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Topic: Shhhhhhhhhhhh覧覧覧覧覧The Absolute Hottest Sexual Aspect湧umber One
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Choc Knowflake Posts: 647 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 27, 2017 09:01 PM
Extremely problematic and misguided how you create parallels between a hot relationship and sexual and psychological abuse. Sex is sex and abuse is abuse. A hot aspect isn't and should never be an aspect indicative of abuse of any type.
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Gracha Knowflake Posts: 512 From: NY USA Registered: Jan 2013
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posted September 09, 2017 09:32 PM
Hey Ami what do you say about man's nessus conjunct woman's ascendant in cancer? I have this aspect with the love of my life, hard relationship to leave til this day.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 09, 2017 09:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gracha: Hey Ami what do you say about man's nessus conjunct woman's ascendant in cancer? I have this aspect with the love of my life, hard relationship to leave til this day.
He, likely, is abusive. With this Nessus energy, people feel a real URGE to abuse. I don't think the Nessus/ASC is as strong as the Nessus/personal planet, in terms of not being as abusive, BUT I would steer clear of Nessus, if I could, my Friend. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Gracha Knowflake Posts: 512 From: NY USA Registered: Jan 2013
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posted September 10, 2017 11:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: He, likely, is abusive. With this Nessus energy, people feel a real URGE to abuse. I don't think the Nessus/ASC is as strong as the Nessus/personal planet, in terms of not being as abusive, BUT I would steer clear of Nessus, if I could, my Friend.
Thank you Ami Anne, His nessus square my Aries Mars, do you think this would lead to physical abuse? I did see his abusive tendencies which is why I keep him at a distance but I must admit it's hard. We still talk on the phone and its hard. I've always been afraid to live with him because I'm afraid he might become physically abusive IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 10, 2017 11:21 AM
If it is 1-2 degrees, it is, likely, he would, in my opinion, G.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Melinn Knowflake Posts: 1366 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted September 10, 2017 11:44 AM
I have this in synastry with a friend I have feelings for, my Nessus Conj his Sun by 2 degrees.I don't know anything about how this should feel so I'm at lost with this one. Neither him or I is abusive people so dunno. He also has Nessus conj his sun natally. But he is the kindest person ever. We have lots of mars-venus action. Those energies I get. But Nessus, not much. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 10, 2017 12:13 PM
Just put it in the back of your mind and notice if it plays out at a later point, my Friend. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Sinder Knowflake Posts: 90 From: Edison, NJ, USA Registered: Aug 2019
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posted October 30, 2019 10:02 PM
How about this..person A痴 Nessus Conj Pluto conj Sun moon midpoint Person B痴 Dejanira conj Sun moon Midpoint All of them Person A痴 and Person B痴 above mentioned things all conj. (Especially tight is Nessus Dejanira conj by exact) Who feels more obsessive towards the other? IP: Logged |
virgoscorpio Knowflake Posts: 85 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted October 31, 2019 06:22 AM
I知 also going to disagree with this post. My husband and I have Nessus conjunction sun both ways within one degree in synastry. There has never been abuse of any kind and it has been the most loving, caring relationship I致e ever had. We have a very spiritual connection more than anything else. It has never been lustful or obsessive and sometimes I almost feel like we are more friends than lovers, which can be a little weird. IP: Logged |
Sinder Knowflake Posts: 90 From: Edison, NJ, USA Registered: Aug 2019
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posted October 31, 2019 06:58 AM
What about Nessus Conj Dejanira exact degree? And the 2 midpoints are also involved? IP: Logged |
CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted October 31, 2019 12:23 PM
How about this one? Nessus conjunct Nessus! What does it mean? Plus his Nessus opposite my Venus (-1.23 degrees orb).IP: Logged |
FireAndEarth Knowflake Posts: 37 From: Registered: Oct 2019
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posted October 31, 2019 12:37 PM
Meh. Don't want to get involved. (Edit) IP: Logged |
Sinder Knowflake Posts: 90 From: Edison, NJ, USA Registered: Aug 2019
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posted October 31, 2019 03:03 PM
What about Nessus and Pluto Conjunct Dejanira by 0 degree?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 31, 2019 04:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by CapriciousCapricorn: How about this one? Nessus conjunct Nessus! What does it mean? Plus his Nessus opposite my Venus (-1.23 degrees orb).
If born close in time, everyone would have it.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 73433 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted October 31, 2019 04:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sinder: What about Nessus Conj Dejanira exact degree? And the 2 midpoints are also involved?
Nessus may abuse Deja but you need the whole chart cuz if the Deja person has a strong Pluto or Mars, they would fight back.
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Sinder Knowflake Posts: 90 From: Edison, NJ, USA Registered: Aug 2019
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posted October 31, 2019 04:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Nessus may abuse Deja but you need the whole chart cuz if the Deja person has a strong Pluto or Mars, they would fight back.
But what about the attraction? Since Nessus and Dejanira are both about the hottest and second hottest aspects.... What would mean if they are conj? IP: Logged |
Moonbeth Knowflake Posts: 382 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted October 31, 2019 05:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Choc: Extremely problematic and misguided how you create parallels between a hot relationship and sexual and psychological abuse. Sex is sex and abuse is abuse. A hot aspect isn't and should never be an aspect indicative of abuse of any type.
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CapriciousCapricorn Knowflake Posts: 1489 From: Registered: Sep 2015
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posted October 31, 2019 07:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: If born close in time, everyone would have it.
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Sinder Knowflake Posts: 90 From: Edison, NJ, USA Registered: Aug 2019
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posted November 01, 2019 08:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Sinder: But what about the attraction? Since Nessus and Dejanira are both about the hottest and second hottest aspects.... What would mean if they are conj?
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margym0o Knowflake Posts: 1218 From: The Great White North Registered: Jul 2014
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posted November 01, 2019 11:20 AM
Asteroids (save for a few big ones) don't count for much, IMO. Never look at them. There's enough going on with the major planets to tell you pretty much everything you need to know. Any more and you're just reaching for a particular conclusion (at which point you can create just about any narrative). IP: Logged |
AriesLilith Knowflake Posts: 774 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 01, 2019 11:57 AM
A reason abuse may seem hot is because the victims may have low self-esteem and all the intensity of the attention makes them feel needed and appreciated. Abusive patterns may also be familiar to them so they gravitate towards it. They may not perceive it as bad enough as it was something they always knew, probably from childhood, so they don稚 know well about distinguishing what痴 actually healthy and what痴 not.On the other hand, the abuser is intense because of insecurity and low self-esteem as well. They bond and they do everything so the other person would stay with them. Everything can revolve about the other person because they may not have a healthy sense of self. Maybe as we realize and break from these patterns, we begin to see that these are not that hot. Of course, we can also reach the positive sides of Nessus and Dejanira, which are healing, being stronger and understanding our pains and resentment better and letting things go. IP: Logged |
Moonbeth Knowflake Posts: 382 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted November 01, 2019 12:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by AriesLilith: A reason abuse may seem hot is because the victims may have low self-esteem and all the intensity of the attention makes them feel needed and appreciated. Abusive patterns may also be familiar to them so they gravitate towards it. They may not perceive it as bad enough as it was something they always knew, probably from childhood, so they don稚 know well about distinguishing what痴 actually healthy and what痴 not.On the other hand, the abuser is intense because of insecurity and low self-esteem as well. They bond and they do everything so the other person would stay with them. Everything can revolve about the other person because they may not have a healthy sense of self. Maybe as we realize and break from these patterns, we begin to see that these are not that hot. Of course, we can also reach the positive sides of Nessus and Dejanira, which are healing, being stronger and understanding our pains and resentment better and letting things go.
Have you ever been abused?
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 12943 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 01, 2019 02:19 PM
Abuse is never hot. I personally am not into anyone hurting me (or getting close to it), because I was strangled, and I've dealt with other kinds of violence. When it comes to women I've known, who do like certain things, it has nothing to do with liking abuse and wanting attention. It was about giving up control to someone they trusted to keep them safe, and make them feel good. I don't know how that works in context, but it made sense to them, and they were alive and healthy. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 12943 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 01, 2019 02:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by Choc: Extremely problematic and misguided how you create parallels between a hot relationship and sexual and psychological abuse. Sex is sex and abuse is abuse. A hot aspect isn't and should never be an aspect indicative of abuse of any type.
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Moonbeth Knowflake Posts: 382 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted November 01, 2019 03:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: Abuse is never hot.
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