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LauraAesthetic
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posted December 03, 2016 01:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LauraAesthetic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good afternoon 🌞!

I haven't posted in awhile, but I'd love to hear feedback from anyone else who has a similar experience or circumstance.

I realize my BIGGEST pull and attraction are towards men who are air signs, but they're always described as flighty or non committed. The father of my 10mo old was a Libra/Virgo. After our 6year relationship I dated an Aquarius who fell in love with me immediately.

However my BIGGEST pull is Gemini men! They seem to gravitate towards me, but towards the end they constantly frustrate me with their unreliability. Again my crush is a Gemini (Gemini sun, libra moon, Scorpio rising). This is the first relationship where I approached as a friendship. He swears he will never commit, but his actions say other wise. I myself also have fear of commitment, but I do want to settle one day whether the relationship turns out unconventional.

I am a Virgo sun, Leo moon, and cap rising. Another interesting note is that my best friends mom shares my birthday of September 6th and her husband is a Gemini, but he ADORES her. I always look to them when I question my pattern.

I'm just looking for insight or anyone who has a similar circumstance to share. Hope to hear back from you guys! 💞💞

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LauraAesthetic
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posted December 03, 2016 01:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LauraAesthetic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ERROR (couldn't delete post I was trying to edit post but quoted it accident / my apologies !)😖

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Lotis White
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posted December 03, 2016 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Post your natal chart clearly showing house cusps and we'll be able to deduce the Air sign romantic connection for you. Also, there are people of every sign that 'settle down'. Most people do eventually. I've known plenty of married people of all elements (including Air). I think you're just worried because you haven't met the right one yet.

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UrsusBlack
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posted December 05, 2016 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for UrsusBlack     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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LauraAesthetic
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posted December 18, 2016 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LauraAesthetic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Yay! I was hoping the image came out right. Funny thing is my relationships sometimes feel like a horror movie. I've recently just became ok with working on my daughter and myself.

I usually find that air signs (can't really pin point a pattern with like moon/rising combos) are very welcoming and have shown me unconditional love. I thought I was in love with a Cap/libra or Cap/Scorpio only to find out I made an impulsive decision and moved too fast.

All the other men that I've ever fell hard for were air signs. The father of my daughter is even Libra/Virgo cusp.

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GrandFireT
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posted December 18, 2016 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrandFireT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Complete novice responding here.

It looks to me like you're drawing the air men into that hot seventh house of yours.

I was quite familiar with steel mills in the day. Your situation reminds me of the old blast furnaces. Check it out on youtube. It's awesome.

Your blast is the air men you draw into your seventh. Trust me, air guys love it, and we're not all flakes.

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EmGem
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posted December 18, 2016 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
5th house is Gemini, that's why!

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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted December 18, 2016 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CapriciousCapricorn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The signs that are attracted to You - Aquarius (1st house) and Libra (packed 7th house).

The sign You are attracted to - Gemini (5th house) and Libra (intercepted in 8th house and also Mars in Libra)

All 3 air signs will satisfy your Mars in Libra as well as your planets in Leo (compatible by element - air/air, air/fire).

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Lotis White
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posted December 19, 2016 12:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with CapriciousCapricorn,

Your 5th house cusp is Gemini. The 5th house rules courtship, flirtation, and romantic sparks. So Gemini appeals to you in this way. Mercury the ruler of your 5th house cusp sits in the 7th house, which is the ‘Libra house’ giving you a pull towards Libra as well.

Even though you have a Cancer Dsc, Venus and Mercury, the rulers of Libra and Gemini sit in your 7th house. The 7th house shows the type of person it just feels natural for you to be with, you feel affection and warmth towards these types. Also the ruler of the 7th house (your Leo Moon) sits in the 7th house and is conjunct Venus by only one degree! Ruler of the 7th house conjunct Venus adds a very strong Libra connotation and the fact that this conjunct falls into the 7th house itself emphasizes this.

Mars in Libra says that you like men who are the smooth, charming type. They can sweet talk, and resolve stupid squabbles with logic and finesse.

The sign Gemini has dominating tie to your 5th house and the sign Libra has a dominating tie to your 7th house. While Libra is referred to a little bit by your 5th house (5th house ruler in the 7th), and Gemini is referred to a medium strength amount by your 7th house (Mercury is in the 7th house, but is the 3rd planet away from the Dsc). Either way this two signs are a super strong attraction for you. Gemini types are very exciting to you in a romantic, flirty sort of way, and Libra types feel like your natural mate… Like deep down you know your supposed to be with somebody that has Libran qualities. Your Ideal guy would be combo of Libra and Gemini… Maybe a Gemini with Libra Moon, or a Libra with Gemini Moon. Other signs that have some appeal to you based on your chart are Cancer, Leo, Virgo and Taurus (with Cancer on the Dsc you can sometimes be attracted to those who mirror the qualities of your 4th house, which is the Cancer house. Taurus ruled by Venus in Leo sits on your 4th house). So an Airy guy (Gem/Libra) with some planets also in Cancer, Leo, Virgo, or Taurus would really suit you. Those with some planets in Cancer, Virgo or Taurus are especially more likely to want to settle down earlier. And those with planets in Leo can wow you with their charisma.

Aquarius may appeal to you because of it’s airy nature, and there may be some sense of familiarity with them because your Asc ruler is in the sign Aquarius, but honestly your chart says that Libra and Gemini are a stronger attraction for you in general.

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LauraAesthetic
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posted December 22, 2016 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LauraAesthetic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey everyone!

Grandfire T, if anything I'm Much more novice than you but I will never stop my discoveries as a horoscope junkie haha (more like trial &a error). What I'm trying to learn now is synastry aspects which I've tried to analyze yearssss ago, but seemed too hard! The only thing I have going for me is being good at relationships and going... WHAT TIME WERE YOU BORN?!

CapriciousCap & Lotis you two are head on with Libra/Gemini. The only thing I realized I needed to watch for Libra was the father of my daughter (Libra/Virgo w/ Moon in Pisces). I feel like his moon in Pisces drove me INSANE. Other than that air signs with some earthy planets/influence are awesome! It doesn't matter if they're business partners or friends, but these types have a nice inner balance. Also the cancer part seems super accurate also, since some air signs who have been intriguing have Scorpio or cancer somewhere in their charts. A sound partner would be like a gem/libra with Taurus, since my high school sweetheart was Taurus sun/Libra Moon/ Libra Rising. There's definitely a pattern!!

The end result-you air signs are awesome so awesome even my 11mo daughter born Jan 30th 2016 is Aqua Sun/ Libra Moon / Virgo rising ... it is so crazyyyy how astrology ends up correlating to real life, you guys this still surprises me hahah.

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" Even before one deciphers whether he should forgive me, I've already forgiven him for us both."--Trust what you get.

"...Well take me, take me back to your bed, I love you much that it hurts my head, I don't mind you under my skin, I'll let the bad parts in, the bad parts in! Well you're my favorite bird when you sing, I really do wish that you'd wear my ring..."

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Ami Anne
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posted December 23, 2016 08:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you low in the element air, Laura?

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LauraAesthetic
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posted December 31, 2016 03:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LauraAesthetic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Amy! I guess I am, because anything in air pertaining to my planets is only my Saturn in Aquarius. I never really payed attention to 5th house Gemini or Mars in Libra because I guess I've always interpreted it wrong possibly. I always used to interpret the 5th house as pertaining to my children, and oddly enough she's Aquarius.

Im 25 now and I'm noticing recently all I seem to attract are Gems or Libras. It's either a hit or a miss if I associate with a male Aquarius in a dating sense. I do feel like most Geminis with an earthy/watery flair are a great combo. They have this unique sense of mystery and aren't too closed off but they enjoy going out (not over doing it). I can never guess what I'm going to get with a libra male though haha well in a good way.

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" Even before one deciphers whether he should forgive me, I've already forgiven him for us both."--Trust what you get.

"...Well take me, take me back to your bed, I love you much that it hurts my head, I don't mind you under my skin, I'll let the bad parts in, the bad parts in! Well you're my favorite bird when you sing, I really do wish that you'd wear my ring..."

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MoonMystic
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posted December 31, 2016 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with a few replies I read but seeing that you have less air than those men you attract, they could be like moths to your 7th, as I saw mentioned. Air often is drawn to fire. Then you have the Gemini (lovers) in your 5th, playful side. uas most specifically Aquarius men can be magnetized to that. Of course these are my uneducated guesses.

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DualGemV2
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posted January 02, 2017 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DualGemV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Its ironic that I say this since your partner is a Gemini sun as well, but I actually get drawn to Virgo/Leo mixes.

The Virgo elements tend to draw Gemini in because Virgo and Gemini are both ruled by the mercury and contain the mercury the other lacks.

Then if the Virgo has Leo elements, Gemini is drawn to it... I notice you have some planets in Leo.

A family friend of mind has a daughter the same age as me that has an almost similar chart combo as you.

Although I would never date her she has the logical thinking I like from being a Virgo and has some playful Leo aspects that I like.

I notice some Virgos are drawn to me since I have some earth in me.

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Gemini Sun,
Capricorn Rising
Aries Moon
Gemini Mercury
Venus Taurus
Mars Cancer

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posted January 02, 2017 08:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrandFireT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LauraAesthetic:
Hey everyone!

Grandfire T, if anything I'm Much more novice than you but I will never stop my discoveries as a horoscope junkie haha (more like trial &a error). What I'm trying to learn now is synastry aspects which I've tried to analyze yearssss ago, but seemed too hard! The only thing I have going for me is being good at relationships and going... WHAT TIME WERE YOU BORN?!


Laura,
We have interesting synastry, my chart providing several of the placements that Lotis and Capricious regard as supportive or favorable to your chart.

There's a slight hitch, however: I'm old enough to be your grandfather!!!

Happy New Year and my best wishes that you will connect with the right guy in 2017. Don't fret over the charts. He's out there looking like you are and bound to appear at your doorstep one of these days.

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LauraAesthetic
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posted January 07, 2017 02:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LauraAesthetic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
Laura,
We have interesting synastry, my chart providing several of the placements that Lotis and Capricious regard as supportive or favorable to your chart.

There's a slight hitch, however: I'm old enough to be your grandfather!!!

Happy New Year and my best wishes that you will connect with the right guy in 2017. Don't fret over the charts. He's out there looking like you are and bound to appear at your doorstep one of these days.


Happy new year Grand!!!!! I actually laughed my ass off at the old enough to be your grandfather! I want to put a laughing emoticon, but I haven't been on message boards for so long that embarrassing enough... I forgot . Funny thing is I'm into spiritual guidance as well ( very careful though! ), so I've been told, "not to worry, and that it's inevitable it's going to happen", but all my relationships have been tumultuous or unhealthy. When I doubt the spiritual guidance I'm given, I soon realize the info first given is correct. What made me love astrology is the pull I feel to want to show and give love. The feeling is sort of indescribable (trying my best here). So it's ok Mystic because I am too. Dual your planet positions seem really interesting by the way, i'd love to see your chart! However what I feel attracts a lot of us to astrology are the questions we don't have answers to. Another example that attracted me to astrology were strange experiences like dreaming almost every night, and sleep paralysis (out of body experience feeling). Astrology has helped me as sort of like a map to learn about my soul and others. I come on here because I love bouncing off information off of others who may understand more in depth.

Everyone wants love but astrology confused me even further when I realized it didnt fit general astrology. I was wondering for years why I started to consistently attract air/fire signs in partners , then that's when I became even more fascinated by natal charts/synastry etc.

Everyone says he's literally due any day now. I feel like I'm stuck with the father of my daughter (Libra/Virgo sun, that vicious Pisces moon, Cap rising). He makes me feel like I'm never going to find my partner crime, nor does he understand the hundreds of times I've told him I'm done.

I also just got out of an awkward relationship where we thought we were the one (Cap sun , Gemini moon, Libra Rising) , but little I know that'd we'd end up at each other throats!!!Also, a lot of us us may want this love we imagine so bad, but when I was with this guy.. I could barely open up. He wanted me to tell him my whole life in 10hrs, but I just couldn't.

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" Even before one deciphers whether he should forgive me, I've already forgiven him for us both."--Trust what you get.

"...Well take me, take me back to your bed, I love you much that it hurts my head, I don't mind you under my skin, I'll let the bad parts in, the bad parts in! Well you're my favorite bird when you sing, I really do wish that you'd wear my ring..."

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GrandFireT
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posted January 07, 2017 03:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrandFireT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LauraAesthetic:
I actually laughed my ass off at the old enough to be your grandfather!

Laura,
If I were you, I wouldn't laugh all of it off. You'll most likely want to have a few humorous moments with Mr. Right when he comes along.

Furthermore, being over the hill and picking up speed isn't all that funny when you're behind the wheel.

Fondly,
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posted January 12, 2017 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sikanda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think you attract air signs because of the Leo sign in the 7th (which is the opposite of Aquarius), and you've got Mercury and Venus there (Gem and Libra).
And also your 5th is in Gemini (also plays a role in attraction) and your ascendant has Aquarius in it.

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