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Topic: Strong Connection but bad Synastry/Composite
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TaurusVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
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posted April 20, 2017 10:55 AM
If there is a not so great Synastry/Composite chart between two people with a love interest, then why is the connection so strong and the pull so strong between the 2 people?Wouldn't there just be nothing there to begin with? IP: Logged |
comdoc Knowflake Posts: 676 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted April 20, 2017 11:26 AM
Synastry and Composite indicate longterm potentials. Strong attraction in the short term can fade away after the test of time (progressions and transits change). If your goal is longterm love interest, sometimes it may be better to resist the strong pulls. If FWB or temporary intimacy is your goal, by all means, go for it. Just don't expect lasting love. quote: Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl: If there is a not so great Synastry/Composite chart between two people with a love interest, then why is the connection so strong and the pull so strong between the 2 people?Wouldn't there just be nothing there to begin with?
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SecretGeek Knowflake Posts: 105 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 20, 2017 11:33 AM
I would say there could be something you are not seeing and/or not comprehending.IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Moderator Posts: 2254 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted April 20, 2017 07:09 PM
SecretGeek hit on the most likely scenario. People have off kilter ideas about what 'bad' synastry composite are. Many astrologists and most people here would probably consider my synastry with my wife to be 'bad', but we are best friends and having a growing relationship that gets better in some way every year.Some tips: Don't rely on a reductionist notion like oppositions and squares are all 'bad' or challenging. In synastry (as with transits, ala Robert Hand) benefics in any aspects between two charts set up a good basis for friendship and fair play. That means Venus-A square/opposite/contra-parallel Sun/Venus/Jupiter/Moon-B; same for Sun and Jupiter. Moon in any aspect with Jupiter is helpful and supportive. Always include the declinations for a full picture. I couldn't count how many flat wheel charts did not show the most important synastry points of love/affection/friendship/bonds until the parallels and contra-parallels of declination are tallied. ------------------ The Declinations Guy Rising Sign Descriptions ♈ ♉ ♊ ♋ ♌ ♍ ♎ ♏ ♐ ♑ ♒ ♓ IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
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posted April 21, 2017 07:53 AM
Wouldn't you still need good Syn/Com charts to want to have sex with them also? IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
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posted April 21, 2017 07:54 AM
Kannon, I have no idea what "declination" but thanks for your reply. IP: Logged |