posted December 18, 2016 05:14 PM            

Thank you 🙏

posted December 19, 2016 05:53 PM            

as to a long term realtiohsip there are some major poblems here.
though union is conjunct to the sun, it is also opposed to Uranus and square to juno.this implies any formal relationship with meet with circumstances that willbreakup up the relationship.

with venus square to Jupiter, there is a very strong joy and love between them.
with satrun conjunct to Jupiter, there could be a consolation of the relatonhip but it will take time and compromises.it is unclear whether there is sufficient time to overcome the obstacles as urnaus is so strong that immediate action is often the strongest impulse and often leads to more disharmony that harmony.
the Jupiter/juno midpoint is opposed to the moon indicating marriage or commitment is in both their minds
psyche is square to the ndoe showing the spiritual and physical attraction they have for each other and opposed to chiron there isa element of helping and healing between them.

the moon/Saturn and moon/Jupiter midpoints are opposed to ceres which shows a commitment to serve and nurture each other and the relationship.

with mercury opposed to Uranus and trine to Saturn and Jupiter,they are both extremely intloignet and are far sighted and innovative in their ideas.this is a very good mental connection as it implies they would both respond to changes in similar manners so there is a good possibility that the unexpected changes symbolized by Uranus opposed to the sun, that these changes would not necessarily cause the relationship to breakup.
of course the most troublesome aspect here is Neptune opposed to venus and square to Jupiter.neptune so often shows a weakness in fidelity.it can show they are in creative professions or that they ar of different cultural/racial or religious backgrounds as well.

there are several aspect that indicate a "rocky ride" at times but it does seem that they are committed to each other and as such should make the most of their love at the moment.

posted December 19, 2016 09:31 PM            

So much of what you have said rings true. Unfortunately there are obstacles that are breaking us at the moment.
It's only been a couple of months and we shared some beautiful times together, fitting in straight away into one another's arms. Such a strong physical and mental chemistry. We just really liked each other. He told me he loved me not long into it. But unfortunately he seems to display self sabotage which he has admitted to. He tends to lack the ability to let go and trust another since he has been so hurt and rejected in the past. He has admitted to cheating on his last gf. There's a lot of honesty between one another but stuff just gets in the way.

It feels cloudy too.

Like I don't know if we've actually broken up or not. He's away at the moment and is coming back after NYE. I was expecting him to come home sooner but he couldn't afford a flight. I was disappointed so I just said we'll see what happens when you're back and re-evaluate things...

It's a shame really because there is a lot of affection between us

posted December 21, 2016 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
thanks so much for taking a look Todd.

So much of what you have said rings true. Unfortunately there are obstacles that are breaking us at the moment.
It's only been a couple of months and we shared some beautiful times together, fitting in straight away into one another's arms. Such a strong physical and mental chemistry. We just really liked each other. He told me he loved me not long into it. But unfortunately he seems to display self sabotage which he has admitted to. He tends to lack the ability to let go and trust another since he has been so hurt and rejected in the past. He has admitted to cheating on his last gf. There's a lot of honesty between one another but stuff just gets in the way.

It feels cloudy too.

Like I don't know if we've actually broken up or not. He's away at the moment and is coming back after NYE. I was expecting him to come home sooner but he couldn't afford a flight. I was disappointed so I just said we'll see what happens when you're back and re-evaluate things...

It's a shame really because there is a lot of affection between us

What about the unaspected moon though? Is this overcome by other midpoint activations?

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I don't consider the moon unaspected because the Saturn/moon and Jupiter/moon midpoints are opposed to ceres, a very nurturing pattern.
urnaus /venus patterns are just so intense nd attractive that it is difficult to realize Uranus most often brings brief affairs. that is why the moment is so Important in Uranus relationships. the future is problematic so live in the love of the moment.

posted December 21, 2016 04:51 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
I don't consider the moon unaspected because the Saturn/moon and Jupiter/moon midpoints are opposed to ceres, a very nurturing pattern.
urnaus /venus patterns are just so intense nd attractive that it is difficult to realize Uranus most often brings brief affairs. that is why the moment is so Important in Uranus relationships. the future is problematic so live in the love of the moment.

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Do you mean the Venus inconjunct Uranus aspect here?

He's now telling me how much he's missing me and it's making things so much harder. Knowing it can't be long term is making me wonder whether it's worth even enjoying it 'for now' because obviously it'll end in heartbreak.
I don't know what to do

posted December 21, 2016 11:42 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Do you mean the Venus inconjunct Uranus aspect here?

He's now telling me how much he's missing me and it's making things so much harder. Knowing it can't be long term is making me wonder whether it's worth even enjoying it 'for now' because obviously it'll end in heartbreak.
I don't know what to do

Yes, that Venus/Saturn square. We have it DW in synastry too!

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I am facing a similar situation with a guy i love(see the latest thread by me addressed to todd,aubyanne)and todd has said it wwill be an intense short love affair.At first i too was wondering what's the point in going further,Then i realized that i'd only get hurt if a-i had expectations of a future together instead of taking it as it comes and enjoying each moment..and b-if it didn't last,does it mean he didn't love me.So i asked todd and he said that he does love me.So both issues are solved for me.

Just like that,analyze yourself.What would result in heartbreak?Your expectations?The fact that if it didn't last it meant he didn't truly love you?Or something else?

posted December 22, 2016 06:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Aurora_girl1990:
I am facing a similar situation with a guy i love(see the latest thread by me addressed to todd,aubyanne)and todd has said it wwill be an intense short love affair.At first i too was wondering what's the point in going further,Then i realized that i'd only get hurt if a-i had expectations of a future together instead of taking it as it comes and enjoying each moment..and b-if it didn't last,does it mean he didn't love me.So i asked todd and he said that he does love me.So both issues are solved for me.

Just like that,analyze yourself.What would result in heartbreak?Your expectations?The fact that if it didn't last it meant he didn't truly love you?Or something else?

p.s it's not obvious that it WILL end in heartbreak.You two could defy the odds you know.But trust your instincts .What do they say?If they say it's gonna be short term,protect your heart by keeping expectations of a future low and living in the moment like it's your last.And trust in the love you feel.

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