posted March 27, 2017 07:50 PM            

I let my guard down ONCE AGAIN and I feel terrible, I said goodbye to him and everything and when he left I sent him a text saying thank you for everything, and I still don't get an answer so my fears are all over the place with this, thinking the worst, If someone could help me with Synastry, see how we affect each other, maybe is just me, please please!

posted March 27, 2017 08:00 PM            

You guys have nice synastry. What's better than two water moons in a relationship? You both also have water Mercuries so there's a lot of intuitive, silent communication between the both of you that can feel very fulfilling and like you're alive for the first time in your lives.

His Juno on your IC could be a pretty big deal for the future.

My biggest concern is with transiting Venus RX going over his Sun/Jupiter, both of your NNs, and your Moon until April the 15th. Don't rush anything, don't force anything, don't try to make this into anything it's not just yet. Time is of the essence, and you'll be rewarded for patience with a transit like this. You're both really affected by this particular transit (especially him because his Sun/Jupiter's dispositor is Mars in Taurus, which is ruled by Venus), so nothing is "set in stone" just yet.

There's also a kite in the synastry which is very pretty. I see a lot of potential here. It mostly involves the general outer planets but *both* of your Mercuries, so it's safe to say you both find each other extremely interesting.

His Mars is sextile your Sun, your Mars is trine his Sun.. definitely no shortage of primal attraction in this pairing.

*You* should be careful though because his Neptune is opposite your Venus/Mercury, so you may not have the most accurate perception of who he is as a man.

posted March 27, 2017 08:12 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
He's an Aries Sun/Jupiter and an Aquarius Venus so it's best to take things slowly with them. Don't rush into things, otherwise they're going to feel suffocated, resentful, and feel like they need to set fire to something good just so they can feel "free" again.

You guys have nice synastry. What's better than two water moons in a relationship? You both also have water Mercuries so there's a lot of intuitive, silent communication between the both of you that can feel very fulfilling and like you're alive for the first time in your lives.

His Juno on your IC could be a pretty big deal for the future.

My biggest concern is with transiting Venus RX going over his Sun/Jupiter, both of your NNs, and your Moon until April the 15th. Don't rush anything, don't force anything, don't try to make this into anything it's not just yet. Time is of the essence, and you'll be rewarded for patience with a transit like this. You're both really affected by this particular transit (especially him because his Sun/Jupiter's dispositor is Mars in Taurus, which is ruled by Venus), so nothing is "set in stone" just yet.

There's also a kite in the synastry which is very pretty. I see a lot of potential here. It mostly involves the general outer planets but *both* of your Mercuries, so it's safe to say you both find each other extremely interesting.

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Thank you so much for taking your time on this! you have no idea how much this helps me.

Can I ask you based then on transits if maybe we have a shot? I mean we haven't spoke since he left and i know is too soon I just sent him a text and i want to let him text me back or call me, so I guess I should just give him time with all of this Venus Rx issues and stuff, maybe that's why I feel so affected also.
I can be patience, so I guess i should let him look for me.

posted March 27, 2017 08:21 PM            

*You* should be careful though because his Neptune is opposite your Venus/Mercury, so you may not have the most accurate perception of who he is as a man.

posted March 27, 2017 09:11 PM            

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Thank you so much for taking your time on this! you have no idea how much this helps me.

Can I ask you based then on transits if maybe we have a shot? I mean we haven't spoke since he left and i know is too soon I just sent him a text and i want to let him text me back or call me, so I guess I should just give him time with all of this Venus Rx issues and stuff, maybe that's why I feel so affected also.
I can be patience, so I guess i should let him look for me.

Thank you!

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Venus RX is always a shot in the dark, you know? Things never really work for me during this period, but it can for others. You don't have much Venus in your chart (Taurus/Libra) so I think you'll be fine and it's safe to say you'll still have deep feelings for him by the time April 15th passes.

Transit-wise.. you're both experiencing your Saturn return right now - so you're both really stepping into adulthood with a new level of maturity, and there's a desire to set new roots for the future at the moment. It's great you're both experiencing this transit together, as it can deepen new ties.

He no longer has transiting Uranus anywhere near his Sun/Jupiter so stability is looking good for him..

You, on the other hand, are experiencing a major Pluto opposition against all your Cancer planets, and you will for many years until it opposes your Sun. You're desiring to shed your old skin, your old attitudes about life, step into a new chapter, and reincarnate into the woman you've always wanted to become.

Tonight is an Aries New Moon, which could be why you're feeling so antsy right now. It's on your NN (your sense of purpose) and his Sun/Jupiter, so there's this sense of "anxiety" because you feel the need for action.. but action shouldn't be utilized for a while. Try and sit with your discomfort and breathe. Everything is going to play out the way he needs to. He may not be texting you because you guys just spent so much time together, experienced a major emotional event (meeting your family), and he may just need space to himself. Men can be like that.

posted March 28, 2017 11:28 AM            

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Originally posted by areesquivel:
@athenaia Thank you so much for your words, I've been feeling pretty terrible about everything, trying to look for answers cause he's not giving me any, he hasn't texted me back yet, even my mom keeps asking me if we're still un touch and I want to cry overtime she asks.

I don't know been thinking a lot what went wrong though I have a lot of things that could went wrong, sorry for being so annoying I guess what I want to hear is if we still have a shot

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At the end of the day, there is nothing that will tell you with ABSOLUTE certainty whether or not you will reconnect with this man. That's the amazing thing about life, we haven't yet figured out a way to predict the future conclusively.

Analyzing your synastry will help shed some light on your connection though, and it seems as though you have some positive things working in your favour.

posted March 28, 2017 11:59 AM            

I understand that culturally and biologically you may feel a sense of urgency right now, but whenever anxiety governs our behavior, it's like the Universe moves the prize further and further away from us until we relax. So for now, don't think of your interactions as 'things that went wrong', just think of them as events that made you curious, and you're interested in how this uncovers more about him as a person.

posted March 28, 2017 04:06 PM            

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Originally posted by areesquivel:
@athenaia @margym0o

THANK YOU BOTH! for this, I feel better talking about it and even crying, is just I have the worst luck in love, I feel my desperation to fall in love is what makes rush things, I'll 30 in few months and I'm scared I won't meet anyone anymore

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Rest assured age is but a number and nothing to fear. Many fruitful and worthwhile partnerships are formed throughout life and many often benefit from pairing up later in life as opposed to very young because you and they have matured, so everyone has a clearer head (or you hope they do anyway).

posted March 28, 2017 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:

Turning 30 does not have the same stigma anymore. I know MANY people who have gotten married and had children even upwards of 40 nowadays (my sister-in-law had her first child at 37!) so worry less and just enjoy it more

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posted April 17, 2017 01:17 PM            

What do you think? cause I've been wanting to text him but I'm scared he might not answer.

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Originally posted by athenaia:
Venus RX is always a shot in the dark, you know? Things never really work for me during this period, but it can for others. You don't have much Venus in your chart (Taurus/Libra) so I think you'll be fine and it's safe to say you'll still have deep feelings for him by the time April 15th passes.

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