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Topic: Libra and Cancer interaction by Mars sign
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2514 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 27, 2016 12:31 AM
I have always analyzed my interactions with Aries mars or Capricorn mars, but I never with Cancer mars. The reason I tend to analyze both of these mars placements is because I truly admire them; Aries for its fearlessness, and Capricorn for its perseverance. I'll be honest, I am not very fascinated with Cancer mars because the people I have met with this placement are not very assertive. It just so happens my boyfriend has it, but I never really knew he had it until I looked at his chart. He has Mars in the 1st house and an Aries dominant though, so you'd never think he has mars in its fall. He's really aggressive when he wants something and he's told me when he was younger, he used to get into fights a lot. We went grocery shopping one day and the next thing you know, he's about to square up with someone who tried cutting in line. I literally just told him we can go to a shorter line to avoid fights (huh typical Libra mars thing to do). Anyway, as I have found out, whenever me and him fight, it's always.. very.. passive-aggressive. I don't know how to explain it. I don't really like to tell him when something is bothering me because I don't have time for fights. The interaction between our marses is so different from what I experienced with Aries mars, where the fights are usually head-on and explosive. Our mars don't aspect each other; his is at 2 deg Cancer and mine is at 21 deg Libra. Whenever we do fight, it always starts out with me making a remark that gives him a hint that I'm upset. Of course, having the intuition of a Cancer, he gets the message underlying my remark. He gets offended or mad and then just walks away and withdraws from me. It frustrates me because my goal usually when I do it is to provoke a fight so we can sort stuff out. Instead, the opposite happens 😒😒. It's really interesting to me seeing firsthand how Cancer and Libra energies interact with each other. Another thing I have noticed is that sometimes, when I do something that I want that bothers him, he gets all mad like a typical woman gets mad over small stuff. And sometimes, it is small stuff that I do that bothers him. Like the one day I already made plans to hang out with my friend and he knew, but he still got upset at me for not blowing it off to hang out with him instead. His reasoning was I apparently only ever ask him to hang out when I have nobody else to hang out with. Like what? Lol bruh.. we live together. I hang out with you pretty much everyday and you're literally always the first person I ask to hang out 😅. I know I'm the woman but when he reacts like that, I think that it is childish and irrational. I always thought Cancer and Libra would get along better with each other than the other cardinal signs, but now I see why the negative energy of the square exists between the two. We're not really fighting or anything right now. These are just my observations. I wonder if people have the same experiences as me. ------------------ Gemini Rising Sun in Leo (2nd house) Moon in Cancer (1st house) Mercury in Virgo (3rd house conj.) Venus in Virgo (3rd house) Mars in Libra (5th house) "You were born a lion. Don't die a sheep." ~ Leos ♌️ IP: Logged |
Beautiful_Light Knowflake Posts: 59 From: Registered: Nov 2016
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posted December 27, 2016 01:52 AM
Yes, Cancer Mars gets a bad rep, especially in men. Passive aggressive is right. And very moody too (although, to be fair, you should look at their whole chart). I had a karmic tie who had Cancer Mars conjunct my Venus . I have a Cancer Mars too but I am not passive aggressive. No offense, I can't stand it when people are . I'm a Libra rising.IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 3711 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 27, 2016 01:46 PM
I have Libra Mars and a friend has Cancer Mars.He is very emotional. Which my Moon in Cancer "gets". I always want to be "fair", which his Libra Moon accommodates. We have a Moon-Mars double whammy conjunct. And it helps a great deal in having to understand each other. I have noticed that he is very indirect with expressing anger. Wanting you to "sense" when he is upset. I myself can be the same initially.But I tend towards exploding and shouting eventually IP: Logged |
GrandFireT Knowflake Posts: 37 From: Out There Registered: Dec 2016
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posted December 27, 2016 03:28 PM
Greetings Queen, Here is a little soap opera not exactly like yours, but it does involve the same signs and planets, for what that's worth. You might see carry over to your situation. I am a Libra Sun, Mars Aires, Venus Sag guy looking at an opposite sex match with a Mars Cancer woman. We are not not live-in, however, not even dating except this girl and I have fun-filled times together several hours a week. In my case she is, I believe, Leo Sun, Mars Cancer, Venus Virgo, not a likely match with me. However, emotions will be what they will be, and I sense that ours are in step. Possibly the Crab in her is fiddling with my Scorpio Moon. So . . . I pulled up this article from the web about Mars Cancer people and found it informative. ,http://sasstrology.com/2015/07/how-to-tell-if-a-mars-in-cancer-man-or-woman-is-into-you.html
I was very disappointed to read the Cautionary Note For Lovers because I like this woman a lot. In truth, she just about knocked me out in Round Two of our match. And that without much more than a friendly hug!
Not wishing to douse any possible romantic embers, I backed my own feelings into the friendship parking lot and will be curious to learn where, if any place, she takes us. According to the above text, there's no point in trying to take charge with the Mars Cancer individual. Nurture her, let her nurture you if and when she so chooses, be her friend, but don't hit on her. Just guessing again - your Libra Mars, like my Aires Mars, wants to get the show on the road and doesn't function well in the Wait-And-See mode. I'm well aware that Aires is not Libra, but, you know, if I corral my Ram and wait, sometimes fantastic things happen. Hope others will weigh in with their comments. Thanks for starting the thread, Solar Queen, and may big red hearts find their way to you.
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Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2514 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 27, 2016 11:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
He is very emotional. Which my Moon in Cancer "gets".
Yeah I have a very loose conjunction with his Mars, about 7 degrees wide. Not even sure if this counts as a true conjunction. I do get what how he reacts at times; other times, I just feel he's being completely unreasonable. quote:
I have noticed that he is very indirect with expressing anger. Wanting you to "sense" when he is upset.I myself can be the same initially.But I tend towards exploding and shouting eventually
I am the same! I always give "hints" when I'm mad or upset about something, but I never directly say it. He, however, tends to make me feel bad about what I'm doing. He does have manipulative tendencies, but what Cancer placement does not? I sometimes even have to call him out on this, whenever I notice he's starting to get manipulative. quote: Originally posted by GrandFireT: Nurture her, let her nurture you if and when she so chooses, be her friend, but don't hit on her.
That's really interesting, GrandFireT. Months ago, before my relationship was serious with him, we actually were in a polyamorous relationship (he has Gemini venus, so don't ask lol). Then two months later, we broke up. We remained friends while he grieved the demise of a toxic long-term on/off relationship with one of his exes he was emotionally attached to. I was there for him through it all. I was the shoulder he cried on when it all went downhill for him. At that time, I was also struggling financially so he helped me out. After that one month, we got back together and we've been serious ever since. I feel like Cancer mars aren't really into the typical flirting. Their type of flirting is more like, you be there for me and I'll be there for you, kind of thing. It makes sense because Cancers can find it really hard to trust others. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 3711 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 28, 2016 03:12 AM
You have Moon in 1st? Wow. Is that not supposed to make one very 'heart on your sleeve' in approaching others?My sister has her Moon in Cancer conjunct her Asc in Cancer and she can get VERY emotional but also aggressive(mix of Aries and Cancer really). And the weird part is that she often is quick to see others as "emotional" or "irrational" (her Sun/Mercury in Taurus in the 11th house) In the whole sign system,your Sun is in the 3rd and that may be why you may find him "unreasonable". Because if we consider your Moon in Cancer to be in the 2nd(rather than 1st),you avoid being emotionally stirred and try to remain calm(2nd house associated with Taurus) IP: Logged |
DualGemV2 Knowflake Posts: 153 From: Registered: Aug 2016
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posted December 28, 2016 06:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen: ... It just so happens my boyfriend has it, but I never really knew he had it until I looked at his chart. He has Mars in the 1st house and an Aries dominant though, so you'd never think he has mars in its fall. He's really aggressive when he wants something and he's told me when he was younger, he used to get into fights a lot. We went grocery shopping one day and the next thing you know, he's about to square up with someone who tried cutting in line. I literally just told him we can go to a shorter line to avoid fights (huh typical Libra mars thing to do).Anyway, as I have found out, whenever me and him fight, it's always.. very.. passive-aggressive.
That had to make me smile, almost similar but not quite the same and yes I'm male. For that instance its probably better that he released his rage rather then bottle it up which is a common problem with mars in cancer. The biggest problem is finding the best release and knowing when to let things go. That's what my affectionate brown tabby cat is for (similar to the cat in the picture). Most of it she can calm me down, I'm still ****** about other things...but she eliminates most of it. She knows when I'm angry...and purrs on cue... ==================================== Gemini Sun, Capricorn Rising Aries Moon Gemini Mercury Venus Taurus Mars Cancer
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margym0o Knowflake Posts: 813 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted December 28, 2016 10:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen: I have always analyzed my interactions with Aries mars or Capricorn mars, but I never with Cancer mars. The reason I tend to analyze both of these mars placements is because I truly admire them; Aries for its fearlessness, and Capricorn for its perseverance.
Curious to know what your take on is of interactions with Capricorn Mars having Libra Mars IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2514 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 28, 2016 11:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by DualGemV2: That had to make me smile, almost similar but not quite the same and yes I'm male. For that instance its probably better that he released his rage rather then bottle it up which is a common problem with mars in cancer. The biggest problem is finding the best release and knowing when to let things go. That's what my affectionate brown tabby cat is for (similar to the cat in the picture). Most of it she can calm me down, I'm still ****** about other things...but she eliminates most of it. She knows when I'm angry...and purrs on cue...
OMG your cat is so cute!!!! 😻😻😻😻 Sorry, I really love cats and I freak out whenever I see one. My kitten is gonna get so jealous, but pfft who cares 😒😂. I wonder what your cat's chart looks like. Anyway, I have the same effect on him. Is that a bad thing? I really think Libra and Cancer are similar in that sense. I'm prone to bottling up anger too because fights make me feel uncomfortable. He's gotten better at being less in-your-face aggressive, but I often wonder if it's a good thing or not. I know anger needs to be released somehow. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2514 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 28, 2016 11:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: You have Moon in 1st? Wow. Is that not supposed to make one very 'heart on your sleeve' in approaching others?My sister has her Moon in Cancer conjunct her Asc in Cancer and she can get VERY emotional but also aggressive(mix of Aries and Cancer really). And the weird part is that she often is quick to see others as "emotional" or "irrational" (her Sun/Mercury in Taurus in the 11th house) In the whole sign system,your Sun is in the 3rd and that may be why you may find him "unreasonable". Because if we consider your Moon in Cancer to be in the 2nd(rather than 1st),you avoid being emotionally stirred and try to remain calm(2nd house associated with Taurus)
Hmmm that's interesting, Aries. My Moon is quite farther from my ascendant and closer to my 2nd house, so I suppose that could affect it? I generally try to hide my emotions, but people still somehow find out when I'm upset or not. The 1st house influence is still there, but I think you could be on to something here. He and I have the same rising sign and sun sign. We're so similar but so different. I wonder of he finds me unreasonable too lol. quote: Originally posted by margym0o:Curious to know what your take on is of interactions with Capricorn Mars having Libra Mars
Well, Capricorn mars bug the hell out of me (no offense), but for good reasons. I have Libra mars, and I'm gonna be honest, I get quite lazy at times. I also try to find the first way out of any situation. So whenever I am put in a situation where things get really hard and I'm with a Capricorn mars person, I'm always the first to say, "Oh what's the point. We can deal with this later.. blah blah blah". Then you see the Cap mars person just sitting there doing his/her work as if the difficulty doesn't deter them (which it most likely doesn't). They never give up and it's really hard to provoke them lol. I had a Cap mars friend who really liked me in high school, and for over a year, he never stopped pursuing me even though he got rejected so many times. Now, he likes someone else and he hasn't stopped pursuing her either... it's been TWO YEARS, man! If I could have that kind of persistence, I'll be unstoppable. IP: Logged | |