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jadave
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posted January 09, 2017 06:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for jadave     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can anyone tell me their personal thoughts on moon conjunct Chiron Or moon conjunct Saturn in synastry

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MsLeora
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posted January 09, 2017 09:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MsLeora     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have my moon conjunct some guy's Chiron and his moon conjunct my Saturn. Long story and very painful personal stuff. I felt the need to care for him more than should have. Nevertheless, his responses gave me pain. We didn't click at all. Maybe it's because our mars are inconjuction. IDK

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posted January 10, 2017 04:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for jadave     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you MsLeora.

I am in a similar situation but reversed. I am Chiron his moon conjunct and he is Saturn my moon conjunct. Our mars opposite each other.

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posted January 10, 2017 05:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
His Moon conjunct my Chiron.
His Saturn trine my Moon.

mars square mars.

We bring pain and healing.
Healing through the pain?

That's how I view it.

Our relatioship doesn't lack emotional understanding or sensitivity, but rather the opposite which is probably why Chiron rears its ugly head in the first place.

Chiron just hurts, period.

The pain might simply be caused based on the planet person's unwillingness or inability to face THAT pain so any time someone touches that spot, we react off impulse instead of analyzing WHY we feel the pain in the first place, hence, causing more pain.

Maturity and the willingness and ability to heal and work through your Chiron issues is the key on BOTH ends.

As Chiron, I can't bring healing if I haven't sorted through my own trauma.

As the planet person, they can't heal until they lesrn to deal with all those ugly parts of themselves.

It always takes two to tango and one aspect doesn't even come close in determining compatibility.

This is real life and we are real people with real hearts.

Love is love.

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posted January 10, 2017 10:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
His Moon conjunct my Chiron.
His Saturn trine my Moon.

mars square mars.

We bring pain and healing.
Healing through the pain?

That's how I view it.

Our relatioship doesn't lack emotional understanding or sensitivity, but rather the opposite which is probably why Chiron rears its ugly head in the first place.

Chiron just hurts, period.

The pain might simply be caused based on the planet person's unwillingness or inability to face THAT pain so any time someone touches that spot, we react off impulse instead of analyzing WHY we feel the pain in the first place, hence, causing more pain.

Maturity and the willingness and ability to heal and work through your Chiron issues is the key on BOTH ends.

As Chiron, I can't bring healing if I haven't sorted through my own trauma.

As the planet person, they can't heal until they lesrn to deal with all those ugly parts of themselves.

It always takes two to tango and one aspect doesn't even come close in determining compatibility.

This is real life and we are real people with real hearts.

Love is love.


Wow. I am going through a similar thing also! His Chiron opp. my Moon. Mars sq. Mars.

Pain is right. BUT, like you, there is no shortage of emotional understanding and sensitivity. Like you said, it's almost...too much? Like a hair trigger response to something minor, where we go into overdrive. It's always a very cathartic release on BOTH our parts to work through the pain and feel the healing. Almost like this process of pain and healing is very NECESSARY but helps us both to grow. It feels very rewarding.

I agree, maturity is KEY. This would never work in a juvenile relationship. You both have to want to nurture something positive. Love is the basis of all of this though and it has to be strong.

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posted January 10, 2017 10:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 10, 2017 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by margym0o:
Wow. I am going through a similar thing also! His Chiron opp. my Moon. Mars sq. Mars.

Pain is right. BUT, like you, there is no shortage of emotional understanding and sensitivity. Like you said, it's almost...too much? Like a hair trigger response to something minor, where we go into overdrive. It's always a very cathartic release on BOTH our parts to work through the pain and feel the healing. Almost like this process of pain and healing is very NECESSARY but helps us both to grow. It feels very rewarding.

I agree, maturity is KEY. This would never work in a juvenile relationship. You both have to want to nurture something positive. Love is the basis of all of this though and it has to be strong.


My heart fluttered after reading your reply.

That's exactly the process between us. We bump heads at the beginning of a disagreement or misunderstanding, but eventually we come to an understanding and the waters return to its calm waters.

We're both water Suns and mercuries.

That trigger, as you said, is key.

Once we recognize the trigger, we can either choose to react or respond.

Astrology definitely helps.
Awareness, period.

I experienced the opposition and it was a living hell. BUT we also had an exact Pluto-Venus conjunction, Venus-mars opposition along with some HEAVY 12th house stuff so maybe Chiron didn't play as big of a role in that one or it was just experienced differently.

I will say some sweet synastry and composite aspects definitely help with smoothing things over.

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posted January 10, 2017 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cchampliss2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had this in a recent relationship that just ended out of nowhere. Moon conjunct chiron both ways and moon conjunct chiron in our composite.

It's hard. And it's hard reading these posts because they're true.

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posted January 10, 2017 09:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It can be nice on casual terms.

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posted January 11, 2017 12:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cchampliss2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
It can be nice on casual terms.

There was no way to be casual with us. I think that is one of then"pulls" of chiron. There is some sort of tenderness at the beginning, with hope of an easygoing healing. And then it just isn't.

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posted January 11, 2017 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
I had this in a recent relationship that just ended out of nowhere. Moon conjunct chiron both ways and moon conjunct chiron in our composite.

It's hard. And it's hard reading these posts because they're true.


I'm sure there was a build up or sequence of events that led up to the break up. Chiron isn't all bad. One aspect won't destroy a relationship so it had to be a combination of things between you guys.

Chiron IS painful but I never experienced the big blow up. There was ALWAYS a sequence of events leading up to it like any unhealthy relationship and I seen that coming a mile away when it does. Chiron is a wild card, yes, but recognizing Chiron isn't the issue. Chiron doesn't creep up in your relationship or appears randomly so I don't get this part of some of the interpretations I've seen.

I've experienced both the good and bad side of Chiron in different ways from 3 different relationships. Sun/Venus/Mercury conjunct Chiron, Moon opposite Chiron, Moon/ Mars conjunct Chiron.

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Faith
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posted January 11, 2017 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
There was no way to be casual with us. I think that is one of then"pulls" of chiron. There is some sort of tenderness at the beginning, with hope of an easygoing healing. And then it just isn't.

If transiting Chiron is hitting your moon, that can't make it any easier.

ETA: This is my Sag Venus song that I posted on another thread.
Better in Time

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cchampliss2
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posted January 11, 2017 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cchampliss2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:

If transiting Chiron is hitting your moon, that can't make it any easier.

ETA: This is my Sag Venus song that I posted on another thread.
Better in Time


Thanks Faith 😔

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posted January 11, 2017 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cchampliss2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I'm sure there was a build up or sequence of events that led up to the break up. Chiron isn't all bad. One aspect won't destroy a relationship so if had to be a combination of things between you guys.

Chiron IS painful but I never experienced the big blow up. There was ALWAYS a sequence of events leading up to it like any unhealthy relationship and I seen that coming a mile away when it does. Chiron is a wild card, yes, but recognizing Chiron isn't the issue. Chiron doesn't creep up in your relationship or appears randomly so I don't get this part of some of the interpretations I've seen.

I've experienced both the goid and bad side of Chiron in didferent ways from 3 different relationships. Sun/Venus/Mercury conjunct Chiron, Moon opposite Chiron, Moon/ Mars conjunct Chiron.


Okay Morg, it wasn't just Chiron. It was a combination of Uranus and Pluto and a tMOON
and tSaturn. Our reactions to those transits though, were Chiron.

To the OP, one hard aspect in synastry or composite doesn't dictate the whole relationship. It's good that you're aware of it and doing what you can to shed light on your own issues and your partnership. Chiron is never a one way street.

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