posted February 20, 2017 05:38 AM            

Power imbalances in relationship is a major red flag for me, and I see quite a few in my synastry chart with a guy I am about to start a relationship. I am the outer circle in the chart.

I feel that I will be invested more in the relationship than the other person. Most of my personal planets affect his relationship house, but not the other way around. Also, the nature of the pluto contact, SN synastry, nodal contact with the moon show that I would be the one obsessing and moving/holding onto the relationship, and he would just coast along. There is also heavy focus on our moons. Our moons seem heavily debilitated, and with Neptune involved there's bound to be crippling illusions.

Does the charts indicate that the guy is attracted/interested in a romantic relationship, or is the attracted not there?

The most troubling thing is our composite chart. There is such a heavy focus on the 8th house, mars conjunct saturn, sun in 6th house, NN in 12th house. Heavy stuff, this does not seem like a light-hearted relationship.

To me this feels like a fated even karmic relationship. I feel like I know him from another lifetime, I just can't shake this feeling. But I don't think he sees it like that, at least the charts don't seem to indicate any such thing. All of these add up to an imbalanced relationship.

Am I reading too much into the charts, or is there something that validates my feelings?

It would really help me if I can get an objective view of this situation.

Thanks!

posted February 21, 2017 01:57 PM            

The sun looks like it's in the 5th house conjunct Saturn. Which seems like it would make for a lot of fun (5th house), but nothing uncontrollable (Saturn).

posted February 22, 2017 11:19 AM            

Your Moons are opposed, though, but I think his was conjunct your MC which is where the feeling of familiarity could be coming from. Of course his Mars conjunct your Venus/Pluto can be a source of frustration especially with his Venus conjunct your Neptune. Feels like impatience or annoyance colliding with incorrect assumptions, lack of clarity or confusion. Just be sure to try and be as clear as possible.

posted February 22, 2017 01:04 PM            

I feel a common theme in relationship is that i'm the one who is more attracted and willing to have a relationship beyond friendship. Does anything in the chart indicate that he is/would be willing for the same?

It is very important to me that he is equally attracted to me. Does anything show an equal level of attraction?

What do you think about the composite chart, I feel this is what shows the danger in our relationship. Too much 8th house focus, to top it with sun in 6th house and pluto in 7th opposite ascendant. I read somewhere that pluto opposite ascendant is one such aspect that if it shows up in relationship charts, you need to stay away from that relationship.

Having seen our charts would you advise us to not enter into a relationship? I know this is a loaded question, sorry for asking, i'm just curious and i feel i can handle the answer. You don't need to answer if u're not comfortable, i understand.

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