posted March 27, 2017 02:48 AM            

one person's TOB isn't certain, so please overlook moon, vertex and house overlays

posted March 27, 2017 04:21 PM            

Your thoughts are very precious to me!

I met him in February, can't remember which day exactly but it was around the eclipse

I haven't asked him his TOB yet but I'm 80 percent sure of his AC (I actually think it's conjunt my north node, as his NN is square my AC), so the vertex might be correct

love or strong familiarity at first sight

it feels magnetic around him, perhaps too intense to the point that people around us can even get uncomfortable

He's younger yet we have a lot in common..we escape into art together and it feels peaceful (his sun is conjunt my moon with the orb of 2) but he's a bit restless and I sense that he wants to take things further faster

I wasn't sure if it would last, and I see that you agree, but I would wait and see how things unfold

Both his and my own busy daily schedule are getting in our way too and it can be annoying, but I guess I have to give my best to handle a relationship and my job together..in the past I always ended up sacrificing one for the other

dear Todd, thank you again and I will keep this updated on how this relationship will go, especially in june as you mentioned, in case you're interested

P.S
the cold and dark heart, I wonder if it'll turn out to be him, me or us both..the degree of the composite saturn is in a hard aspect to my natal sun, and so is the comp pluto, and the comp pluto is trine his natal sun..we shall see!

P.S 2
Just remembered, there's a big chance that I'll move out of this city in mid September, given I'm still alive on Earth! And that might actually be the end of us! Should check some transits for that time maybe..I wonder if I should tell him

posted March 30, 2017 04:50 AM            

it was interesting for me too to see those charts!

and you're right, the expectations and how we each are approaching this connection are very different, opposites even as you mentioned

I'd been done with dating for nearly a year, and thought I'd put all my time and energy into my work, then I met him out of the blue

I think of my relation with him as a very peaceful connection where I can get to be myself with no excuses, nothing he does limits me and I don't limit him either..but more importantly after meeting him I've been feeling more inspired and hopeful overall..not sure it's him only, there are some transits going on at moment as well

he on the other hand, is very much into the idea of girlfriend/boyfriend and that kind of youthful excitements, which I think his natal + event chart clearly shows

I hope this continues to be a relationship where everyone meets their needs and wishes!

~

@llewsacm

wow those similarities are uncanny!

thanks for sharing your experience, it helped immensely!

posted March 30, 2017 01:44 PM            

first was the lunar eclipse at 22 leo (conjunct the comp chiron), trine the comp sun, and then the solar eclipse in pisces conjunct the composite sun/moon midpoint

I'm beginning to think that eclipses are the most powerful triggers for events

posted March 30, 2017 03:03 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
something else I found interesting, was that the beginning of this relationship is sandwiched between two eclipses

first was the lunar eclipse at 22 leo (conjunct the comp chiron), trine the comp sun, and then the solar eclipse in pisces conjunct the composite sun/moon midpoint

I'm beginning to think that eclipses are the most powerful triggers for events

I think that transit saturn currently trining the comp sun/venus was a trigger as well, and transitting jupiter is also going back and forth opposing the comp sun/venus, squaring the moon

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posted April 09, 2017 02:40 AM            

so, as I'm getting busier with work, I feel like I'm getting really bored of him, then I meet his boss, turns out it's his birthday, and I start falling for him...this was last weekend and after a week I still feel the same...I saw the boss again yesterday and I think he's feeling some things too..I have no year of birth for him yet, and don't really see myself going anywhere with him, as we have very little in common

I'm glad I've made no promises to the guy in the chart, because I can now tell him we can continue as friends

posted April 12, 2017 10:42 AM            

the guy in the last chart is born around the same time as the guy in the first chart; he's only a month younger

I've known him since last year, and yes we tend to have small arguments quite a lot...we get along quite well but I feel like I lack some kind of true heart connection with him...like I can hear he's sick and hurting and I can be very late to call him and see how he's doing..I guess he feels the same...we can go on for weeks without any kind of contact, so you're right, some true friendship is lacking

I find him very attractive though (in a non-romantic way), we have a lot of fun (mixed with flirting) when we're hanging out; we can talk none stop for hours, and I literally own my career to him, he's thought me a lot

posted April 12, 2017 04:32 PM            

thank you for your feedback and I have to apologize foe not really getting into this chart as there are bulding tensions in my environment that may force a limiting of my time here.but we shall see.

anyways , I completely omitted commenting on the Saturn conjunction to midheaven conjunct the Lilith/moon conjunction. this pattern is opposed to the mars/Jupiter midpoint opposed to Lilith et.al.
this would symbolize exactly what you mentioned about him helping your career and his concern for you.
though it does surprise me bit because the Saturn/chiron midpoint is opposed to pluto which usually is quite detached at the minimum.
it maybe that the vertex/Lilith trine times the spontaneous affection and the sense of loyalty of the Saturn/moon/Lilith pattern, together.
of course this would then show a very strong "karmic" or otherworldly feeling between you.

posted April 23, 2017 10:24 PM            

no it's just the way I often talk when I'm talking about future plans! because of course no one knows for sure when going to bed each nigh if they'll ever wake up the next morning!

I think I should tone it down though, not to worry beautiful souls such as you

I'm actually a very hopeful person and often feel energetic and positive, and thankfully I'm happy and healthy right now, much better than any other time in my life perhaps!

posted April 24, 2017 01:20 AM            

and thanks for the positive vibes!