posted December 18, 2016 10:18 PM            

The last few weeks have been incredibly difficult. I was burgled and a series of events took place following that which has made me question EVERYTHING. My mother and brother then sat me down and had an intervention with me. They thought the cause of this bad luck was my failure to see that I'm losing my identity due to my dance career. Having recently been in the public eye for dancing (twerk, vogue, dancehall) overseas on a popular talent show. They think I'm exposing my body too much. my mother has since threatened to take me out of the will unless I change my "ways".
I am in my 30s by the way.
I feel like she cannot hear me when I say I'm going through one of the most challenging times of my life. She tends to always bring it back to herself. I feel like she manipulates. She thinks I cause the family shame. I've always felt like the outsider in my family. My sister in law is something else. Has always disliked me.

I'd like to know what you can see in mums chart so I can gain a clearer understanding of her personality. Is she manipulative? Is she mentally unstable like someone around me suggests? She has certainly had attachment issues with her bipolar mother.
Let me know if you'd like to see the synastry between us.

Edit: I remember her saying she's a Leo ASC and that the reason we grate on each other is due to my Saturn at 25 Leo. I can't quite remember so I'm taking a guess as to her ASC degree.

Synastry

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Davison

posted December 19, 2016 07:48 AM            

Asteroids such as sado, nemesis, nessus and others I cannot think of, at the moment.

Also, you need to look at her in synastry with you.

Look at your own child asteroid, as well as your child asteroid in synastry

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posted December 19, 2016 10:24 PM            

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posted December 19, 2016 10:30 PM            

Nessus conj Chiron

This relationship seems super, super painful.

You are not imagining anything, my dear friend.

It is not your fault you got her as a mother.

Only God knows why, but I can see the pain here and my heart goes out to you!

I am really glad you put the chart up cuz it is hard to believe one's own eyes, when the relationship with the Mom, especially, is so painful.

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posted December 20, 2016 04:00 PM            

Just feeling quite heavy knowing this...

Heartbreaking when it's your own mother.

She has some great qualities too but yes the relationship has always been very strained. It's like there's a wall between us and I can't be myself with her and let go.