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Topic: Ascendant opposite ascendant in synastry?
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Amonuet
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From: Edmonton, Alberta
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posted April 11, 2017 12:12 PM
  
I was wondering if anyone has ever seen this in a synastry chart before? Our ascendants are opposite on another by a -0°38' orb. When I tried researching this aspect, I honestly couldn't find anything about it at all. I am a double Taurus ascending Gemini, he is a double Aquarius ascending Sagittarius. I have had an interesting off and on relationship with this man for almost three years. We have never fought or anything, we love and care for one another, but the age difference seems to conflict a lot with our commitment. What are some things you guys see in these synastry charts? I noticed yesterday that my Juno is also in Aquarius, I know that usually indicates marriage for a man, but how does that work in woman's chart?  quote:
EDIT: I posted a synastry chart that is hopefully easier to view, as well as a composite mid-point chart. IP: Logged |
SirenSong
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posted April 11, 2017 03:35 PM
Had a hard time popping up the charts, but I had it once with my favourite author and she always seemed to speak to me although the pronounced difference in character was apparent. Venus on the south node often signals age difference between you and the significant other. It's just a sort of discrepancy in time, something off in the timing. IP: Logged |
Beautiful_Light
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posted April 11, 2017 04:24 PM
Yay...another May 91er!Flipped angles are really cool and you will be drawn to each other because the other person is what you are looking for in terms of an "other". IP: Logged |
Amonuet
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From: Edmonton, Alberta
Registered: Apr 2017
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posted April 11, 2017 11:19 PM
I updated this post, hopefully everyone can see the charts now! Please bare with me and my noobiness haha. Venus on the south node is interesting, and I would say bad timing is certainly a reoccurring theme throughout our relationship. quote:
Yay...another May 91er!
Yay haha! I haven't met all too many, believe me lol.
I was just recently reading about the rare Neptune Conjunct Uranus aspect in my chart. I noticed this transit ended exactly the year of his birth, so he was one of the last of that generation. Perhaps that is another reason why we have such an intense connection as well.I have been magnetically drawn to him since I first laid eyes on him. He is inquisitively gorgeous with the unworldly sea-green eyes, like a Lothlien elf lol! Sighhh. This mercury in retrograde in Taurus and the pink Libra Moon is not doing my heart any favors. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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posted April 11, 2017 11:35 PM
Yes, this is a classic synastry 'fit.' Many couples have this, although it is certainly not a standard to expect.However, you have over-estimated the accuracy of both these Ascendants given they are created by rounded hour times. So measures of orbs in minutes of arc become irrelevant. No asteroid by itself indicates marriage. What matters is the overall compatibility based on the whole synastry. That can be seen highlighted in part by your Sun-Moon trine his Mercury-Neptune, and the Venus-Venus / Venus-Jupiter aspects between your charts. Just looking at the aspects of planets and nodes in longitude, this is a very good synastry. ------------------
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llewsacm
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posted April 11, 2017 11:47 PM
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Originally posted by Amonuet:
I was wondering if anyone has ever seen this in a synastry chart before? Our ascendants are opposite on another by a -0°38' orb. When I tried researching this aspect, I honestly couldn't find anything about it at all. I am a double Taurus ascending Gemini, he is a double Aquarius ascending Sagittarius. I have had an interesting off and on relationship with this man for almost three years. We have never fought or anything, we love and care for one another, but the age difference seems to conflict a lot with our commitment. What are some things you guys see in these synastry charts? I noticed yesterday that my Juno is also in Aquarius, I know that usually indicates marriage for a man, but how does that work in woman's chart? EDIT: I posted a synastry chart that is hopefully easier to view, as well as a composite mid-point chart.
I had the ASC/DSC swap with my ex husband. It is a strong attraction factor. I would think there would be a strong urge here for intimacy and sex with the charts you have posted. He is triggering something in you to think about a long term relationship. His sun is falling in your 9th ruled by Sagittarius. Sag is your 7th house cusp and anything that falls there or your 9th will make you think about commitment. If the birth times are correct that is... Not a huge difference in age...Not sure why that is of a concern.
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Amonuet
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posted April 12, 2017 12:25 AM
Interesting, I did not realize this was such a classic fit - this whole time I have been feeling pretty lost within our charts. I haven't actually haven't seen a natal chart that quite looks like his? He seems so polarized to one side, is this common?
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 However, you have over-estimated the accuracy of both these Ascendants given they are created by rounded hour times.
I have a bad memory, so I don't know if I trust this, but I do believe his mom said he was born around 6:10a.m. and he himself said it was "around six in the morning." I don't know the exact time of my birth and neither does my mom, I was born an emergency a C-section because I was coming out feet first. She awoke from being put under about one hour after I popped, which was around 8a.m. so I have had to estimate my birth time to around 7ish. quote:
It is a strong attraction factor. I would think there would be a strong urge here for intimacy and sex with the charts you have posted.
You got that right! We met on the dance floor and didn't even say anything to each other at first, we just danced until my legs were weak and then went out back to make out for two hours. I don't think we spoke more than 5 sentences to each other that night.  And we broke the bed when he took me home. Shhh! LOL! Three months later, I was his first girlfriend and he suggested my son and I move into a big home he rented from his mother, who in the end helped sabotaged the relationship. She went from loving to me to be incredibly supportive of our relationship, to utterly despising me for seemingly no cause (jealously maybe?) I did notice his Lilith is in Cancer, and that entails some major control issues on the part of his mother. He and my son actually both share the Lilith in Cancer. They share the same birth number (big Vin born Jan 22, lil Vin born Aug 22) and well - almost share the exact same name!
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Amonuet
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posted April 14, 2017 06:11 PM
Bump bump! ^_^ ------------------
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Randall
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posted April 20, 2017 10:19 PM
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Randall
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posted April 27, 2017 08:15 AM
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posted December 08, 2023 11:37 AM
I have this with a friend, not that it was instant atttaction at first sight but yes it was quick, I felt it at 3rd or 4th. Altough I caught him many times staring from the start. opposites attract. It was unlike anything I had ever called love before. It might not have been love, but a great curiosity and attraction. A great sense of completion when we are together. You feel you are in the wrong place but you don't want to leave. The circumstances and conditions don't suit you, but you want it to continue. We also had sun opposite sun. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted December 26, 2023 07:26 PM
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posted December 26, 2023 10:35 PM
Love a good 12th house composite-- though it can sometimes mean that the connection may stay very private from the world, and sometimes suffer if there is too much public influence. 12th house flourishes when a spiritual take is had as well! However it may be a long time practice of getting to know each other there (or perhaps a feeling of a lot of work already done...) as Saturn in the 12th can be really heavy and also really wholesome. It can be nightmares or a tremendous feeling of safety. Sometimes both! Mercury there could mean the mental connection needs a lot of nourishment, patience and comfortability in coming and going. Mercury needs freedom to come and go-- but as it's also close to the ascendant this may be less of an issue and more natural. IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted January 16, 2024 04:22 PM
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Randall
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posted January 20, 2024 10:13 AM
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Randall
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posted February 11, 2024 08:46 PM
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