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Topic: Is this synastry all bad?
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lessica
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posted March 20, 2017 03:54 AM
  
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comdoc
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posted March 20, 2017 10:11 AM
Lessica, overall synastry potential of 45% (a little below average). So it's not all bad--just a little bad. Better to move on. quote:
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lessica
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posted March 20, 2017 04:38 PM
Thank you for replying!
I have been a bit lost with this as we get on so well and have been very committed since being together (just on 2 years). We are very different, but still can't seem to get enough of each other. The synastry did throw me, I guess it is safe to assume cracks will show eventually and it is best to end things nowIP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
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posted March 20, 2017 06:05 PM
Lessica,If you are in a committed relationship in which you get on well, it makes no sense to end it because of someone's perception of the astrology. Why not just enjoy your good luck with this person? Cracks can be repaired, even if they do show, and they usually appear in every relationship, regardless of the synastry. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted March 20, 2017 07:25 PM
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lessica
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posted March 20, 2017 09:15 PM
Thank you for the input everyone. I try to stay as objective as I can, but my last partner (from 19 years old until 27) was long lasting, and we were both loyal and committed, eventually the contradictions between us became blaringly obvious, and we went our separate ways. The synastry had similar points of incompatibility (prior to this I was very sceptical). I tend to take it more seriously now, as I don't want to do away with a long amount of time on something that isn't as progressive as it could be, like my last relationship. IP: Logged |
comdoc
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From: Tucson
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 21, 2017 01:08 AM
You're welcome. Are your planets blue inside? quote:
Originally posted by lessica:
Thank you for the input everyone. I try to stay as objective as I can, but my last partner (from 19 years old until 27) was long lasting, and we were both loyal and committed, eventually the contradictions between us became blaringly obvious, and we went our separate ways. The synastry had similar points of incompatibility (prior to this I was very sceptical). I tend to take it more seriously now, as I don't want to do away with a long amount of time on something that isn't as progressive as it could be, like my last relationship.
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lessica
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posted March 21, 2017 03:37 AM
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Originally posted by comdoc:
You're welcome. Are your planets blue inside?
yep, I am the virgo sun :] IP: Logged |
wal2
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posted March 21, 2017 09:43 AM
Hello, lessica. I can see clearly that there are some beneficial aspects that indicate compatibility between two people, namely Sun/Moon cross aspects. This is amplified by Red's Sun in Blue's 7th house of partnership and Blue's Moon in Red's 7th house of partnership. The partnership is idealized within one another with clear and distinct complementary roles each sees the other as playing. That's great! However, compatibility with another person, on the level of simply measuring the similar character and approach to life in one another, is well measured by harmony between the SAME planets in one another's chart. When we look to the Sun signs, we see they are in aversion. So, let's look to the sign ruler of each Sun. We see that Red's sun sign ruler, Mars, is trine to Blue's sun sign ruler, Mercury. Usually this would indicate harmonious reception. However, Mercury is opposing the other's Sun in Aries. This is a hard aspect which can indicate some fundamental inherences in character. While the sign rulers are well received by one another, we can see a slight fragmentation here on the part of the Mercury person in understanding how their ego merges with their partner.Now, when we examine Red's sun sign ruler of Mars, we can see that it makes an identical mirroring pattern in opposition Blue's Uranus and Saturn conjunction which is also trine Red's sun and Venus conjunction. When Uranus, a destabilizer, is in conjunction with Saturn, a stabilizer, we often see an individual who is conflicted as these two contrasting forces tend to fight for the microphone. In contact to Mars and the Sun this can indicate that Blue has a sometimes unpredictable and difficult to rationalize reaction to the assertive and proactive qualities of Red. Let's look to the Moon to see where emotional compatibility lies. Again, we see the moons are in aversion. Blue's Moon sign ruler is conjunct Saturn, and this is reciprocated as the same Saturn squares Red's moon. This can indicate constrained emotional expression or a certain fixed shallowness to the way one penetrates the other's psyche. This synastry indicates to me that the couple need to take extra conscious effort to share feelings and emotional support between one another. Red's Moon sign ruler, Mercury, is only making significant contact in square to the other's Venus. Red's Moon does not receive very harmonious placement in this synastry aside from conjunction to Blue's sun which can show that the moon's primary emotional focus of the other is effected off their personality. In a relationship with rich story progression we often see several aspects involving the outer planets. I don't see a lot of aspects here which is a potential concern for me. If there were no significant transits from outer planets at the time of getting together the compatibility or lack thereof of one another can possibly lack impetus to actually make something happen. You have mentioned dropping the relationship which would suggest to me that you are not pulled, as the synastry suggest, towards the effort in sustaining a relationship with this person. Check for significant transits at the time of getting together, as well as checking each other's current transits to see if there is not a current transit which is rustling the bushes in regards to your stability within this relationship. IP: Logged |
lessica
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posted March 21, 2017 05:52 PM
Thank you so much for this informative reply. Some of these were the aspects that stuck out to me too, but I will need to take my time to fully appreciate the big picture as I am a bit of a newbie. You are correct in that I don't feel anywhere near as much of a 'pull' as he does (oddly), but I have wondered if the sharpness in the synergy may be mutually beneficial at this point at least. I am forced to take a step back/slow down in most instances, as there isn't a free flowing understanding, I have to think objectively and precisely...which I am finding puts a stop to the parts of my personality that can be abrasive/domineering. I'd say the relationship is more about an appreciation of each other as completely separate beings, than an intertwining, if that makes sense? Thank you for your help IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted March 27, 2017 03:35 PM
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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Lessica,If you are in a committed relationship in which you get on well, it makes no sense to end it because of someone's perception of the astrology. Why not just enjoy your good luck with this person? Cracks can be repaired, even if they do show, and they usually appear in every relationship, regardless of the synastry.
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