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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted April 20, 2017 10:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If there is a not so great Synastry/Composite chart between two people with a love interest, then why is the connection so strong and the pull so strong between the 2 people?

Wouldn't there just be nothing there to begin with?

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comdoc
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posted April 20, 2017 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Synastry and Composite indicate longterm potentials. Strong attraction in the short term can fade away after the test of time (progressions and transits change). If your goal is longterm love interest, sometimes it may be better to resist the strong pulls. If FWB or temporary intimacy is your goal, by all means, go for it. Just don't expect lasting love.

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
If there is a not so great Synastry/Composite chart between two people with a love interest, then why is the connection so strong and the pull so strong between the 2 people?

Wouldn't there just be nothing there to begin with?


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SecretGeek
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posted April 20, 2017 11:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would say there could be something you are not seeing and/or not comprehending.

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Kannon McAfee
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posted April 20, 2017 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SecretGeek hit on the most likely scenario. People have off kilter ideas about what 'bad' synastry composite are. Many astrologists and most people here would probably consider my synastry with my wife to be 'bad', but we are best friends and having a growing relationship that gets better in some way every year.

Some tips:

Don't rely on a reductionist notion like oppositions and squares are all 'bad' or challenging. In synastry (as with transits, ala Robert Hand) benefics in any aspects between two charts set up a good basis for friendship and fair play. That means Venus-A square/opposite/contra-parallel Sun/Venus/Jupiter/Moon-B; same for Sun and Jupiter. Moon in any aspect with Jupiter is helpful and supportive.

Always include the declinations for a full picture. I couldn't count how many flat wheel charts did not show the most important synastry points of love/affection/friendship/bonds until the parallels and contra-parallels of declination are tallied.

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted April 21, 2017 07:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wouldn't you still need good Syn/Com charts to want to have sex with them also?

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted April 21, 2017 07:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kannon, I have no idea what "declination" but thanks for your reply.

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