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Topic: He has so much water and I dont...can it work?
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AnastasiyaEnchanted
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From: Canada
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 07, 2017 07:45 PM
  
Hi! So i am dating this guy and all seems well so far. Got his birth info (his TOB is incorrect but mine is). He is very playful on the outside but says he is very introverted. What do you think of our synastry? Is he too sensitive for me? Is there compatibility?He is on the outside i am on the inside:  He's the left column  IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted April 08, 2017 01:02 PM
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colorful butterfly
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From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted April 08, 2017 02:02 PM
So I am no expert on reading charts but I will try to help you to the best of my knowledge. I hope others reply as well!!!You both have sun pluto and to me this will help you as pluto will will give your sun a more Scorpio vibe to it. Your Saturn's are both close to each others moons, this will feel heavy to you each other emotionally. Saturn is binding but also restrictive, heavy and can feel like a wet blanket. I wander how this will play out for you both? The only other concern is that your SN is conjunct his Jupiter, connections to the SN can feel comfortable at first but over time can hold the other back from reaching their NN. ( I am not sure how this will effect things for you, I have seen post that I looked up of people married to another with SN contacts) So I am unsure. I am a Cancer sun and do well with Water Sun placements, I notice people with Venus in Cancer or other Cancer placements, I find them really emotional and moody. I would think these things would be binding and meaningful. Nope Cancer venus can be really mean , nasty almost to me. I think it is because even though I have a Cancer sun, my venus is in Gemini. It runs away from things that are not fun, exciting, happy etc. My sun is caring and I do care but I will exit the minute things become too dull which makes me seem cold I guess to a Cancer venus. So having no water in your chart might be a good thing! IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted April 13, 2017 11:35 PM
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SecretGeek
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 14, 2017 01:00 AM
The red's Venus & Pluto midpoint energy appears to move through the red Mercury thereby influencing the blue Sun. The other side's midpoint is off a tad but close to the same.IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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From: Portland, OR - USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted April 14, 2017 07:02 PM
The compatibility is created in part by his planets that are not in water signs making conjunctions, etc, to yours. Compatibility is relative to your expectations and willingness to bend a bit -- you know like a strong tree in the wind.Compatibility is fundamentally alignment of planets -- inter-aspects -- not signs. This synastry between planets and nodes is overwhelmingly positive ... if you're into that sort of thing. I count 26 positive/supportive aspects to only 6 negative/challenging. What more do you want? ------------------
The Declinations Guy
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AnastasiyaEnchanted
Knowflake Posts: 343
From: Canada
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 16, 2017 04:10 AM
Thank you for the replies  I just see that our sun and moon signs are different so could this cause a lot of trouble? I just always thought that the inter aspects between these two planets is what determines true emotional compatibility. Do you think that the other positive aspects we have could triumph the sun and moon? IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted April 16, 2017 05:08 AM
they say we're often attracted to the element we lack, however the longevity of a relationship is determined by many other aspectscheck out this link, I personally found it very helpful
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Kannon McAfee
Moderator Posts: 2230
From: Portland, OR - USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted April 16, 2017 03:33 PM
Many couples have Sun and Moon signs that are not the same, or the same element, or the same polarity. That does not prevent compatibility.My wife's Moon is in Leo, mine is in Capricorn. Her Moon is contra-parallel My Jupiter. That makes a great point of compatibility. Her Sun is in Gemini, but is conjunct my Midheaven and square my Asc. My Sun is in Taurus, but my Mercury in Taurus is opposite her Asc. You have to outgrow the thinking that 'opposite' or 'square' = bad, or that a few challenging aspects (or several) somehow damage compatibility. This is to focus in on a few trees in the forest. What matters is if your charts show a predominance of positive/supporting aspects over negative/challenging ones -- at least in terms of the overall picture once planets/aspects are weighted for effect. The synastry here is so positive, even if you had negative aspects added by adding in those specific to Asc, MC, etc, it would not be enough to turn the synastry negative. ------------------
The Declinations Guy
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