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posted February 27, 2017 06:13 PM            

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I'm the Pluto and he's the Mars. A once great relationship and friendship has been torn apart for unseen reasons - and now after the breakup, there are so many games being played on the Mars side. T** for Tat, no doubt. He won't give up, he loves me so much yet he's wanting to hurt and manipulate me almost constantly. I block him in every way possible, yet he finds a way to stay in my life, somehow.
As the Pluto, it was extremely hard to let go, very intense connection, but too intense for me! Even being a Scorpio, it was too much for me. So, as much as I still have lingering feelings, I've decided I'm done and he doesn't seem to be having it.
Anyone have this happen before? Will it ever stop?

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posted February 28, 2017 03:01 PM            

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Bump!

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posted March 01, 2017 12:13 AM            

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Hard to say without the full chart, but those both being your ruling planets, they make a powerful impact in any relationship. Squares aren't the best ones to have.

Saturn is Usually the one that sticks.

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posted March 01, 2017 09:22 AM            

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Hopefully this picture of our chart will post! I believe our mars/Pluto is 1.95 orb? Not sure if that's tight enough or not..

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posted March 01, 2017 04:05 PM            

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Wow, both moons conjunct on the ascendent! I can see why you touched. I have to pull a cake out of the oven, I'll try to have a better look a bit later.

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posted March 01, 2017 04:17 PM            

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Yeah, it also has the moon involved and that is a very sensitive area. You have kind of an unusual situation there, moon is much happier in cancer than Mars. Also people born with the moon near the ascendent are sensitive to the nth degree. With Pluto squaring it can be intensively felt.

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posted March 01, 2017 05:55 PM            

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Thank you for looking!
Yes, sensitive for sure! The connection we have is very close and intense. Even though there are circumstances that cause me from going back to him, I swear he's all I think about. And i think he feels the same. Thinhsbhave just gotten weird between us - it feels very plutoish! Intense, emotional, a need to see each other.. and now the games have come into play.. I just don't know what to do except try to get away from it all. It's too much, even with the amount of love I feel for him. I'm just wondering if on his side -(he's the 9/15/79) how he's going to take my disappearing.. if he'll continue to keep doing things to stay in my life somehow or if he'll just disappear as well eventually. I know it's probably hard to tell from a chart, but since he's a Virgo, sometimes it's hard to tell what's going on in his mind..

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posted March 01, 2017 07:11 PM            

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It's the Saturn. You guys have mutual Saturn/venus with the sun involved.

Stelliums of it.

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posted March 02, 2017 10:49 AM            

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Oh! I didn't know we had double venus/Saturn!

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posted March 04, 2017 11:27 PM            

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I had this aspect with someone and I felt the same way, the other was crazy and did thing to manipulate the situation etc. So I watched a video on it and it said that pluto could seem to want to control the actions of the mars person and that it would make the other person act out. To some degree I did tell him how to act , how he was going to treat me and how he was not going to treat me but in the same sense , it really is who I am. In the end though we ended up being good friends, I can't go back into things because I got tired of war, I just enjoyed the friendship more than anything.

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