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Topic: Breaking up while having pluto in 7th house transit??
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2948
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 14, 2016 06:05 PM
  
How would you interpret that? I just found out that my ex-boyfriend who broke up with me back in march this year, apparently have got his pluto in the 7th house during our whole relationship (we were together for several years), and now pluto is soon going into his 8th house..... The problem is just that we were on-off for a period after the break up, and it never seemed like we broke up for real, and is never going to talk again. Last time I heard from him is a couple of months ago though, where he repeated to me that he didn't want a relationship "right now". But is that for sure then? Should I contact him now before pluto move into the 8th, or should I actually wait until it has gone out of the 7th? I still got feelings for him, and I really wish to just give it a second chance between us, before I will finally give up... (he is a libra with venus in libra square uranus, so he is a bit unstable relationship-wise) I am a virgo with scorpio venus.... we got a really nice synastry, but a lot of awful uranus aspects IP: Logged |
llewsacm
Knowflake Posts: 675
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Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 14, 2016 06:57 PM
Hi Next to neptune. I can speak from personal experience on this one. I was married when pluto crossed my dsc axis. In my mind, i was going to stay married forever. 13 years together when it crossed, and i started seeing that the marriage was not fulfilling my needs. We are divorced, still friendly though. and i'm still going through the transit. Personally, I have moved on. In my view, this transit forced me to see that I needed to go in a different direction...and it was hard to do! I really don't think it matters if you wait until pluto goes into his 8th. If you do not have closure, or you want to see if it can be rekindled then you should go with your gut. either way you'll have some direction, right? idk. I think if my marriage would have been more fulfilling I would have stayed. But I was not getting what I really needed so I was pushed to think about life without him. Maybe you can find out what was missing??? My heart goes out to you. sincerely. IP: Logged |
llewsacm
Knowflake Posts: 675
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Registered: Mar 2015
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posted December 14, 2016 07:28 PM
another note...I have seen 3 other people since my divorce. The first fizzled out, even with a venus/mars conjunction in the composite...lol. The second was not what I needed, and the third, I am still seeing him...2 years now. So I think it is possible to get into a new relationship during the transit and have it stick, but it has to be the right relationship. IP: Logged | |
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