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Topic: Lilith conjunct Mars Synastry
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areesquivel Knowflake Posts: 344 From: Registered: Feb 2016
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posted March 01, 2017 01:17 AM
I have this with someone and I was wondering how this feels, I've been dating this guy for such short period of time to tell but his Lilith conjunct my Mars at 5' Leo exact. Have any of you experience this in synastry? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 79389 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 01, 2017 01:23 AM
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angel4845 Knowflake Posts: 2977 From: USA Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 02, 2017 12:38 PM
You are very sexually attracted to him. The sex for you probably feels amazing mainly on your part. HOWEVER, The REST OF YOUR CHART and HIS has to be taken into account but this aspect alone without any other harsh contacts coming to his Lilith and your mars i would say very amazing and inguldging the sex can be for you. He defently has YOUR mars in control. ------------------ Addicted to Self Relfection - Jupiter R in the 12th House IP: Logged |
angel4845 Knowflake Posts: 2977 From: USA Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 02, 2017 12:39 PM
How do I know? Because I also have this in synastry except I'm the Lilith. ------------------ Addicted to Self Relfection - Jupiter R in the 12th House IP: Logged |
areesquivel Knowflake Posts: 344 From: Registered: Feb 2016
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posted March 02, 2017 01:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by angel4845: How do I know? Because I also have this in synastry except I'm the Lilith.
And for you how does Lilith feel ? I want to know on his side :O
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areesquivel Knowflake Posts: 344 From: Registered: Feb 2016
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posted March 03, 2017 11:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by angel4845: You are very sexually attracted to him. The sex for you probably feels amazing mainly on your part. HOWEVER, The REST OF YOUR CHART and HIS has to be taken into account but this aspect alone without any other harsh contacts coming to his Lilith and your mars i would say very amazing and inguldging the sex can be for you. He defently has YOUR mars in control.
His Lilith sextile Moon and square Pluto and my Mars trine Saturn, North Node, square Jupiter, Pluto and ASC so my Mars has harsh aspects I guess. IP: Logged |
Mariamne Mara Knowflake Posts: 28 From: Spain Registered: Feb 2017
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posted March 06, 2017 05:03 AM
I have this with the big love of my life. I am Capricorn Lilith in house XII 14º degree, my Lilith also conjuncts his Cappy Moon in house VI. He's a Scorpio Sun, I am Scorpio Moon conjunct his Sun. His asteroid name is on my DC...tons of soulmate connetions. He decided to move to another city and now he lives with his boyfriend. We share Venus/South Node connections. Well, first day we saw it was love at first sight. He had a passionate romance, intermitent, but when he moved everything ended in a sudden way.
As far as my Lilith is concerned, I have not been abled to forget him, always in my mind, a little obssesed with him. He felt drawned to me, is all I can say, we had a strong connection when we were together. Cannot speak from the Mars standpoint because is his placement, but we had a strong sexual attraction and energy. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 1333 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted March 06, 2017 06:02 AM
I have a prominent lilith in my chart so I guess I don't get very obsessed (at least no more) when someone has things like venus or mars conjunct my lilith. I have (true) lilith exactly conjunct my bf's mars. so her mars also squares my moon exact. I wouldn't say obsessed, but we're very close. her sun is also exactly conjunct my DC exact, and I would say this aspect is probably the one creating the strong bond IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 1333 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted March 06, 2017 06:04 AM
* just to clarify, by bf I mean best friend (of 7 years), not boyfriend!IP: Logged |
areesquivel Knowflake Posts: 344 From: Registered: Feb 2016
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posted March 06, 2017 07:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by Mariamne Mara: I have this with the big love of my life. I am Capricorn Lilith in house XII 14º degree, my Lilith also conjuncts his Cappy Moon in house VI. He's a Scorpio Sun, I am Scorpio Moon conjunct his Sun. His asteroid name is on my DC...tons of soulmate connetions. He decided to move to another city and now he lives with his boyfriend. We share Venus/South Node connections. Well, first day we saw it was love at first sight. He had a passionate romance, intermitent, but when he moved everything ended in a sudden way.
As far as my Lilith is concerned, I have not been abled to forget him, always in my mind, a little obssesed with him. He felt drawned to me, is all I can say, we had a strong connection when we were together. Cannot speak from the Mars standpoint because is his placement, but we had a strong sexual attraction and energy.
So I guess Lilith is kinda obsessed with Mars but then again Mars feels sexually attracted to Lilith, I can sort of speak for Mars, this is what I have with this guy, as far as sexual connection, I do feel both of us feel attracted to the other though,, we have nothing romantically yet for example.
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areesquivel Knowflake Posts: 344 From: Registered: Feb 2016
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posted March 06, 2017 07:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: I have a prominent lilith in my chart so I guess I don't get very obsessed (at least no more) when someone has things like venus or mars conjunct my lilith. I have (true) lilith exactly conjunct my bf's mars. so her mars also squares my moon exact. I wouldn't say obsessed, but we're very close. her sun is also exactly conjunct my DC exact, and I would say this aspect is probably the one creating the strong bond
I can see then, when you have this and the relationship is none romantic then a strong bond can be created, that sounds nice. This guy I feel a good connection with, we share so much, but we've been dating for a month now and no serious commitment have been made though I do feel ver drawn to him, I'm Mars
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angel4845 Knowflake Posts: 2977 From: USA Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 06, 2017 12:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by areesquivel: And for you how does Lilith feel ? I want to know on his side :O
I feel I have control over her and I am sexually into drawn to her but I feel she is more hypnotized by me then myself. I defently feel I have the upper hand. ------------------ Addicted to Self Relfection - Jupiter R in the 12th House IP: Logged |
Mariamne Mara Knowflake Posts: 28 From: Spain Registered: Feb 2017
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posted March 07, 2017 04:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by areesquivel: So I guess Lilith is kinda obsessed with Mars but then again Mars feels sexually attracted to Lilith, I can sort of speak for Mars, this is what I have with this guy, as far as sexual connection, I do feel both of us feel attracted to the other though,, we have nothing romantically yet for example.
Have to fix a mistake because in my post I said he is living now with "his boyfriend" and I meant "his girlfriend" (he's not gay, is my troll keyboard).
I am Capricorn Lilith conjunct Juno in house XII, his house VI conjunct his Moon and Mars (so Lilith and Juno conjunct his planets, we have a difference of birthtimes of three weeks only). He felt totally drawn to me, sexually speaking. When we met it was like Universe exploded (soulmates connections involving several point of the charts, such as the Nodes. We had a passionate intermitent relationship, but he left when he moved. My Lilith will never forget him (He's a Scorpio Sun with Saggy Venus, I am a Saggy SUn with Scorpio Moon). I don't know if he stills thinks about me. I don't see him since two years ago but have friends in common so I always am updated about his life. Is the worst thing: never forget. Have tried having other relationships but is not possible, I was struck by him. Horrible, just horrible. I just want to move forward and his memory is stuck in my head. Sometimes I feel like we have to meet again, for any karmic reason. IP: Logged |
LexusVirgo Knowflake Posts: 1107 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 08, 2017 05:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by angel4845: I feel I have control over her and I am sexually into drawn to her but I feel she is more hypnotized by me then myself. I defently feel I have the upper hand.
Wow just wow.. Your amazingly self assured And just so you know it's usually the lillith that does the obsessing not the planet person read many posts on this. IP: Logged |
areesquivel Knowflake Posts: 344 From: Registered: Feb 2016
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posted March 08, 2017 08:39 AM
From what I've experienced so far with this placement is that yes somehow I (Mars) feel super attracted to him actually completely let my guard down with him, I still can't figure out how his Lilith is working for him, if he's obsessed or not is something he wouldn't say obviously, I have this placement with other guy, his Lilith in cancer conjunct my Venus in cancer and he does act like he's obsessed with me, I as the Venus don't feel that attracted to him, weirdly enough the guy I have Mars/Lilith conjunction is the one that at this moment drives me kinda crazy though again, I don't feel I have obsesive feelings for him.IP: Logged |
angel4845 Knowflake Posts: 2977 From: USA Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 08, 2017 08:53 AM
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angel4845 Knowflake Posts: 2977 From: USA Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 08, 2017 09:08 AM
People let's not say OBSESSED ANYMORE I THINK OBSESSION HERE IS NOT THE RIGHT WORD AT ALL!!! My gf who is mars is very drawn to me sexually. I have the upper hand and I do feel that in this relationship and USUALLY I don't have the upper hand. I have been in many LILITH relationships and in my experience it's usually me or the other as the planet person BUT THEN AGAIN it depends how the individual is obsessed prone. Also we have to take into consideration of the REST OF THE CHART!!!!!!!!!! ------------------ Addicted to Self Relfection - Jupiter R in the 12th House IP: Logged |
jjj Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 08, 2017 10:05 AM
I have tons of Lilith with a guy (to his sun Venus mars) and his liliths aspect my sun, moon, Venus, mars, we are both v attracted to each other , like magnetized or bewitched.IP: Logged |
angel4845 Knowflake Posts: 2977 From: USA Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 08, 2017 11:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by jjj: I have tons of Lilith with a guy (to his sun Venus mars) and his liliths aspect my sun, moon, Venus, mars, we are both v attracted to each other , like magnetized or bewitched. I'd say he is terrified of me, and it drives me crazy..,, he even admitted to a mutual friend he wants to have something w me, but he continues running away.. I think Lilith relship feels dangerous and forbidden, plus he is married.
Jj I see this a lot with friends of mine who get involved with married men or women I'm not surprised you mention that. I've had a man's sun cancer conjunct my MIDHEAVEN/LILITH/MEDUSA and this man was terrified of me yet very attracted to me. ------------------ Addicted to Self Relfection - Jupiter R in the 12th House IP: Logged |
jjj Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 08, 2017 11:51 AM
I m just afraid that nothing will come of it, I want him so badly that I can't think straight🙈. He confessed to a mutual friend - that he is v afraid of me, - that I'm dangerous to him (Lilith in a nutshell) and this is a guy who is brave as hell! I think our most interesting aspect is my Taurus Saturn -Juno conjunction exactly on his Lilith. I wonder if my Saturn hinders his Lilith... IP: Logged |
angel4845 Knowflake Posts: 2977 From: USA Registered: Oct 2014
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posted March 08, 2017 02:40 PM
What does the synastry look like jjj? Do you have his exact time of birth? You have Saturn conjunct juno? Are you very loyal? ------------------ Addicted to Self Relfection - Jupiter R in the 12th House IP: Logged |
jjj Knowflake Posts: 444 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted March 08, 2017 06:37 PM
With Saturn - Juno I'm very loyal, but also very selective, I have been single for years btw relationships... i don't know his birth time, but we have many double whammies and his Pisces sun makes my AC and Venus into a grand water trine and I complete his grand air trine. Our Venus/mars midpoints are opposite each other and conjunct the same Lilith-Saturn axis. The biggest hurdle seems to be his natal moon-Uranus opposition that squares my natal Venus-Saturn opposition... two insecure and blocked individuals playing games with Lilith and Chiron.., can't post the chart now.But yeah I think that both parties are involved in this Lilith attraction.,, the Lilith and the planet person. IP: Logged |