurtured her as much as possible, as she works full time as well as going to school. I tried to be like a "father figure" for her by giving her sound advice. I knew what I was getting into being as I have knowledge about Saturn aspects but we also had Pluto aspects. In the end I became very controlling and possessive of her but I truly did Love her, and I still do. I even poured my heart out to her and told her how much I love her, which was for sure not easy for me to do. ...she never said she loved me or not but she became distant really quick after I told her how I felt. Couple weeks later I ended our relationship and haven't heard from her since. Her Saturn trines my Sun, Moon, Mars, and Asc. My Saturn conjuncts her Sun, Moon, Mercury, Pluto and trines her Mars. She has nataly Moon Square Saturn and she is very Plutonic. I truly believe she does love me....but I'll probably never really know. She is the most closed off person I have ever known. C'est la vie... IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 27, 2016 11:15 PM
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ChildofVenus
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posted October 28, 2016 04:11 PM
How do you think this would work if the Saturn person was younger and a woman but the Moon person is a older male? That's how it is with me I'm the younger one and I'm Saturn. I feel so protective of him and I'm always worried about if he's ok and how everything is with him. I give him money sometimes when he needs it. My Saturn conjuncts his moon, squares his sun but the orb is wide. It also squares his Venus and sextiles his Mercury. His Saturn squares my Mercury, Jupiter and is in opposition of my Neptune and tribes my Pluto. We have Pluto aspects as well but it's his Pluto that is in aspect of my person planets. quote:
Originally posted by Gemini30:
I had this with someone. I was Saturn in Scorpio. She is the moon.I helped pay for her tuition and I nurtured her as much as possible, as she works full time as well as going to school. I tried to be like a "father figure" for her by giving her sound advice. I knew what I was getting into being as I have knowledge about Saturn aspects but we also had Pluto aspects. In the end I became very controlling and possessive of her but I truly did Love her, and I still do. I even poured my heart out to her and told her how much I love her, which was for sure not easy for me to do. ...she never said she loved me or not but she became distant really quick after I told her how I felt. Couple weeks later I ended our relationship and haven't heard from her since. Her Saturn trines my Sun, Moon, Mars, and Asc. My Saturn conjuncts her Sun, Moon, Mercury, Pluto and trines her Mars. She has nataly Moon Square Saturn and she is very Plutonic. I truly believe she does love me....but I'll probably never really know. She is the most closed off person I have ever known. C'est la vie...
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Gemini30
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posted October 28, 2016 09:48 PM
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
How do you think this would work if the Saturn person was younger and a woman but the Moon person is a older male? That's how it is with me I'm the younger one and I'm Saturn. I feel so protective of him and I'm always worried about if he's ok and how everything is with him. I give him money sometimes when he needs it. My Saturn conjuncts his moon, squares his sun but the orb is wide. It also squares his Venus and sextiles his Mercury. His Saturn squares my Mercury, Jupiter and is in opposition of my Neptune and tribes my Pluto. We have Pluto aspects as well but it's his Pluto that is in aspect of my person planets.
Well how is your relationship with him emotionally? Cause Saturn can really repress those emotions.
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ChildofVenus
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posted October 29, 2016 07:20 AM
Well we aren't in a romantic relationship. But he doesn't like to talk about personal things. And really doesn't like to express emotion. That's just how he is on his own though how he is as a person. It doesn't have anything to do with my Saturn having aspects to his personal planets. I've told him that I love and care about him that I hope we'll always be friends. So he knows that I care about him and that I'll help him if I can. But I've never cared about another person to the extent that I care about him. I told him that I know he's a grown man and can take care of himself. But that sometimes I feel responsible for him in someway. This is all just weird because I've never experienced it before. For example I'm s little uptight about my money. But I'll give it to him if I know he really needs it. He helps me in regards to educating myself he sends me books to read. And when I need help with my academics he helps me if he can.
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Well how is your relationship with him emotionally? Cause Saturn can really repress those emotions.
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Gemini30
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posted October 29, 2016 06:15 PM
^^^Well as long as he is not taking advantage of you then it should be fine. This is strictly a platonic relationship, correct? Saturn makes you commit. So you are committed to helping him, even if he doesn't need it. Helping him financially is a product of the pluto aspects you both have. I believe when you have Saturn and Pluto aspects with someone, it just creates a "committed obsession." It's like an obsession that never truly goes away, and it's annoying but yet, so nice. Your relationship is very similar to girl I had a relationship with. She is 7 years younger than me so I felt many times I needed to be "daddy" to her. I too, never felt that way for anyone. I'm pretty much a free spirited, detached guy yet with her I became serious and became more of a better worker, a better person. To me, being in this type of relationship makes me feel more alive. Saturn is very important in relationships. Don't let your younger age hold you back into helping him, we all have something to learn whether they are older, same age, or younger. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted October 29, 2016 06:36 PM
Well we've been having sex but we aren't in a relationship. We just hook up every now and then. And it's basically his Pluto that makes aspects to my planets. Mine really doesn't make any aspects to his planets. I didn't know Saturn/Pluto aspects were important or that it had anything to do with commitment. Being as though neither one is a personal planet. He told me that he doesn't like taking money from me but didn't give me a reason why. I'm the one who insisted though he doesn't really ask unless he really needs it. But I usually ask him if he needs anything.
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
^^^Well as long as he is not taking advantage of you then it should be fine. This is strictly a platonic relationship, correct? Saturn makes you commit. So you are committed to helping him, even if he doesn't need it. Helping him financially is a product of the pluto aspects you both have. I believe when you have Saturn and Pluto aspects with someone, it just creates a "committed obsession." It's like an obsession that never truly goes away, and it's annoying but yet, so nice. Your relationship is very similar to girl I had a relationship with. She is 7 years younger than me so I felt many times I needed to be "daddy" to her. I too, never felt that way for anyone. I'm pretty much a free spirited, detached guy yet with her I became serious and became more of a better worker, a better person. To me, being in this type of relationship makes me feel more alive. Saturn is very important in relationships. Don't let your younger age hold you back into helping him, we all have something to learn whether they are older, same age, or younger.
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vansio
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