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Topic: Saturn square venus synastry please !!
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princess1990 Newflake Posts: 16 From: braila romania Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 30, 2016 09:35 AM
Excuse my english i m stranger, i don t know what to make with this man i meet one month ago, i like him very much , him too we have very good compatibility emotional and everything only i don t know what to make in the future, him in natal is very Plutonian , i m Neptunian... in synastry we have Me to him Saturn square venus by 1 degree Saturn square mars by 2 degrees Mars opposite saturn 2 degree lilith conjunct saturn 1 degree venus sextile saturn 1 degree node trine saturn 2 degree saturn conjunct mc 1 degree mc trine saturn 1 degree chiron trine saturn Pluto conjunct saturn 5 degree ascendant trine saturn 3 degree neptune square saturn 1 degree my saturn is on his 10 house and his in my 8 house.Also my sun is in his 8 house my Pluto conjunct his descendant,him have natal Pluto scorpio conjunct descendant and saturn in 7 house. and his Pluto in my 8 house where is my Pluto also.him look serious with me but i m afraid about one crush with him...we also have me to him sun square pluto 1 degree pluto trine sun 2 degree node square pluto 1 degree mc sextile pluto 3 degree pluto square moon 1 degree venus sextile pluto 5 degree pluto opposite ascendant ascendant trine pluto moon opposite mars 1 degree venus conjunct neptune neptune trine venus mercury conjunct neptune ascendant conjunct mercury after i see him 3 times speak like to have babies with me , and from 1 time to now after one month him change very much, about behaviour,clothes,style food to pleasure me... if somebody can tell me about it....
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princess1990 Newflake Posts: 16 From: braila romania Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 30, 2016 09:42 AM
Also i think we have a fade meet ,because we meet in Italy the both non italians...and i see we have also some nodes contact me to him Pluto conjunct south node north node conjunct jupiter 1 degree n node conjunct mc 1 degree n node square mars n node trine ascendant n node square pluto n node sextile saturn pluto opposite n node sun inconjunct n node 1 degree n node trine moon
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CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 749 From: INFP Registered: Jan 2014
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posted October 30, 2016 03:56 PM
This is one of the few videos I could find that goes into the dynamics of this aspect. She takes the perspective of each side too. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uir8yxqs3mk I have this aspect with someone I care about, me being the Venus. We have great synastry and chemistry - but this aspect alone seems to put a stop to taking things further. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 77809 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 31, 2016 10:13 AM
Welcome! Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 77809 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 06, 2016 01:38 PM
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1794 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted November 06, 2016 10:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz: This is one of the few videos I could find that goes into the dynamics of this aspect. She takes the perspective of each side too. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uir8yxqs3mk I have this aspect with someone I care about, me being the Venus. We have great synastry and chemistry - but this aspect alone seems to put a stop to taking things further.
I have the DW with someone I just met and we also have great chemistry. Can you expand on what you mean by it stopping you from taking things further? IP: Logged |
Orange Knowflake Posts: 6421 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted November 06, 2016 11:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz: This is one of the few videos I could find that goes into the dynamics of this aspect. She takes the perspective of each side too. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uir8yxqs3mk
you just like the perspective of her breasts, not the video really. Confess, child.
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1794 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted November 07, 2016 12:57 AM
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Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1637 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 07, 2016 07:53 AM
Why is this aspect talked about so much?!  I've never had the experience of it being so horrible as many people say. Most people, actually. I have a 9 degree trine from Saturn to my Venus in natal.. Saturn squares my Sun and trines my moon very closely.. 8 degree square to mars.. So okay, I AM very Saturnian but even people who share similar aspects or more quiver at this aspect on Synastry even still. If you're air or fire dominant though I can see how this aspect would be hell, but even still I think it just adds a tone of realism to the relationship which keeps things grounded which is always a good thing in my opinion. Fairy tales are nice but aren't real. Eventually reality WILL hit so why not just keep it running from the beginning of the relationship and all the way through? Saturn only ruins things when there's nothing else to pick the relationship up as in Uranus, Jupiter, Pluto, and sometimes Neptune. This is just from my own experiences and feelings though so I'm sure not everyone will agree or feel this way. IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 749 From: INFP Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 07, 2016 02:00 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: I have the DW with someone I just met and we also have great chemistry. Can you expand on what you mean by it stopping you from taking things further?
It's almost like, she can't take me seriously or is deeply afraid I'm gonna hurt her. It's a shame really, because all of our other aspects point to soulmate-ish, long term, and beautiful love. The double whammy you have with your someone probably helps balance it. Keeps it more even. Saturn, to me, is very afraid.
quote: Originally posted by Orange: you just like the perspective of her breasts, not the video really. Confess, child.
Hahahaha! I think she really communicates her thoughts very well and thoroughly. The breasts are a definite plus, though! IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1794 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted November 08, 2016 09:32 PM
Thanks Cosmiq! Shame it's being held back like that just because of this aspect! Sometimes I hate knowing too much about astrology lol because if you didn't know then maybe it would turn out differently.. IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 749 From: INFP Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 09, 2016 11:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: Thanks Cosmiq! Shame it's being held back like that just because of this aspect! Sometimes I hate knowing too much about astrology lol because if you didn't know then maybe it would turn out differently..
I try not to get carried away with the astrology when meeting people. After awhile, I will look it up to see if it explains any of our interactions though. Despite all our positive aspects, this Saturn-Venus square seems to be the spotlight for us. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1794 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted November 10, 2016 03:32 AM
^^ I should really have this self control, rather than looking it up after first meeting them lolIP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 749 From: INFP Registered: Jan 2014
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posted November 28, 2016 11:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: ^^ I should really have this self control, rather than looking it up after first meeting them lol
Haha yes! Sometimes it's refreshing just to see how things play out without having any clue. IP: Logged |
jjj Knowflake Posts: 443 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 29, 2016 01:36 AM
I have it with my (soon ex) BF, I'm Saturn. We were never much in love (met on Internet), but all the good things that were there at the beginning just vanished. We don't even touch each other anymore and sleep in the bed like brother and sister. All is cold cold... we are together for some more months for rent reasons and it feels horrible.IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 1163 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted November 29, 2016 02:31 AM
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princess1990 Newflake Posts: 16 From: braila romania Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 29, 2016 03:35 AM
we also have my saturn square his mars and his saturn opposite my mars, and his saturn in my 8 house conjunct my pluto and lilith... my saturn in his 10 house... and my pluto conjunct his descendant and south node...IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 1163 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted November 29, 2016 04:16 AM
@princessdoes you jupiter aspect his moon or venus? mars/saturn aren't that harsh, they're quite good in fact IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1794 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted November 29, 2016 06:11 PM
But the natals and entire synastry plus composite need to be taken into account. If you have Venus/Saturn natally for example, it's an energy you can deal with better in a rel. it's also about how you can work with your Saturn. Awareness is key. Astrology is not definitive. There are many married couples with Venus/Saturn squares I'm sure  IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 1163 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted November 30, 2016 02:14 AM
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1794 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted November 30, 2016 02:39 AM
Ok so what about if there's a Saturn conjunct Jupiter squaring Venus aspect in the composite? Would that help the Saturn square Venus in synastry? IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1794 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted November 30, 2016 03:19 AM
I would think awareness can overcome lots of challenges in synastry. I just don't like to think of astrology or anything as definitive. Otherwise I'm wasting my time in my line of work as a therapist. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 1163 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted November 30, 2016 03:59 AM
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1794 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted December 01, 2016 12:12 AM
Thanks for the long response girl! Sorry I can't reply much right now, trying to emotionally recover from a burgluary to my house. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 1163 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted December 01, 2016 01:40 AM
you're welcome Em and sorry to hear that  I'll be editing my posts, somehow I feel like it (I don't wanna say negative things anymore) and I'd be grateful if you unquote me in your first post IP: Logged |