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PainInTheWorld
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posted December 30, 2016 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PainInTheWorld     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What type of woman do you like, what will attract you in her personality?

Or girls which have experience with an Aries Mars man, what have you noticed about them?

Do Aries Mars men love dominant, temperamental woman?

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Elysia
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posted December 30, 2016 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They do like forthright women. Dislike "games" of any sort - unless they're physical (similar to Sag mars in that way).
They need the chase, but don't like women who are too evasive - since they don't have that much patience to be honest.

If they have a more muted Venus (Taurus or some other "yin" sign), then they like their women bold but not *too bold*.
They prefer partners who can keep up with their activities, or at least try to. They love play-fighting. Have a pretty honest attitude for the most part - if they're not looking for anything serious, it'll be made painfully clear.

They thrive on competition. So, go ahead, give them a rival or two - and they'll excitedly swoop in and try to "win" you over.

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Originally posted by PainInTheWorld:
Do Aries Mars men love dominant, temperamental woman?


Oh, I forgot this part. They don't mind a dominant woman in that - they like a confident, secure woman (meaning that she won't be clingy). However, that doesn't mean they like being bossed around by her all the time. It's fun for them to be around a feisty woman, but they'll run a 100 miles in the other direction if they're confronted with Scorpio-level drama.

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PainInTheWorld
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posted December 30, 2016 11:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PainInTheWorld     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for your answer! Yea, that's understandable. I read many times how they can be selfish and untrustworthy, but I find them more stable as Aries is an cardinal sign, very courageous and honest, like you said.

They thrive on competition.

Aries must always be the winner.

So, go ahead, give them a rival or two

Dear, I'm lazy for this, I am an Aquarius Venus.

Oh, I forgot this part. They don't mind a dominant woman in that - they like a confident, secure woman (meaning that she won't be clingy). However, that doesn't mean they like being bossed around by her all the time. It's fun for them to be around a feisty woman, but they'll run a 100 miles in the other direction if they're confronted with Scorpio-level drama.

What can happen if guy is Cancer Sun with Aries Mars? Do you think the Aries energy can make him not that moody and more open or even more aggressive and possessive?

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Elysia
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posted December 30, 2016 11:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elysia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ooh Aqua Venus.. you'll do it effortlessly, trust me. At least Aqua Venus in "friend" mode - people love Aqua energy to simply be around with. And certain people (*cough* Scorpio *cough*) get riled up at all their friendships. Aries falls under that umbrella too.

If he's a Cancer Sun with Aries mars - that's an interesting combo. Are they close enough by degree to be squared? If they are squared by degree as well, he might be more aggressive.
Even if not, with Cancer guys there's usually a *hook* that draws them out. They're not as passive as they appear at first. This one, I suppose (not knowing his natal aspects at this point) - playing into his Aries mars (so to speak) will draw him out.

Where did you guys meet? Coz finding a shared activity would be a nice start.

P.S. Yeah, I wouldn't call them untrustworthy either! At least, their motives are never deceptive or under-handed.

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posted December 31, 2016 01:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've dated a few guys with mars in Aries. Usually they are very straight forward with their intentions, like they will find you type thing say something along the lines of : I want you bad. Aries rules my 8th so when someone has their mars in there, they usually end up being the guys that have to wait sometime before I date them. I guess maybe it's their approach or something, I have no idea. Anyway, I guess it seems like a challenge or something to them. (sex wise)Aries mars also goes very quickly but can turn around , want to go again very shortly. ) What attracts them I think is to let them chase you and my approach is not to have anything really to say to them as far as competition, I have a take or leave it attitude I guess but I will say something like just go be happy and I will be happy for them or if you want to be with me xyz is what I am looking for. Just be straight forward with your intentions and they love a damsel in distress. I really mean that though and I think it makes them want you even more I guess??

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PainInTheWorld
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posted December 31, 2016 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PainInTheWorld     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Elysia:
Ooh Aqua Venus.. you'll do it effortlessly, trust me. At least Aqua Venus in "friend" mode - people love Aqua energy to simply be around with. And certain people (*cough* Scorpio *cough*) get riled up at all their friendships. Aries falls under that umbrella too.

If he's a Cancer Sun with Aries mars - that's an interesting combo. Are they close enough by degree to be squared? If they are squared by degree as well, he might be more aggressive.
Even if not, with Cancer guys there's usually a *hook* that draws them out. They're not as passive as they appear at first. This one, I suppose (not knowing his natal aspects at this point) - playing into his Aries mars (so to speak) will draw him out.

Where did you guys meet? Coz finding a shared activity would be a nice start.

P.S. Yeah, I wouldn't call them untrustworthy either! At least, their motives are never deceptive or under-handed.


I am friendly and sometimes it can looks like I'm flirting with people, even if I don't, but I just love to talk with everyone and have fun, nothing more.

Nope, he doesn't have square between Sun and Mars, but he has square between Sun and Pluto, so f..k. His Mars makes square with Saturn and opposite Uranus haha, so square with Sun would be too much I guess But I like his Mars trine with Venus and sextile with Moon.

We met at the club concert, share same interest in music but also many other things. I posted our Composite before few weeks but heard how chart sucks, I still don't feel it sucks, we have good time for now.

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PainInTheWorld
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posted December 31, 2016 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PainInTheWorld     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I've dated a few guys with mars in Aries. Usually they are very straight forward with their intentions, like they will find you type thing say something along the lines of : I want you bad. Aries rules my 8th so when someone has their mars in there, they usually end up being the guys that have to wait sometime before I date them. I guess maybe it's their approach or something, I have no idea. Anyway, I guess it seems like a challenge or something to them. (sex wise)Aries mars also goes very quickly but can turn around , want to go again very shortly. ) What attracts them I think is to let them chase you and my approach is not to have anything really to say to them as far as competition, I have a take or leave it attitude I guess but I will say something like just go be happy and I will be happy for them or if you want to be with me xyz is what I am looking for. Just be straight forward with your intentions and they love a damsel in distress. I really mean that though and I think it makes them want you even more I guess??

Thanks for answer! Looks like they really love competition. I have friend, he has Aries Mars and plus Gemini Sun, he will immediately lost interest into someone if there is not some kind of action, the reason why he should win someone, if everything is *too easy*. But my Cancer is not that fast, although I can see Aries energy as well. And his Mars is at 28°12' degrees, I'm not sure if it can count like he has also energy of Taurus Mars, as Mars is at the end of Aries?

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posted January 01, 2017 01:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I knew my boyfriend had Mars in Aries before I ever saw his natal chart.

He's a Libra Sun and that was all I knew, but his energy and mannerisms screamed Aries to me. If something can be turned into a competition, it is. He's fairly hot-headed, but very playful and fun. Reckless lol. Some of his stories make me wonder what I got myself into. But the thing that I think that gave it away most was his childish nature. People take "childish" as a bad thing and I guess I should say youthful instead, but it's not what I mean. People with Aries placements have easy access to their inner child amd that inner child's ego can be bruised easily. People always say dont insult a Leo, and that's true, but if you hurt the fragile ego of Aries' inner child? Forget about it.

It was after a few weeks that I learned he had Mars at 0° Aries. When I saw his chart for the first time I was like "I KNEW IT!!!" when I saw that Mars. I scared him I yelled it so loud

Idk about Cancer and Aries combo. I imagine that the things that make his warrior come out are the things that build that Cancer ego, which would be like protecting the people he loves, providing for them. Of course, his house placements have a lot to do with how it will play out.

His Mars sits on my Sun/Venus MP and is conjunct them both as well. I have a late Pisces Sun and early Aries Venus. It's probably why I felt it so strongly. When he first told me his birthday I thought he was lying because he just oozed Aries to me.

Your Aqua Venus should have no trouble getting along. Aqua and Aries go well together. Aquarius is able to have fun and not take things too seriously all the time, but that Cancer sun could make him a tad bit more sensitive..

Anyway, just a few thoughts

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PainInTheWorld
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posted January 04, 2017 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PainInTheWorld     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@LionFish

Does your boyfriend has Sun opposite Mars? That aspect can really be explosive What I don't like about strong Aries influence is that their sudden anger and then react like nothing happened before hour ago, but it was totally unnecessary act.

It was after a few weeks that I learned he had Mars at 0° Aries.

Do you think he also has some Piscerian influence? I'm not sure how important people find when mars is on early or late degrees of sign, does it count like Mars can have influence of the other sign?

When I saw his chart for the first time I was like "I KNEW IT!!!" when I saw that Mars. I scared him I yelled it so loud

After few weeks btw? Damn, I checked his chart immediately, but we share similar interests, so it wasn't much weird to him.

Idk about Cancer and Aries combo. I imagine that the things that make his warrior come out are the things that build that Cancer ego, which would be like protecting the people he loves, providing for them. Of course, his house placements have a lot to do with how it will play out.

That's good thinking. His Mars is in 6th, maybe can fit well in your description, but he has damn hard aspects with his Mars - square with Saturn, opposition with Uranus, conjunction with Chiron.

His Mars sits on my Sun/Venus MP and is conjunct them both as well. I have a late Pisces Sun and early Aries Venus. It's probably why I felt it so strongly. When he first told me his birthday I thought he was lying because he just oozed Aries to me.

Attraction must be strong then, especially with fairly Aries.

Your Aqua Venus should have no trouble getting along. Aqua and Aries go well together. Aquarius is able to have fun and not take things too seriously all the time, but that Cancer sun could make him a tad bit more sensitive.

Well, those crabs.. He with his Sun and Saturn in Cancer and Pisces Moon is very moody and suspicious. Not like we are in relationship for long time, about two months, but can be very closed, even shy.

Sorry for late answer, I was on the trip.

Happy New Year!

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